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    • justanothergal247
    • By justanothergal247 7th Jun 17, 11:27 PM
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    Boyfriend will never have a deeper connection with anyone more than Ex – deal breaker
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    • 7th Jun 17, 11:27 PM
    Boyfriend will never have a deeper connection with anyone more than Ex – deal breaker 7th Jun 17 at 11:27 PM
    He told this to his Ex. I came across an email and it was recent. He left her because he was unhappy in the relationship.

    They were together for 3 years. We’ve been together almost a year.

    Should this be a deal breaker? He tells me I make him happy and says he loves me everyday.
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    • parking_question_chap
    • By parking_question_chap 9th Jun 17, 6:42 PM
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    Very disappointed in the responses here.
    Originally posted by justanothergal247
    Whats the point of asking a quesion on a web forum, when you are only going to pick out the answers you want to hear

    If the emails are recent you might be better leaving him

    If he found out you have been reading his emails, he isnt going to be very trusting of you either.
    • ripplyuk
    • By ripplyuk 10th Jun 17, 9:53 PM
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    It would be a deal breaker for me, definitely. Regardless of whether or not he meant what he said to her, I wouldn't want to be with someone who is still chatting regularly with their ex.

    Someone reading my emails would also be a deal breaker. I think it doesn't look hopeful for either of you in this relationship.
    • ska lover
    • By ska lover 13th Jun 17, 2:24 PM
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    ska lover
    It would be a deal breaker with me

    If he left her despite apparently will never have a deeper connection with anyone more than Ex
    Why do you think he wont ditch you?

    Why does he want her to know how special she is to him - STILL, why is he making it abundantly clear to her that despite him being in a relationship with you, he still had a deeper connection with her than you

    In other words, he has ditched someone who was more special to him, than you - and you are asking should you stay with him..

    If you stay with him, do you think you will have a loving and secure relationship knowing this information?

    Nothing good will come of this for you, as you are not where his loyalties lie. You should ditch him and find someone who feels about you - the way your current partner obviously feels about his ex - that is what you deserve

    I am sorry
    Last edited by ska lover; 13-06-2017 at 5:17 PM.
    The opposite of what you also true
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