Hi
Just seen your posts.
I have a mesher order attached to me having no real choice but to stay in the ex marital home with 3 children. 2 x 5 yr olds and a 10 yr old
I was left with an unfinished extension no heating doors nothing signed off by planning a mortgage if £120k. Ex stopped paying mortgage 3 months after he left. Thank god fir rax creduts.. I couldn't of survived in tgexearly days without them.
Ex took me to court as he wanted the house sold it was in no condition to sell other than to a cash buyer and well under what it shoukd be. So anyway estate agent valued it at around the £224. At this time I was only working 13 hrs in min wage.
The judge in 1st hearing wanted me to have house and him keep his pension. Ex wouldn't agree. 2nd hearing judge came up with 65 /35 mesher order with me trying to get the mortgage in my name. It took a while as was made redundant and finally after a while I had 3 jobs and could get it in my name.
Barrister told me how it works: I will get the ££ I pay off the mortgage minus the interest and any work I have done I will get back on top off the equity so ex % works out at 15.9% of the gross.
Have to admit dreading when the time comes to sort it out

I hate every minure of this.