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  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    edited 16 September 2019 at 5:40PM
    Bloods done
    3 lots
    Checking for everything
    Tumour markers
    Cell count
    Thyroid
    Hormone levels
    And some other stuff I didn't even hear
  • mellymoo74
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    My friend has just been incredibly mean

    Apparently I need to not work at the moment cos I hate everybody. Also had the go to all the appointments chat.

    I'm gonna pop up to see her and the kids tomorrow always perks me up.

    I don't think it's bad, I think it's a cyst or fibroid making my hormones go silly and pressing on the bowel and I will be absolutely fine.
  • thorsoak
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    If your friend is telling you that you HAVE to attend all the appointments made for you by the doctors, then she is not being mean, Melly - she is being a true friend to you. Believe me, if you didn't need these appointments, they would not be given - especially appointments within a couple of weeks! And she is also not being mean in telling you that your health has to come before work. If you aren't 100% (or even 50%) fit, then you cannot give the 100% to any job.

    Go and see your friend, listen to what she says - and although I applaud your optimism, DO NOT IGNORE THE SYMPTOMS - and stop self-diagnosing yourself xxx
  • calleyw
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    Mel, do we have to have words?


    You know she is talking sense but you are so tired and worn out and worried by other things and people you are deflecting.


    It makes things easier to cope with. And you know I would say the same thing. You need to start putting your health and needs first.


    Yours


    Calley x
    Hope for everything and expect nothing!!!

    Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz

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  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    No Cal it was the hating people comment I was mainly whining about.
    This is the friend who went in for surgery and helped me move with a broken gallbladder so er she can talk lol

    I am being good
    I technically have an interview tomorrow so maybe not that good
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    https://youtu.be/9kmeUROP1Oc

    Mayb I should go into animal training?
  • calleyw
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    mellymoo74 wrote: »
    https://youtu.be/9kmeUROP1Oc

    Mayb I should go into animal training?


    Come and train my dog :rotfl::rotfl:




    Yours


    Calley x
    Hope for everything and expect nothing!!!

    Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz

    If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Didn't go
    Too tired
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Not sure that having issue when I eat are the best for my ed
  • Pollycat
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    mellymoo74 wrote: »
    No Cal it was the hating people comment I was mainly whining about.
    This is the friend who went in for surgery and helped me move with a broken gallbladder so er she can talk lol

    I am being good
    I technically have an interview tomorrow so maybe not that good
    Melly
    Maybe she can see things more clearly than you can.
    If you're rubbing people up the wrong way, it's really not a good time to be working.
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