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  • Cherryjack
    Cherryjack Posts: 1,125 Forumite
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    Lol I feel like I've taken over your thread!! But I assure you I'm not your ex..:rotfl: you wear and use that voice with pride :D:D:D:p
  • camz2017
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    Not at all. Today I've spent around £6, trying to cap my daily spend to £10, lets see how that works out.
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  • Cherryjack
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    3 no spend days here...I need to stay away fron Costa tommorow on my day off! Good effort :)
  • camz2017
    camz2017 Posts: 347 Forumite
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    Cherryjack wrote: »
    3 no spend days here...I need to stay away fron Costa tommorow on my day off! Good effort :)
    Hey huge congratulations on the 3 days no spend :) How much are you able to put away monthly?
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  • camz2017
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    Meeting my mum today, my dads recently had an affair so feel quite bad for her. Will try and keep my spending under control but likewise I do want to treat her, luckily I’ve got £200 from recent birthday.

    My ex was at my door last night, apparently she’s heard I’m talking to other girls and she was like “can we start seeing one another again?” I dunno it all seemed a bit desperate but I do feel kinda mean.
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  • camz2017
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    Driving home I felt stressed about my financial situation today as I wasn’t able to treat my mum how I wanted, like I had to consider my budget and couldn’t just pick up the bill etc.

    So anyway I finally get home in a fairly bad mood and my ex is on my doorstep waiting out of the blue... I can’t even explain how frustrated it made me, like it enraged me head to toe. Anyway she wouldn’t leave as she wants to talk, but I seriously can’t have a conversation with her right now as I will just pick at all her insecurities to get my own back as I’m mad... so super weird situation, I’m upstairs in my room and she’s downstairs sitting on my sofa watching tv waiting to talk to me. I literally might just go sleep and hope she leaves lol.
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  • camz2017
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    Ok I went downstairs, picked her up, carried her down the stairs, out onto the road, then I locked her out. She was literally shouting histerically upto my flat for a while and now shes just calling me over and over.

    Like how can anyone deal with this nonsense lol
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  • Cherryjack
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    Good morning lovely, Gosh what drama..I hope your mum is ok , that's super sad..been there got the t-shirt. Realised it's positive in the end because you end up with someone much better (she's got good times to come). How did the spending go? I must start my diary tonight..
    Carried her out onto the street?? No wonder she's come back lol.. you sound strong haha.
    Anyhow on a serious note hope things are better today.
  • camz2017
    camz2017 Posts: 347 Forumite
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    Hello :D
    Spending was ok we just split the bill in half.

    I hope things get better for her, but honestly she seems in a bad place, my sister says she’s drinking a lot more than before.

    Please start your diary TODAY! :)

    & lol, I am strong. 6ft 2, 182lbs, 9% body fat. I deadlift 160kg, trust me she ain’t that big. :rotfl:
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  • Cherryjack
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    Lol you are funny �� I've got to be good today...yesterday I went out and took a flask to avoid costa & Starbucks. ..lowest point in my life literally..old granny.com I had a 4 hour journey so took food aswell. Then on the way home i had to get my son a new coat so popped into tkmax and came out with 2 coats and 3 tracksuit bottoms. Thankfully I had vouchers but the whole transaction messed up so we had to wait for 30 mins to get it sorted. In this time I thought my child was gunna have a major melt down as he has no patience at all... due to autism. Came out of the shop and thought sod it both kids have been good let's roll to Costa lol ... im writing this with a coffee hehe
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