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    • WannabeFree
    • By WannabeFree 21st Nov 17, 11:04 AM
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    WannabeFree
    ôRock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.ö
    • #1
    • 21st Nov 17, 11:04 AM
    ôRock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.ö 21st Nov 17 at 11:04 AM
    Back in May this year I decided things had to change. I turned to here and received an amazing amount of help and advice. Here I am making a fresh start.

    Debt 09/05/2017

    Council Tax ú2092.71
    Court Fine ú1250
    Court Fine ú200
    Person 1 ú1000
    Person 2 ú1000
    Person 3 ú1379
    Person 4 ú427
    Debt Total ú7348.71

    Rent Arrears ú3381.28

    Total ú10729.99

    *Person 4 ú575
    *New Debt ú732
    *Debt 1 ú387.29
    *Debt 2 ú1451.40
    *Debt 3 ú1137.73
    *EDF ú3140.65

    Total ú18154.06

    *As more comes out from under the carpet I will update here.
    Last edited by WannabeFree; 21-11-2017 at 12:21 PM.
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    • UncannyScot
    • By UncannyScot 8th Sep 18, 1:14 PM
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    UncannyScot
    Hey missus, hoping all is ok with you and the wee ones.

    Always available if you need anything
    (((((HUGS)))))
    BUGGRITMILLENIUMHANDANDSHRIMP I TOLD EM! - Foul Ole Ron
    It is important that we know where we come from, because if you do not know where you come from, then you do not know where you are, and if you don't know where you are, then you don't know where you are going. If you don't know where you're going, you're probably going wrong.
    R.I.P. T.P.
    • Cumbria lass
    • By Cumbria lass 15th Sep 18, 8:55 AM
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    Cumbria lass
    Has anybody heard from Wannabe ?

    Hope things are ok, long time no hear.
    CC1 ú3140 Jan 2019
    • HairyHandofDartmoor
    • By HairyHandofDartmoor 15th Sep 18, 8:10 PM
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    HairyHandofDartmoor
    I hope you're okay Wannabe. Post when you can.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = ú58,766 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017
    NEW GOALS - Build Emergency Fund & Loss of Income Fund. Save for house repairs.
    EMERGENCY FUND = ú0
    "Tough times never last, but tough people do" - Robert H Schuller
    • Honeysucklelou2
    • By Honeysucklelou2 15th Sep 18, 11:24 PM
    • 1,352 Posts
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    Honeysucklelou2
    Hope the smalls have settled back/ into school and that you are all well.
    paydbx2019 #93 ú141.93/ú10,100 .
    School trips ú236/ú1200..
    • UncannyScot
    • By UncannyScot 17th Sep 18, 12:21 PM
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    UncannyScot
    Just posting up on behalf of Wannabe...

    She's having a very rough time at the moment and will be back when she feels up to posting again.

    Thanks to everyone for thinking of her and posting here, please keep doing so.

    BUGGRITMILLENIUMHANDANDSHRIMP I TOLD EM! - Foul Ole Ron
    It is important that we know where we come from, because if you do not know where you come from, then you do not know where you are, and if you don't know where you are, then you don't know where you are going. If you don't know where you're going, you're probably going wrong.
    R.I.P. T.P.
    • Cumbria lass
    • By Cumbria lass 17th Sep 18, 12:28 PM
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    Cumbria lass
    Thank you for the update US .

    Look forward to your return when you are better Wannabe .
    CC1 ú3140 Jan 2019
    • Toni'sfriend
    • By Toni'sfriend 17th Sep 18, 12:49 PM
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    Toni'sfriend
    Thanks US. If you're speaking to her please let her know I am thinking of her.
    • beanielou
    • By beanielou 17th Sep 18, 7:08 PM
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    beanielou
    Thanks for letting us know US.
    Please pass on my best wishes to her for me. Thanks.
    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/03/14.
    **Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** **Weight loss 2 stone 12 lbs **

    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    It starts with you, it starts from now. *** It is ok to be me.***
    ***Keep plodding***
    Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    • please-let-me-be-lucky
    • By please-let-me-be-lucky 17th Sep 18, 7:15 PM
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    please-let-me-be-lucky
    Thanks for letting us know US. Sending best wishes to wannabe. xx
    Debts @ LBM ú23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 ú0

    NSDs achieved in 2018 41/60
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
    • Sun Addict
    • By Sun Addict 17th Sep 18, 8:04 PM
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    Sun Addict
    Thanks for letting us know US

