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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 15th Oct 17, 10:13 PM
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    Starting over...
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    • 15th Oct 17, 10:13 PM
    Starting over... 15th Oct 17 at 10:13 PM
    Hi all!

    It's been a while since I've used this website and forum, largely because I've been living abroad for a few years and BOY have I missed it! For the record, there's nothing remotely like MSE in Ireland and if I was much cleverer I would have loved to have started something similar.

    The reason I'm rejoining the MSE clan is because in 12 weeks time (82 days to be exact) I'm moving back to Devon And while I'm really excited, I'm also extremely nervous to be starting over. I run a successful business here in Ireland that I'm hoping to bring over (but realistically it'll take at least 12 months to get to the same level - I'm a wedding singer if anyone needs one ), and the thought of being a 30-something who is going back to live with her mother is nauseating...

    Financially I have no savings and 1700 on a credit card - I've put all my money into my business, so the plan is to save as much money as I possibly can before I move. I have a lot of work coming up but my day job is also self-employed so budgeting can be difficult while I wait for invoices to be paid.

    I work mostly in the afternoons and evenings so I'm on the hunt for a temp morning or night time job for the next few months, but I'm also looking online for ways to earn a bit extra. I still have my UK bank account so I'm looking at doing the gambling websites using Top Cashback (I hate gambling so stopping after the minimum bet to get the cash back won't be an issue), and I write a bit in my spare time so I might try some of the task-based websites too.

    Well, I think that's it for now. Wish me luck!
    Moved back to the UK 05/01/18
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    • DebtFreeDuo
    • By DebtFreeDuo 10th Nov 17, 9:36 AM
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    Fingers crossed that your room mates move doesn't happen until after you have left then! Its a shame they can't hang on until just after Christmas, I don't think I would want to be moving at this time of year.

    I hope you're not too stressed out with everything going on, the bookings you can sort out, its done now and we can't travel back in time so we just have to deal with these things as best we can.
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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 11th Nov 17, 2:49 PM
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    DFD you're such a good voice of reason! Both clients were really nice about my mistakes and rebooked on different dates, they both just said "these things happen", which for the record is exactly what I'd say to anyone bar myself and good news is my flatmates have decided that they're not in any rush to move, fingers crossed it stays that way!

    I had a lovely time with my mate last night, the weather came in hard and his mum insisted I stay the night (he's another one starting again and living with his mum, it seems to be the trendy thing atm) so the vino came out. I might not get chance to see him or his mum again before I leave so the goodbyes have started...

    Although yesterday was great, the to do list wasn't very successful haha:

    - reschedule / cancel my dumb dumb double bookings (still annoyed with myself) Done and everyone was lovely about it
    - connect with members of Musical Society Ongoing
    - update CV Nope
    - Sort lyrics and tracks for carolling Ongoing
    - Refasten hook and eye on dress Done
    - Rejig finances Nope
    - Start on PDF version of flyer Nope
    - Blitz room Done
    - PAD Done
    - Gig Done
    - Fill up car Got this done today

    Today's list is just to finish yesterday's off, plus

    - PAD
    - shopping
    - watch Ireland V South Africa
    Moved back to the UK 05/01/18
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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 11th Nov 17, 4:08 PM
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    Just done some quick sums and rejigged everything to include my extra management wages. The emails I've sent about the wedding fair refunds have been ignored so I'll try calling next week. Assuming I get this, stick to my budgets, and the exchange rate stays the same, I should pay off my debt and save 3000 to get started in Devon. The budget includes a bit of slack for fun and presents so there's no reason I can't do this... I just need to stay disciplined!
    Moved back to the UK 05/01/18
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    • MeenaM
    • By MeenaM 11th Nov 17, 5:16 PM
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    well done on your successes so far and wow i love Devon good luck with the move!
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    • DebtFreeDuo
    • By DebtFreeDuo 11th Nov 17, 6:14 PM
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    Well done on getting everything sorted! Sounds like you have had a lovely weekend so far and those figures sound amazing! Will definitely give you a good start for your move back here.
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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 12th Nov 17, 9:40 AM
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    Thanks MeenaM and DFD - still very nervous and excited for the move! The savings will be desperately needed by the looks of it - looking at the jobs around there's very little in my area of expertise, which in a way is helpful because it means I have to go 100% into making the business full time asap.

    My to-do list just isn't getting dented atm but I'm trying to be kind to myself - there's actually nothing that needs to be done immediately. Two gigs today and five hours of driving means my to do list is called "If it" - if it gets done, great! Should at least be a NSD today!

