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  • fuddle
    fuddle Posts: 6,823 Forumite
    Excellent news silvasava. It's settling to know what you need to fight your stubborn nasties I think. Ivyleaf how is your tum? Softstuff amazing progress and I'm trying very hard to follow in your 'self help and change' footsteps. It's heartening to know that with tweaks and persevering better health can be achieved.

    Speaking of which that's why I'm up and at 'em at this hour. Although my pain has completely gone (even that 2 year old niggle when I yawn!) I'm windy and releasing smells like my insides have died. I have been eating strictly low fodmap for the past few days so as not to comsume gas producing foods. The only exception has been milk and yoghurt so I'm going to give up dairy for a while to see what happens. I won't be having anymore buscopan but will continue with peppermint tea and have peppermint oil once they arrive.

    If there's been an underlying issue for a few years that has been pressing on my organs a bit (yawning pain might be diaphragm maybe and certainly spleen lately) then maybe that been putting a bit of pressure on my heart too.

    kittie it comes across as you're excited and relishing planning your new batten-down-the-hatches abode. :D

    Ivyleaf Mr Ivyleaf is a worry :( as awful as they are to a person's self esteem I am cheering for the side rail. It need not ever be an issue again with one of those. I get why there will be a bit of falter but at the end of the day, who cares. I'd have one the minute I needed one... on the understanding that I can Yarn Bomb it in crochet that is! :D I wonder if your tummy troubles are down to worrying about Mr Ivyleaf maybe? 0 :(

    Allotment Tales: first blackcurrants picked and compote made in the slow cooker. Word is Mr Pea Seedling is giving up a couple of plots, keeping only one by his cronies. I'm not by his cronies. I live in hope.

    Well I'm off to go investigate high fibre low fodmap foods because if I have to give up beans and pulses I'm concerned for my diverticular issue and then off to look at sock wool online. Sleep won't be happening now.:doh:
  • [Deleted User]
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    edited 6 July 2018 at 6:41AM
    Fuddle are you eating anything wth probiotics, if so stop them. You may well have probiotic overgrowth, they don`t always work well with your body and can trigger allergic reactions. No capsules, sauerkraut, live yoghurts etc. Just image the extra probiotics having a mighty battle with your own natural probiotics. I think that doing this will sort you out and you will be able to give up on the peppermint/colpermin. Re-ntroduce some natural pre-biotics slowly in a few days, if you are worried about `smooth n natural movements` see about adding some ground up flaxseeds, whole seeds not very good if there is a hint of diverticulitis


    Monna, no date yet but estimated mid august. Nothing much I can do here except prep for my photos and plan for my new house. Going to clean paintwork today, I could see marks last night. I have my fingers crossed for you maybe look a little further afield to somewhere with obviously the facilities that you need. My new house was very unexpected and an accidental find but is the perfect future-proofed area


    I am not anxious about security now as I have a battleplan. The trick is not to think `arghh` but `what can I do about it?` new strong doors, burglar proof hedge all along the vulnerable open side, eventual fence and gate across from garage to house and eventual new double glazing with strong multi locking. Plus getting to know my neighbours. I have butterflies while I am awake, did my floor plans and furniture last night, I must get that sliding door put in beteen conservatory and dining/snug, it will require a floor rail and I need to get flooring in the snug before I get furniture moved. I will ring and sweet talk them, see if they will pencil in september. I am a mix of scared/excited
  • Floss
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    MMF would a word in the ear of their gp suggesting some OT advice re mobility aids work? DHs brother had to do that for their parents as they would not take on board any advice from their sons.
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  • FairyPrincessk
    FairyPrincessk Posts: 2,439 Forumite
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    Morning all,

    MMF, it is hard to know how to help people sometimes, isn't it? It sounds like you're doing a wonderful job of balancing care and concern with respect.

    Monna, your halo will be glistening for helping out. Ok, some of that might be perspiration but I hope they appreciate your hard work.

