Afternoon all,

Just a quick update as I've got loads of work on and have said I'll visit Nan with Dad this afternoon.

We had a fab time away this weekend participating in various hobbies of ours and seeing some good friends and family. It was an unintentionally cheap weekend - while we paid for our meals on Friday we weren't allowed to pay for our drinks (the car friends who never let us pay!), on Saturday my Uncle bought our sandwiches and a drink for us (also used the same line as our friend the day before - if you put it on the room tab, apparently it's not real money! ); and then we saw friends yesterday who insisted on buying lunch! Honestly, we did try to pay for things - quite insistently at times... but we just weren't winning. We are very lucky to have such lovely friends and family and will repay the favour - hopefully!

So we paid for Friday's activities, our camping, a couple of trips to Sains for food to cook and then ice creams (which we took a random diversion for - Billy Bob's Ice Cream Parlour, off the A59 is expensive, but amazing ice cream!). Not an expensive weekend all told!

And I've just been gifted a plate of fishy pasta for lunch by our neighbour (I'm not sure if she's trying to fatten me up for Christmas - it was waaay bigger than a lunch portion!). I did at least exchange it for a bit of underlay and a promise of some rhubarb.

I've had notification through that my jury service has been deferred until Feb! And I've got paperwork to sign for my FD account and post back. Plenty of RM stuff to do - including a bonus survey this week for an extra voucher.

MS things:
* PA payout received and a survey done too
* MS rw, VB, SBs done
* NV survey done
* RM bits posted/admin sorted
* S&S and FOTG done

Gratitudes:
* A wonderful weekend, indulging our favourite hobbies
* Great friends (who would still be great if they hadn't paid for everything too) and good company
* Beautiful scenery in Yorkshire - we'll be back to explore more there, I'm sure
* Yummy lunch

Enjoy the afternoon folks! x

That really does sound fab, and youve packed in so much too. And you were in Yorkshire

Morning all,

Hey Karma - yes, it was really good and great to combine so many things too.

We finally totalled up our spending for last month last night (thank you, whatsapp spending diary!). We spent £192 on food (+£35 on food out - veg box meal and couple of incidentals for DH when caught short at work meetings). This seems pretty good as it included an online order, 3 veg boxes, 2 lots of entertaining and at least two trips to the zero-waste shop. I comment on this as having never done a spending diary, I had literally no idea how much we spend on food. And even better, our freezer is still chocka, so we should have lower spends this month too.

The shocking spend was £225 on fuel. Some of this is unavoidable as it's commuting costs for DH, but I spent more than normal driving various parents (especially my Dad) around. August should be much better (although our weekend away wasn't fuel-light) as I don't have Brownies, evening class or, hopefully, quite so much ferrying to do!

Total spend (excluding bills) was £655. And of this, £73.34 was spent using gift cards/vouchers. DH thought we should exclude those, but actually, it was all stuff we'd have had to pay cash for otherwise - not frivolous spending.

We will keep the spending diary up (although modified to only record cash/cheque spends as we'll use our CC statements for the rest. I know I'm late to the party, but it is good to be able to see what we spend on!

My thoughts are beginning to turn towards frugalising Christmas - some presents need making now if they're going to be any good for then. I see redcurrant/rhubarb gin being a popular choice and possibly an elimination of gift-swapping with siblings (jury's out on that).

MS things:
* 4/5 (I lost count) YG 50p surveys - one after the other!
* £2 L2S voucher from RM survey
* VB, SB, MS rw done
* Yoghurt made

Gratitudes:
* Pigeon entertainment in the garden while we ate dinner last night!
* A good visit with Nan yesterday
* Free eggs and cucumber - via Mum (not her produce, but from friends/relatives) - can't say no to free food!

Have a lovely afternoon all!

You got free food as well as me I like it.


