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    • JennyJukes
    • By JennyJukes 20th Jul 19, 4:10 PM
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    Saving for..?
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    • 20th Jul 19, 4:10 PM
    Saving for..? 20th Jul 19 at 4:10 PM
    I'm not quite sure yet! But I would like to stop wasting money and be more accountable with it!

    A little bit of background context:

    I'm 26 and live alone with no family around me. I left an abusive relationship 2 years ago and became homeless. I spent most of my then 8000 savings, some necessary some not. I went on several holidays and outings, bought a nice computer, furnished a property I got and bought myself a whole new wardrobe. Sometimes I feel guilty at the amount of money I spent but a lot of it was a coping mechanism. I am now in a much more stable and happy situation and would like to start being more accountable with my money.

    I recently moved, having been placed in the roughest council estate of my town and the anti-social behaviour was really bad. I am nearing the end of my biggest debt so I put it towards renting a nicer property. Not MSE but so much better for my mental health!

    I am also in a new relationship. My partner is here on a study visa for the next 1-2 years. After that, who knows? Maybe he'll get a job here, maybe we'll move somewhere else, maybe we won't be together. As such, I have no idea where my life is going to take me in the next few years so I don't want to commit to anything but I also want to be prepared because life has taught me it doesn't always work out the way I plan!

    Until then, my goals are to:

    1) Stick to budgets and save the rest.
    2) Get a better paying and more stable job.
    3) Only buy what I can afford - no more financing/debt. Save for what I want.
    4) Have fun with my money! I don't want to lambaste myself for having an occasional treat.
    5) Learn to cook more and bake.. at all

    I'm going to pop up a SOA in a bit and would love if anyone could point out where I could be saving or maximising my savings. I also sometimes see people my age (and younger) being married, owning homes, having families etc and feel a little bit bad about it so if anyone could tell me that I'm doing fine too that would be a massive help

    Thanks for reading (or at least allowing me the bandwidth to post my dull life )
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    • JennyJukes
    • By JennyJukes 6th Nov 19, 6:36 PM
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    Went out for lunch for a catch up with old colleagues which was nice. I did bring soup with me to work but tbh it was actually a good thing I went out for lunch because I got home and realised I hadn't anything for tea tonight! So the soup and bread will get ate later tonight.

    4 on my lunch added to groceries

    Groceries: 14.79/25
    Petrol: 15.01/55
    Entertainment: 25.82/60
    Saving for:
    Emergency Fund: 2246.53/3000
    Deposit Fund: 7234.95.95/?
    • Skint yet Again
    • By Skint yet Again 6th Nov 19, 7:40 PM
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    4 is a good price for lunch out and its nice that your old colleagues have kept in touch.
    Balance 0% credit card 1360 648
    0% Car Loan 7500 balance to pay 1/10/19 160 1/11/19 160 1/12/19 160 finishes 1/1/2020 140.
    Emergency fund 300 Xmas fund 290 Car maintenance fund 360
    • JennyJukes
    • By JennyJukes 8th Nov 19, 11:24 AM
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    Ugh, stupidly spilt tea over my laptop last night. It lost volume but that was all. I turned off the laptop anyway so it wouldn't damage anything, opened the back to dry anything out but it seemed fine. This morning, I try to turn it on and it won't! I'll leave it over the weekend as I'll be at boyfriends and if it doesn't work by Monday I'll have to get it repaired . I don't have the laptop insurance anymore as when I got a a new bank card it stopped taking payments - not sure if I can reinstate it. I've done that before but it charged me for all the months I did miss..I have a works laptop so using that atm,


    Popped to the store for some petrol 15.01 which should do me until I get paid (7 days!) and more groceries @ 6.91. Just pigging out atm on pistachios before I make lunch and go to a meeting then it's the weekend!! Question if anyone knows - can the pistachio shells go into the food waste bin or is it general waste?


    Money has gone into savings but have taken some of it back out as I need for petrol and food and also it's bf's bday weekend. Did suggest a few things for him to do but he wasn't too sure so will be something last minute as per with him or a meal. We agree birthdays and other events there won't be gifts, we will just spend some time together.


    Groceries: 21.70/25
    Petrol: 30.02/55
    Entertainment: 25.82/60
    Saving for:
    Emergency Fund: 2246.53/3000
    Deposit Fund: 7234.95.95/?
    • savingwannabe
    • By savingwannabe 10th Nov 19, 8:24 AM
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    I hope your laptop has recovered. Fingers crossed.
    Christmas Fund 268 No spend month?
    • JennyJukes
    • By JennyJukes 10th Nov 19, 7:38 PM
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    Yep, that's me home and it's working! The audio isn't but I'm just glad to have my laptop back.

    Time to count the pennies. Took bf out for lunch for his bday - spent 30.90 in his chosen restaurant. We shared some mozzarella sticks, a pizza and some potatoes and an alcoholic drink each. The food was awful tbh for such a nice looking restaurant. We would have been better off going to one of the cheaper pubs we like but thought we'd try something a bit nicer for his birthday. More expensive doesn't always mean nicer though!

    Popped back to his so he could study a bit then watched some TV and ate lots of snacks!

    That's me home now. Next weekend I think we're going out for a couple of free drinks for his and his friends birthday.

    Groceries: 21.70/25
    Petrol: 30.02/55
    Entertainment: 56.75/60

    No point putting my leftover grocery money into savings as I just took money out of it to pay for my groceries and some bills next week. Pay day Friday though then my final pay from previous work on the following Wednesday!! Very early starts for me Mon-Wed next week and travelling a fair bit!!
    Saving for:
    Emergency Fund: 2246.53/3000
    Deposit Fund: 7234.95.95/?
    • savingwannabe
    • By savingwannabe 11th Nov 19, 6:33 PM
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    Well done on treating him sorry the food was overpriced. It's great that you will have two paydays together v soon. Have a good rest of the week.
    Christmas Fund 268 No spend month?
    • pinknsparkly
    • By pinknsparkly 12th Nov 19, 8:53 PM
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    that's such a shame about the restaurant, but at least you know for next time I suppose! I'm so pleased the laptop made an (almost) complete recovery
    MFW 2019 challenge #99: 8174 / 6,000 (4671 is in "offset" pot)
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