    - connect with members of Musical Society Ongoing
    - update CV
    - Sort lyrics and tracks for carolling Ongoing
    - Start on PDF version of flyer
    - PAD Done
    - Gig
    - Make packed lunch

    Have a great Sunday, folks!
    Moved back to the UK 05/01/18
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    • DebtFreeDuo
    • By DebtFreeDuo 12th Nov 17, 9:50 AM
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    I wouldn't be doing any of my to do list with such a long day ahead! I'm sure you will get your new buisness up and running, you seem to be very well established where you are now.
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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 12th Nov 17, 10:45 PM
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    I wouldn't be doing any of my to do list with such a long day ahead! I'm sure you will get your new buisness up and running, you seem to be very well established where you are now.
    Originally posted by DebtFreeDuo
    Yeahhhhhh, the admin didn't get done

    Next week's list looks like this:

    - PADs
    - a few NSDs
    - at least three workouts
    - sort rest of Secret Santa
    - make sure I have all files needed on laptop so I can carry on working in the UK
    - figure out whether it's cheaper to fix wing mirror in Ireland or UK
    - UPDATE BLOODY CV!
    - Sort out times and flight details for Saturday
    - Batch cook stew
    - order logo
    - start on new website
    - start on flyer
    - change over Social Media pages to new name
    - put together set lists for the week
    - learn one new song
    - check all dates for December
    - buy sparkly top for Christmas gigs

    Heading to the UK on Saturday, and from the moment I land until Tuesday it's fun central - which means I HAVE to work my a$$ off until then. Gig-wise it's a little quieter ('Only' five gigs haha) so I need to focus and get all this done.

    Time to put on my big girl pants!
    Moved back to the UK 05/01/18
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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 13th Nov 17, 9:19 AM
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    Morning!

    Plans for today:

    - PAD Already done, 21.65
    - NSD
    - Meeting for fundraiser
    - Gig

    And I'm going to get cracking on my weekly list:

    - PADs
    - a few NSDs
    - at least three workouts
    - sort rest of Secret Santa
    - make sure I have all files needed on laptop so I can carry on working in the UK
    - figure out whether it's cheaper to fix wing mirror in Ireland or UK
    - UPDATE BLOODY CV!
    - Sort out times and flight details for Saturday
    - Batch cook stew
    - order logo
    - start on new website
    - start on flyer
    - change over Social Media pages to new name
    - put together set lists for the week
    - learn one new song
    - check all dates for December
    - buy sparkly top for Christmas gigs

    Let's do this!
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    • DebtFreeDuo
    • By DebtFreeDuo 13th Nov 17, 12:54 PM
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    Love your motivation today! Get that CV updated, it shouldn't take too long and how great will you feel once its done and out the way?
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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 13th Nov 17, 7:58 PM
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    Totally forgot I have a volunteer shift at 3.30am so I'm off to bed in a bit, quick update:

    Plans for today:

    - PAD Already done, 21.65
    - NSD Done!
    - Meeting for fundraiser Done
    - Gig Done

    And I'm going to get cracking on my weekly list:

    - PADs One down
    - a few NSDs One done, think I'll aim for four
    - at least three workouts
    - sort rest of Secret Santa
    - make sure I have all files needed on laptop so I can carry on working in the UK
    - figure out whether it's cheaper to fix wing mirror in Ireland or UK
    - UPDATE BLOODY CV! DONE!!!!!
    - Sort out times and flight details for Saturday
    - Batch cook stew
    - order logo
    - start on new website
    - start on flyer
    - change over Social Media pages to new name
    - put together set lists for the week
    - learn one new song
    - check all dates for December
    - buy sparkly top for Christmas gigs

    And I need to buy a new charger for my laptop because it has gone to cable heaven Tomorrow is my only day off before I head home on Saturday soooooo I basically need to do EVERYTHING. Bring on the caffeine!
    Moved back to the UK 05/01/18
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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 14th Nov 17, 2:04 AM
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    I haven't slept and I have to be up in less than an hour for volunteering - I have a feeling it'll be a long shift

    List for today:

    - PAD Already done
    - Workout
    - Bank cheque
    - Sort solo and group numbers for society Done - this group is the bane of my life haha
    - Sort lyrics Done
    - Sort harmonies
    - Buy laptop charger
    - Buy top for gigs
    - Buy rest of Secret Santa gift
    - Sort set lists for week
    - Order logo
    - Batch cook bean stew
    - Price up wing mirror and fuel cap
    - Finalise all December gigs
    - Source ribbon and fix to dress
    - Learn two songs

    If I get through all of this on no sleep I will have confirmation that I'm superhuman - or really foolish...
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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 14th Nov 17, 7:11 PM
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    List for today:

    - PAD Already done
    - Workout Done, abs today - I will hurt tomorrow!
    - Bank cheque Done
    - Sort solo and group numbers for society Done - this group is the bane of my life haha
    - Sort lyrics Done
    - Sort harmonies Ongoin, to be finished tomorrow
    - Buy laptop charger Not done because I bought the wrong blooming thing!
    - Buy top for gigs Not done, couldn't find the right one so I'll make do
    - Buy rest of Secret Santa gift Nearly finished! The rest will have to be bought in the UK because it'll be too delicate to fly with
    - Sort set lists for week Not done - need my laptop charged
    - Order logo Done! SO excited about this
    - Batch cook bean stew Done
    - Price up wing mirror and fuel cap Ongoing, but I think it'll be cheaper in the UK
    - Finalise all December gigs Run out of time for this one, I'll get on it tomorrow
    - Source ribbon and fix to dress Done
    - Learn two songs Ongoing, to be completed tomorrow

    I tried to get through the whole day but ended up crashing 8-11am. Today was mostly successful though, I love the designer I picked for the logo, now I have to let him work his magic - I'm so excited! Also picked up a lovely tablecloth that I can use for wedding fairs, I've been looking for one for absolutely ages and Primark had a gorgeous one for 12 I might also have bought some pretty underwear and a silly little present for my grandma. The stew is cooling on the stove and my last load of laundry is on its last spin.

    Motivation is back!
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    • DebtFreeDuo
    • By DebtFreeDuo 14th Nov 17, 7:40 PM
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    Wow just look how much you have got done today! Another day like today and you will have nothing left to do.
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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 14th Nov 17, 9:20 PM
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    Thanks! Not too bad on three hours sleep, even if I do say so myself

    List for tomorrow:

    - PAD
    - Update finances
    - Buy laptop charger
    - Finish set lists
    - Work out
    - Finish off harmonies and prep for rehearsal
    - Tidy and clean bed and bathroom
    - Finish learning songs
    - Finalise remaining gigs
    - Work out / 10K steps

    Hoping for an early night - wish me luck!
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    • wishingthemortgaheaway
    • By wishingthemortgaheaway 14th Nov 17, 10:24 PM
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    I'm impressed with everything you've done today, especially in such little sleep. Tomorrow will be a doddle. (Can you tackle my 'to do' list too?)
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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 15th Nov 17, 7:47 AM
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    WTMA I'd love to but I'm quite busy haha!

    Got seven hours last night and feeling pretty much back to normal. PAD is already done, 8.83 on the CC. Now on for the cleaning...
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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 15th Nov 17, 10:51 PM
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    Another day done and dusted!

    - PAD Done
    - Update finances Done, still on track with everything
    - Buy laptop charger Ordered, couldn't buy it in a shop
    - Finish set lists Not done
    - Work out Wait, I put this on twice??
    - Finish off harmonies and prep for rehearsal Done
    - Tidy and clean bed and bathroom Half done
    - Finish learning songs Teeny bit left to do
    - Finalise remaining gigs I did this, and it changed!
    - Work out / 10K steps Done, 16k steps\1

    Off to bed with my book, hoping I'll get a full 8+ hours tonight - I'm shattered!
    Moved back to the UK 05/01/18
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    • ladymay
    • By ladymay 16th Nov 17, 9:28 AM
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    Morning world!

    My logo arrived yesterday! After a couple of revisions I'm so happy with it! And every little thing that happens now is a step closer to coming home and my excitement (and stress levels ha) are creeping up.

    Laptop is out of action until my new charger arrives - luckily because I'm heading to the UK IN TWO DAYS (so excited!) I could order one and have it sent to my 'friend's' office (oh yes, I have a 'friend' now hehe!) and everything tends to be quite a bit cheaper back home. The charger is a great example - the cheapest I could find over here is !!!8364;37.99 (bout 34) without delivery; cheapest in the UK is 14.48 including delivery

    I've decided to leave the wing mirror until the car is in the UK - again, it's half the price to order back home so plan is to order it next month. It needs to be fixed before the MOT but I have 30 days to get the MOT certificate from 5th January so that should be fine, especially as my brother's best mate and flatmate is a mechanic What is not fine is I forgot my tax is due at the end of the month and I haven't budgeted for it, that'll be !!!8364;115 coming out of my 'misc/fun' budget...

    I had my December work all sorted... and then two clients changed times for gigs One person I need to speak to isn't in today so I won't get this sorted today. Also, people keep asking me if I'm having leaving drinks so I might have to organise a little get together. None of my friends are in the same circles at all so it'd be a really interesting night!

    Aims for today:

    - PAD
    - NSD
    - chase up wedding fair refund (it's been three months since she confirmed she'd pay me back... I think she might be hoping I'll just go away?)
    - Record harmony guide tracks for society carolling
    - Sort set lists for tomorrow
    - Clean bathroom
    - gig

    It's not quite so crazy today
    Last edited by ladymay; 16-11-2017 at 9:32 AM.
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    • DebtFreeDuo
    • By DebtFreeDuo 16th Nov 17, 1:01 PM
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    If I had been waiting 3 months for a refund I would be chasing them every day until they got sick of me and got it processed! 3 months is a ridiculous amount of time to wait for your money back.

    Glad you like the logo! Its important to love something like that because its what everyone will see first.
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