The fuel is high, sadly ...any chance you can combine a few trips, be a bit more planned about the travel? It takes a while to do that, of course - great that you're starting to get the information to make informed choices now. You'll up that savings rate yet

We're pretty good about combining trips. Unfortunately DH works 18 miles away from home. He does however give someone a lift (found through a website for these things), so he gets some money to help offset the cost of fuel (although it's currently rebuilding his car maintenance fund) and it works really well - they've been sharing for over a year now.

I normally get away with spending £50 on fuel per month, but I spent more than that last month (and the £15 my Dad gave me did not touch the amount I must have spent ferrying him around when he could have got a taxi - not when ill but when his car was at the garage and insurance would have paid for taxi!). I can often go four days without using my car - just not last month.

I seem to be getting free food in one form or another from every direction at the moment! Food spends should be super low this month!

Morning all,

It's a bit cooler here today at last and it looks like it'll stay around 23 for the next couple of weeks, which frankly will be a welcome relief - I love the sunshine, but it was beginning to get a bit samey! And the cats will appreciate the cooler temps - our house has been like a sauna.

Well.... last night our neighbour outdid herself... we (not me) had chicken curry with rice and salads for 3 (I had some leftover daal from the night before) - took it round to BIL and GF. I'd made some naans - some for neighbour and some as part of a thank you for BIL for looking after the cats - and when neighbour turned up with huge plate of food for DH and I (there was rice for me, just no chicken) and I mentioned that I was doing extra naans and why, she promptly came back with more chicken and then the rice she couldn't eat because she'd eaten two of the naans I'd given her with her dinner! (If you followed that you're doing well!). There was more than the four of us could eat.... I've stopped feeling so guilty though as I've discovered that the old lady she cooks for wouldn't help her out when she needed help a few years ago - so if I'm friendly, give her something every now and then and have time to chat, I think I'm doing the right thing.

We had a lovely evening - watched Paddington 2 (I love that film ) and had a couple of drinks and managed not to spill curry on the walk over to BIL's.

Popping out to zero-waste shop later - meeting mum in the town for a wander (she wants to visit the shop), so not a NSD but only buying the food we need.

MS things:
* Must post ebay sale
* HG tomatoes in dinner tonight
* VB, SBs, MS rw
* TT and interest sweep into savings
* DH won £25 on PBs
* We are laser-focused on saving not spending (must sort out food for DH's lunch tomorrow though - plain cous cous doesn't cut it!)

Gratitudes:
* A delicious meal cooked by someone else (and for the record, neighbour told me to pass it off as my own, which I certainly did not!)
* A lovely evening with BIL and GF (much as I imagined it would be when they moved here)
* My first loo roll delivery from WGAC arrived today - and is stashed in the space I cleared for it (weird, me??)

Have a good day all! x

Wow, you do a lot every day, madvix, its admirable!



Your neighbour sounds really determined to build bridges with people who treat people fairly, and who reciprocate - not necessarily in kind, but in lots of other ways. A shame she's been so badly let down in the past.


I'm glad you like Paddington 2 - I'd earmarked it for this accidental trial I've got of Amazon Prime, wasn't quite sure but I've read some really good reviews. I'll make sure to watch it within the trial period now, thanks.

Thanks Karma, although I'm not sure I do. People who have full-time jobs that mean they're out of the house most of the day always seem to have to fit a lot more in!

Paddington 2 is excellent - we saw it at the cinema, so I was more than happy when BIL put it on last night (also via Amazon Prime - they pay for such things! ).

Just been to return plates to neighbour and spent an hour there having a cuppa.... DH has been in and gone out again while I've been out! I think she's perhaps a bit lonely. But it's nice to have someone to chat with

Morning all,

It's a bit soggy here today. It didn't stop me walking down to the vets though for some worming tablets. My step count is doing well so far today. Posted an RM item on the way too.

