I have come here to chew bubblegum and clear debt - and I'm all outta bubblegum AKA the £83,000 saga

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  • System
    System Posts: 178,092 Community Admin
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    Didn't want to read and run

    I just want to wish you luck on your journey. You have an amazing support system. Your wife sounds like an amazing woman.
  • redmel1621 wrote: »
    Wow! Well done for sharing and I wish you all the luck in the world. I also want to say that your wife is an absolute star for standing by and supporting you.

    I will definitely be keeping an eye on how things are going for you.

    Thank you and yes she is :-)
    Current Debt: [STRIKE]May 2018: £83,035.95 [/STRIKE] - July 2019: £52,079.45
  • Didn't want to read and run

    I just want to wish you luck on your journey. You have an amazing support system. Your wife sounds like an amazing woman.


    She sure is. Anyone out there hiding debts from a partner or spouse, tell them. You'll have to do it eventually and the sooner you do, the better.
    Current Debt: [STRIKE]May 2018: £83,035.95 [/STRIKE] - July 2019: £52,079.45
  • You've done amazingly well to reduce it so quickly so far!

    Thank You. It wouldn't have been as quick without Resolver!
    Current Debt: [STRIKE]May 2018: £83,035.95 [/STRIKE] - July 2019: £52,079.45
  • A couple of weeks ago, an Adjudicator at the Financial Ombudsman upheld a complaint in my favour regarding irresponsible lending by a short-term/payday lender. The company in question had until today to either accept the decision or to appeal. It appears they have not responded and so the decision goes to an Ombudsman (a level up from an Adjudicator as I understand it) to make a final decision.

    I’d have thought that a lack of response should be taken as a sign that the company agree with the Adjudicator, but it seems that’s not the way it works.

    Anyway, hopefully the Ombudsman will agree with the Adjudicators original opinion.

    The refund of interest and charges in this case is around £1500 (against an original loan of £1500!). This will make another nice dent in my overall debt.
    Current Debt: [STRIKE]May 2018: £83,035.95 [/STRIKE] - July 2019: £52,079.45
  • fatrab
    fatrab Posts: 1,231 Forumite
    Hi, just caught up with your diary and wanted to say well done!

    You've made great progress and your determination is obvious in your posts.

    Each milestone, whether it is the overall debt dropping below a threshold or a whole debt being cleared, gives you a mental boost which in itself becomes addictive!

    Good luck with the ombudsman decision and stay off the bubblegum, that stuff will kill you! :)
    You can have results or excuses, but not both.
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  • fatrab wrote: »
    Hi, just caught up with your diary and wanted to say well done!

    Thank You! Feeling really positive at the moment about it. Edging closer to that sub-£70k mark...
    Current Debt: [STRIKE]May 2018: £83,035.95 [/STRIKE] - July 2019: £52,079.45
  • Back in 2015, I applied for a personal loan from a mainstream peer-to-peer lender (i.e., not a fly-by-night payday outfit).

    I did have a loan with them in my pre-gambling past which was all paid off in full and on time.

    Between 2009 and 2015, I applied for multiple loans from the same lender, all of which were rejected. During this time, my financial situation had continued to decline - but for reasons that are currently unknown, in 2015 they deemed it adequate to approve a loan of £10,000 at a whopping 16% APR. Remembering I was not in the right frame of mind mentally at this time due to my addiction, I bit their hand off.

    With a clear head now, to me it’s pretty clear I wasn’t a suitable candidate for this kind of credit. I already had a five-figure level of debt, including an existing personal loan, overdraft, 5 or 6 maxed out credit cards, payday loans etc. My credit score was naturally way, way down there.

    I recently complained to the lender in question under the ‘irresponsible lending’ banner, and they claim to have done nothing wrong. In their ‘final response’ letter they claimed I had put on the application form that the purpose of the loan was to ‘consolidate debt’. Obviously that didn’t happen. In their letter that actually state: “it’s not our fault if you didn’t use the loan to pay off your other debts.”

    Whilst they are correct, I was expecting perhaps a little more of a sympathetic response. I had explained all about my addiction and how this loan only helped to fuel it, and that in hindsight given the information available on my credit file and bank statements, I don’t think the loan should have been approved. But they don’t want to know. Other lenders have had dedicated staff to deal with customers who have suffered with addiction issues and have been extremely helpful, professional and understanding. Rightly or wrongly, I just expected more from the lender in question.

    As far as I have been made aware from other lenders, existing debt levels are still a factor in lending decisions. Even if you state your intention is to pay off existing loans, this doesn’t usually have an effect on the application, as you might not do it...
    Current Debt: [STRIKE]May 2018: £83,035.95 [/STRIKE] - July 2019: £52,079.45
  • With regards to the above, I do have an open case with the Ombudsman so we will see what they think.
    Current Debt: [STRIKE]May 2018: £83,035.95 [/STRIKE] - July 2019: £52,079.45
  • fatrab
    fatrab Posts: 1,231 Forumite
    edited 4 October 2018 at 2:03PM
    Do you think the lenders are playing a bit of a game when they ask you what the loan is for? I mean, you're hardly going to say "It's for my drugs/alcohol/gambling addiction" are you? If they're asking for the purpose of determining whether THEY are lending responsibly, surely at the point when you say it's for debt consolidation the alarm bells should've been ringing at their end.

    You have to take responsibility for your own actions. We all do. So do they.

    I got myself into a fair bit of credit card and HP debt which came to a head in 2013. Fancy cars and a wedding were my downfall. £28k on 4 cards and over £40k car finance. The £40k was the easy bit, sold the cars and cleared the debts. But I've still got over £3k on 1 card remaining, fortunately its 0% for 3 years. Clearing it is hard. It can be done but it takes time, and a hell of a lot of focus.

    Let us know how it goes with the ombudsman. I didn't know anything about responsible lending when I had my problems, but I'm sure I would have had a pretty good case against some of the lenders.
    You can have results or excuses, but not both.
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