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You do realise that if your new partner were to become a childminder, that your ex-wife would not be able to use childcare vouchers, nor would your partner be able to charge for looking after the child - and that would mean that your daughter would be taking up a place which would be profitable.0
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Please don't make fun of me, I am in genuine need of advice. I am not in the habit of wasting either mine or other peoples time.0
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You do realise that if your new partner were to become a childminder, that your ex-wife would not be able to use childcare vouchers, nor would your partner be able to charge for looking after the child - and that would mean that your daughter would be taking up a place which would be profitable.[/QUOTE
It would save me paying for the childcare then, my ex still won't get any more money as she can work full time. I don't see why not though.0 -
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seashore22 wrote: »Actually I wish I hadn't posted now because I'm not so sure about this thread. At least I hope no one is this lacking in self awareness and empathy in real life.
You talk about empathy? You are coming over as a controlling serial adulterer - who is so angry that your soon to be ex-wife has had enough of you - that you are trying to control her by keeping her short of money. Your current partner should be aware that when a mistress becomes a partner, she leaves a vacancy for another mistress!
Such a nice man - NOT!
You are now finding out that you have to pay for your pleasures.0 -
You talk about empathy? You are coming over as a controlling serial adulterer - who is so angry that your soon to be ex-wife has had enough of you - that you are trying to control her by keeping her short of money. Your current partner should be aware that when a mistress becomes a partner, she leaves a vacancy for another mistress!
Such a nice man - NOT!
You are now finding out that you have to pay for your pleasures.
It has to be a wind-up; no one can possibly be that ghastly.
Can they?:eek:0 -
Oh yes they can ....I've known a couple of "very nice chaps" who have tried to starve their ex-wives out just because they've had enough of the adultery/controlling behaviour!0
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You talk about empathy? You are coming over as a controlling serial adulterer - who is so angry that your soon to be ex-wife has had enough of you - that you are trying to control her by keeping her short of money. Your current partner should be aware that when a mistress becomes a partner, she leaves a vacancy for another mistress!
Such a nice man - NOT!
You are now finding out that you have to pay for your pleasures.
Did you mean to post that and quote my post? I'm not the op.0 -
seashore I think you were quoted because thorsoak was agreeing with your sentiment.
That's how I read it anyway0 -
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