In exciting news, I have a new kettle!! It took argoose a whole week to put the price back down to sensible (i.e. not rip-off) levels after their promotion ended, but I won in the end as they'd reduced it by another £5, so I paid £45, which was exactly covered by the Argoose vouchers and I didn't have to use the L2S ones/any cash. Patience *is* a virtue (one which I was running out of!).

MS things:
* £2.25 more on YG surveys
* 50p NV survey
* SBs, VB, MS rws
* Lunch has been promised by neighbour Sounds like it should be delicious!

Gratitudes:
* A new friend - we had a lovely chat yesterday
* A quieter day workwise - I got caught up yesterday, so a smallish project today and some time to do houseworky things
* Discounted frozen pizza in the freezer - tonight's tea

Hope the weather is better with you! (Not that we don't all need the rain!). x

Well done on the kettle (and YG, they've disappeared from my inbox). Weather here is also rainy, but I'm glad of it, and I'm sure my plants are too

Morning all!

It's been a lovely few days, which is why I've not been online. DH was at his brother's stag do on Friday and Saturday - not cheap, but could have been a lot worse and DH took snacks on both days to help minimise spending. I spent Friday morning working and doing my tax return (excitement!). Enjoyed the lunch gifted by my neighbour - delicious fish and seafood noodle curry - mmm. Spent the afternoon doing jobs with Mum and popped in to see Nan.

Saturday Mum and I went out NTing for the day - two properties visited, packed lunch eaten and just £10 spent on tea and cake (definitely worth it!).

Unfortunately we've discovered that the garage roof is leaking (this discovery involved the circuits tripping as water was getting into the light switch ). So we will be replacing the roof in the next couple of weeks... We reckon this will cost about £500 (hmm.... sounds like that's effectively where my win is going!). We intend to do it ourselves, but will order the new stuff as a kit that comes cut to size with all the relevant bits (gutters etc.).

Yesterday we saw our best friends and met their baby daughter - she was gorgeous It was lovely to see them and they seem to be coping well with parenthood.

MS things:
* Another ebay sale posted
* YG survey and MM surveys done
* Toms and peas from garden being eaten (about 10 peas, nothing to get excited about!)
* A gifted cucumber, dried rosemary and chilli from parents in law
* Gifted dill and bay from neighbour (I did take a chicken tikka masala to our friends, so it's not all take and no give!)
* RM survey items posted and more L2S vouchers

Gratitudes:
* Lovely time with Mum on Saturday in a beautiful part of the country (Suffolk - one of my favourite places)
* Abundance in food, friendship and fun
* Rain for the garden

Have a good day all!

That sounds a great weekend - and you fitted two NT properties in, thats good! The roofing kit sounds really interesting - very empowering to do it yourself


Totally with you on the gratitudes

Morning all,

Things have been fairly quiet here over the last few days - some work, lots of housework. Our neighbour provided a lovely curry last night, and then came back with cat nip and balls for the cats! We are all very appreciative. I took her some rhubarb and biscuits yesterday too.

MS things:
* Comp win cheque has arrived - still need to pay it in
* Visited the library for free entertainment
* DH has listed a few bits on the Bay which should help declutter and bring a few pennies in
* YG and NV surveys
* SBs Swago and code extravaganza helped yesterday
* The usual stuff! Definitely in the mid-month slog patch at the moment.
* Yoghurt made, bananas used up in a cake
* Baked a terrible foccaccia (i.e. tastes like normal plain bread) - will use it up though

Gratitudes:
* Lovely dinner last night - honestly it's better than takeaway!
* A Mum and Niece day today as Sis has gone back to 4 days a week (Niece will usually be in nursery, but this is a transition phase)
* Learnt something new on a piece of work software - always good for the brain

Hope the weather's better where you are (chucking it down here - blaming it on the local free outdoor cinema! ). Have a good day all!

Yep, chucking it here too, well, the raindrops are small, but they just keep coming I'm blaming it on the council's fun day, held on the rec. ground I can see from my house. Poor things!