    Kittie you do sound excited, I love hearing these plans.

    Well, I have plenty of radish and mustard sprouts and just a hint of spinach. I don't see signs of the spring onions yet, but maybe soon. I don't know how this will work, I've never done late sowing before but the idea is to see what we might be able to have fresh in autumn in the future.

    My neck is still a bit sore and stiff but I've decided to brave the gym anyway and just be gentle. Last night's pizza was nice, and I didn't end up feeling over stuffed so that was nice. I think we'll have the rest of it tonight when we get back from town alongside a salad. Now, I just need to teach OH that he should harvest from several lettuce plants, not the same one all at once :eek:
  • FairyPrincessk
    FairyPrincessk Posts: 2,439 Forumite
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    Nursemaggie--we had one of the refurbished Aldi's before we moved and they did have more stock which was nice!
  • mardatha
    mardatha Posts: 15,612 Forumite
    I'm feeling a lot older than I did, even a few months ago. Arthritis in the feet make walking painful, and the doc says my arches are crumbling so that's why none of my shoes fit, I bought 5 pairs of expensive shoes one after the other before I realised it wasn't the damn shoes it was my damn feet :D And now with this sling and the hellish shoulder pain if I move the arm at all, I keep hearing this song :rotfl:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RghKdGn8h5A
  • monnagran
    monnagran Posts: 5,284 Forumite
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    edited 6 July 2018 at 8:15AM
    A long post just disappeared into the black hole.

    Summary.
    Fuddle, keep going love, you'll get there in the end. Fingers crossed Mr P.S. goes to an allotment far, far away.

    Kittie. Fort Knox will be head-hunting you shortly. You are so well organised.

    MMF do what Floss suggests. Write to the in-law's GP emphasising that they must never find out about it. I did it for my parents when I realised that Mum was not herself. She was diagnosed with vascular Dementia after various people visited them on all, sorts of subterfuges and, to the end of his life, Dad never discovered what I had done.

    FairyP, I wish I could glow with perspiration, I hardly sweat at all. The heat just builds up inside me and makes me feel quite ill. I am downing pints of water but still no glowing!

    mar, I think if you were a dog the RV might have taken you for a last visit to the vet. I can't think of anything helpful to say. We are always here for a moan and a giggle. It's not fair that you should have all the ills that life can throw at you and someone like me gets away scot-free.
    I have my fingers crossed behind my back as I type that. With difficulty.

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  • silver-oldie
    silver-oldie Posts: 1,004 Forumite
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    monnagran wrote: »
    silver-oldie, thank you for posting again. We were missing you. Are you OK? I know life isn't easy for you but there is usually a listening ear here.

    Thank you Monna

    Just had a bad month. Food poisoning to start, let down by DS, DiL and DGS and DH wandering off, only for a few moments, but panic.

    It really made me think about how I really am on my own, no-one knew I was ill, and I think I'm lonely but I don't have the social skills to change things. The thought of going out to socialise fills me with terror.

    Sorry, rant over
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  • [Deleted User]
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    yes silver-oldie so many people are lonely and I include younger people. We don`t have any more popping in for a cuppa, like in the old days, however I am not up for that because I am always busy. My loneliest time was as a stay at home new mum, new house that we could not afford, it was awful. Hobbies are a short cut to acquaintances, rather than friends and when the day is over it is back to square one. These threads are absolute life savers for letting stuff out, rather than talking to the walls. My best friends are my 3 sisters but 2 are in australia. My neighbours etc are always there but I still keep stuff back, so that makes them more like good aquaintances. My children are my children and I hardly ever tell them things that might worry them, I am this solid wall that never crumbles
  • mardatha
    mardatha Posts: 15,612 Forumite
    Monna pet ty. I'm always all right. I have this very useful backing of sheer bloody mindedness to hold me up ;)
    what my American pals call orneryness :D
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