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    • mellymoo74
    • By mellymoo74 20th Apr 14, 11:12 PM
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    talk me down please
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    • 20th Apr 14, 11:12 PM
    talk me down please 20th Apr 14 at 11:12 PM
    Ok 10 years ago me and OH took MIL and Aunty away the plan was during this break we would invite em to the wedding.
    Before we could they stormed off and refused to answer any of my OHs calls.
    OH tried to get them to talk didn't happen and the wedding went ahead.
    Eventually OH and MIL are reconciled 2 years on another argument is provoked eventually reconciled then a big bust up about her not being at our wedding then reconciled rinse and repeat.
    MIL has been diagnosed with terminal cancer we have been ensuring she has company food etc (regular visits) I went to her appointment with her last Fri then last Sat OH goes around to see her and the wedding row was provoked again she went in for an op Mon telling OHs sister the auntie nephews etc to not tell my OH she was in or the ward or when the op was.
    OH is upset so I get the hospital info so at least we can find out how she is.
    We went to see her at the hospital on Fri aft and discovered shed been discharged in the morning.
    Still not called OH no contact nothing.
    I am livid my OH has been beside themselves and deeply upset (which is the intention) she can't even allow people to say she is ok.
    So how do I keep my OH on a nice even keel and stop myself from telling her off?
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    • pollyanna 26
    • By pollyanna 26 1st Jul 19, 8:02 PM
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    Hope you're ok Melly and managed to sort out the pay issue. I wasn't sure if you meant Statutory sick pay or if your employer have their own scheme. If you've applied for the other job I hope things work out. There's nothing worse than working with someone who wants to make your life a misery.
    pollyx
    No need to hurry.No need to sparkle.No need to be anybody but oneself.


    Virginia Woolf.
    • mellymoo74
    • By mellymoo74 2nd Jul 19, 7:54 AM
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    Sorry i went awol
    Its looking up I start Monday new place so only a couple of weeks no money
    • pollyanna 26
    • By pollyanna 26 2nd Jul 19, 8:04 AM
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    That's good to hear Melly lets hope this is a new start to go with your new life. That toxic woman will have to find someone else to take her spite out on. She doesn't sound like someone happy with her life but you are happy and more settled than you have been for many years.


    Take care of you and yours love,that's what matters.
    pollyx
    No need to hurry.No need to sparkle.No need to be anybody but oneself.


    Virginia Woolf.
    • mellymoo74
    • By mellymoo74 4th Jul 19, 7:16 PM
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    mellymoo74





    Starting to get nervous about the job now
    • keepcalmandstayoutofdebt
    • By keepcalmandstayoutofdebt 4th Jul 19, 10:37 PM
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    You'll be ok. Give it a couple of weeks x
    RIP my Rags. 16/06/19 at 4am
    Know I had to moneysave but you didn't have to go
    x
    • mellymoo74
    • By mellymoo74 5th Jul 19, 4:28 PM
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    Trying to clean whilst a 4 year old and a 7 year old try and get me to play.

    Not my children lol
    • mellymoo74
    • By mellymoo74 6th Jul 19, 10:46 PM
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    https://youtu.be/nNh0kLvSWVs

    Kev
    • pollyanna 26
    • By pollyanna 26 7th Jul 19, 9:38 PM
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    Sending positive vibes for tomorrow Melly. You can do this and do it well. Will be thinking of you.
    pollyx
    No need to hurry.No need to sparkle.No need to be anybody but oneself.


    Virginia Woolf.
    • mellymoo74
    • By mellymoo74 8th Jul 19, 6:59 AM
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    Here
    Nervous
    • pollyanna 26
    • By pollyanna 26 8th Jul 19, 8:29 PM
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    Hope today went well Melly and you sleep well tonight.
    pollyx
    No need to hurry.No need to sparkle.No need to be anybody but oneself.


    Virginia Woolf.
    • mellymoo74
    • By mellymoo74 10th Jul 19, 9:07 AM
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    Loved it
    Going well
    Bloody alternator gone
    So no car
    Can't get there
    Seriously hacked off
    • pollyanna 26
    • By pollyanna 26 10th Jul 19, 10:18 AM
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    How far away is your job Melly? Is there public transport you could use ?
    Don't know if the car is motobility. If you haven't already done it and it's less than 3 years old and serviced when recommended the supplier will come out to assess and may do the repair free of charge.


    Only other thing I can think of is if someone can give you a lift until the car is back on the road .


    I'm glad you like the job, just a pity this has happened . Hopefully it will be soon fixed.
    pollyx
    No need to hurry.No need to sparkle.No need to be anybody but oneself.


    Virginia Woolf.
    • mellymoo74
    • By mellymoo74 10th Jul 19, 10:25 AM
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    No money till next week Poll.
    Zip
    Wasnt paid so stuck without cash until Tuesday
    No its not motobility unfortunately.
    Xxx
    • pollyanna 26
    • By pollyanna 26 10th Jul 19, 10:31 AM
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    I remember you pawned some things to pay for the van and man. If you've redeemed them since would that be an option to get you there this week?
    pollyx
    No need to hurry.No need to sparkle.No need to be anybody but oneself.


    Virginia Woolf.
    • mellymoo74
    • By mellymoo74 10th Jul 19, 5:15 PM
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    Not had chance so !!!!!!ed till Tuesday
    Be ok
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