    We're all thinking about you Wanabe, fingers crossed things are better for you very soon xx
    Virtual Sealed Pot 2019 ú91.46
    Debt ú1570
    Weight loss 1.5/9LBS
    Emergency Fund ú3266.50/ú10,000
    • Suffolk lass
    • By Suffolk lass 17th Sep 18, 9:17 PM
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    Suffolk lass
    Thank you so much for the update. Lots of us hoping you feel better soon. Best wishes x
    MFiT T4 #2 90.89% after Q11 against target of ú60k balance - Mortgage Free Wannabes 2019 #107
    Save ú12k in 2019 - #68 target is ú7k (Save ú12k in 2018 saved 115.95% ú13,914.45)
    OS Grocery Challenge 2019 target is ú3k (2018 spent ú2,684.95/ú3,000 including stores 89.5%)
    My DFD is here
    • HairyHandofDartmoor
    • By HairyHandofDartmoor 17th Sep 18, 11:51 PM
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    HairyHandofDartmoor
    Thanks for letting us know US. We're all concerned for her and hope she feels a bit better soon.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = ú58,766 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017
    NEW GOALS - Build Emergency Fund & Loss of Income Fund. Save for house repairs.
    EMERGENCY FUND = ú0
    "Tough times never last, but tough people do" - Robert H Schuller
    • earthgirl
    • By earthgirl 23rd Sep 18, 11:07 AM
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    earthgirl
    Yes please say hi from me too and pass on my best wishes
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (ú220k) Bought Dream House Dec 13 - Mortage 2 -ú116,508. 15/7/18 Mortgage Free Again
    Kids savings 13,578/36k
    2k Monthly buffer 2k/2k Travel savings ú19,185
    • helsbell
    • By helsbell 23rd Sep 18, 11:28 AM
    • 204 Posts
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    helsbell
    Hi Wannabe

    I've not been here in a while but I saw that things are tough right now. I've seen you face more in the last couple of years than most people do in a lifetime, so I know that you are one of the strongest people around. I hope you're managing to take some time for yourself so that you can stay strong, and that you are able to ask for help when you need it. I know there are many people on this site who would help you however they could in a heartbeat, so lean on us, or anyone else you can.

    Post on here when you're ready and not before.

    (((((Hugs)))))
    SPC 11, No. 062 DFD November 2020
    Aug 2017 B'card ú5006.83 BoS ú1086.59 MBNA ú0 Total: ú6093.42
    Aug 2018 B'Card ú995.06 BoS ú863.43 MBNA ú3,644.98 Total: ú5503.47
    9.68% paid off
    • Toni'sfriend
    • By Toni'sfriend 23rd Sep 18, 4:09 PM
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    Toni'sfriend
    I've not been here in a while but I saw that things are tough right now. I've seen you face more in the last couple of years than most people do in a lifetime, so I know that you are one of the strongest people around. I hope you're managing to take some time for yourself so that you can stay strong, and that you are able to ask for help when you need it. I know there are many people on this site who would help you however they could in a heartbeat, so lean on us, or anyone else you can.

    Post on here when you're ready and not before.

    (((((Hugs)))))
    I'm sure we all echo that.
    • RosaBernicia
    • By RosaBernicia 23rd Sep 18, 4:32 PM
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    RosaBernicia
    Thanks for the update US, best wishes to Wannabe
    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016
    MFW progress 5% ...
    Campervan loan progress 14%

    • PositiveBalance
    • By PositiveBalance 30th Sep 18, 11:58 PM
    • 884 Posts
    • 4,641 Thanks
    PositiveBalance
    Thanks for the update, US and come back to us whenever you are ready, Wannabe..we'll have paper cup coffee and big hugs for you. x
    Original debt to source: ú11,640.02; debt repaid: ú6771.01 (58%); remaining debt: ú5069.01
    0% CC balance: ú4999.67 now
    ú2454.77 (50.9% repaid)
    Emergency Fund (#187): ú500/ú500
    Terrimundi: fleeced!
    • Cherryfudge
    • By Cherryfudge 1st Oct 18, 10:05 AM
    • 2,343 Posts
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    Cherryfudge
    Thinking of you Wannabe (proffers paper cuppa). xx
    MFW #30 Paid off ú4,100.58/ú3000 in 2018
    Decluttered in 2019: 151/2019 as of 20/1/19
    • WannabeFree
    • By WannabeFree 3rd Oct 18, 11:46 AM
    • 2,776 Posts
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    WannabeFree
    *Sneaks in *

    Thank you so much for all your replies,messages and texts.

    It's been far too long to know what to say. I'm still breathing though. I guess that's a good start.

    Thank you again

    x
    ôOnce you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.ö

    POAMAYC 19 #70 ú637.50/ú2070
    • UncannyScot
    • By UncannyScot 3rd Oct 18, 12:17 PM
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    UncannyScot
    Hiya

    (((((HUGS)))))

    You don't have to say anything you don't want to.
    We've got you and you've got us
    BUGGRITMILLENIUMHANDANDSHRIMP I TOLD EM! - Foul Ole Ron
    It is important that we know where we come from, because if you do not know where you come from, then you do not know where you are, and if you don't know where you are, then you don't know where you are going. If you don't know where you're going, you're probably going wrong.
    R.I.P. T.P.
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