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    • crv1963
    • By crv1963 5th Aug 18, 6:34 PM
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    50 something man seeking to save to retire before 60!
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    • 5th Aug 18, 6:34 PM
    50 something man seeking to save to retire before 60! 5th Aug 18 at 6:34 PM
    Hello,


    This thread is inspired by reading others journeys, and at the suggestion of ShyandRetiring. I have been a lurker and commentator on a number of the excellent threads on this Forum. I like the Pensions Board, this board and the Pet Board in particular. I have been given some excellent advice and had answers to many specific questions on them.


    Background:-


    I'm a 54 year old soon to be 55. Where did the years go? I'm an NHS worker and can take my pension unreduced at 55 due to having "special officer class" because of my particular area of work. I currently have "all my years in to get a full pension" each years contribution counts as 2 years from 20 years service, in March I had a total of 40 years or 40/80ths pensionable pay.


    I am- because of the way the scheme is calculated allowed to accrue a further 5 years or up to 45/80ths from the age of 55-58. I also am allowed if I work shifts to have any shift allowance calculated as part of my final pension.


    So far so good, Mrs CRV and I married later in life than was originally planned, we lived together many years ago but parted without rancour in 1992 because in part of my career ambition and her reluctance to leave the area she lived in. We both went on to marry others, finally get back in touch through Friends Reunited. Two divorces later (we ended up divorcing our respective spouses) we finally married each other. I have two sons from my first marriage who live in the South East, Mrs CRV never had children but she (now we) has two nieces whom she/we adore. We both work in healthcare same qualification, me NHS, Mrs CRV always private sector since qualifying.


    I had a brief career break when I moved in with Mrs CRV, so did have an NHS Pension break but re-joined in time to preserve my special class status. Last year I had a heart attack- fully recovered now thanks to excellent emergency care and treatment, but had an enforced 7 month break from my stressful current role. This led to my MSE addiction and our planning carefully our retirement. I say it as the "Royal We" as the whole topic is cold for Mrs CRV!


    Part of my personal journey was re-evaluating my current role and seeking to reduce my stress levels. My cardiologist suggested that I should seek to return to shifts as a means of getting additional days off from work. This in addition to feeling side lined at work even being labelled as too old for the job and rather unkindly a dinosaur by a colleague said in jest I'm sure but left me feeling undervalued and not part of the Team.


    So luckily for me the Trust I work for realised that they had got rid of all the experienced staff and the in-patient services it runs needs experienced staff to provide leadership, coaching and in some cases straightforward "you do it like this" support for younger qualified and inexperienced staff. I applied for one of the posts and got it, starting in September! Luckily for me and my pension it is all "out of hours" and unsocial hours work, so I'm swapping my M-F, 9-5 role for a post that is almost all night and weekend work. It is worth around 12k extra on my salary and of course around 6k pa on my pension when I get it. I'm going from 20 days every 4 weeks to 13 shifts every 4 weeks, so will be able to also work a few extra shifts boosting the coffers more, as currently I work 2-3 "extras" at weekends while doing my M-F role, so having only 4-5 days off every 4 week period.


    Mrs CRV isn't so well off with her pension planning, she has some SERPs pension pot, with nothing between that and her now auto-enrolment pot. So this is where we'll have to concentrate I think.


    We have some debts, a 90k mortgage at a fixed rate and I was forced to borrow 12k for a new car 2 months ago as mine was written off and I need a decent economical car for work and the commute.


    The purpose of this diary?

    To document my journey to retirement which I hope will be 18 months- 3 years time, 5 at an absolute push, I don't want to be the richest in the graveyard but want a decent comfortable retirement.


    I also hope others will see an ordinary man can have aspirations, share what goes well and help others learn from what goes wrong!


    To get some advice/ ideas that add to our plans. I already have picked up tips, one thing we do need to sort is wills, LPA and future proofing our home, in addition to Mrs CRVs pension planning. I'll hopefully get some ideas?


    We live in a large bungalow with a very large garden, isolated on a hill in the middle of town, a cat with thyroid problems, a diabetic border collie !!!!! and an old Labrador dog who has had to have major surgery for mouth cancer, a collection of hens, a collection of tropical marine fish tanks (Mrs CRV hobby I am only allowed to look at the Seahorses!), we have a collection of outbuildings- shed, summerhouse, air raid shelter and garage full of my junk aka "valued items" that need de-cluttering as well as a loft heaving with an assortment of junk including 9 old fish tanks!


    We worked our number out- current figures-


    Me DB 16.5k pa 48k TFLS or 13k pa 85k TFLS
    Old Equitable Life AVC 6k
    Full SP is forecast if contribute another 4 years


    Mrs CRV 24k SERPs pot (2004 valuation, updated one requested)
    5k Auto Enrolled pot
    Full SP if contribute another 4 years


    We think save into PP or SIPP for Mrs CRV, draw down at 8k pa or up to PA. We think 24k pa would be manageable, any extra would be a bonus. We are in the position that if we live long enough as we age we'll actually get an increasing level of income!


    Motivation for saving?

    We've seen too many struggle to "get by" on SP alone! We want to be able to run our cars, keep our pets/ hobbies and have some decent holidays- we're having our gap year(s) at the end of our careers. So a tour of China maybe to see the Great Wall etc, tour of SE Asia see the Temples, Tour of India, and I'd love to see Botswana, Bermuda and go to Moscow! All depends on a) finance and b) health.


    Thank you for reading my ramblings!


    Never look down on someone unless you're helping them up!
    CRV1963- Light bulb moment Sept 15- Planning the great escape- aka retirement!
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    • crv1963
    • By crv1963 15th Feb 19, 5:45 PM
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    Take no heed of them . I'll be 63 this year and can honestly say that gardening is less of a physical chore to me now, than it was when I retired 8 years ago .
    Originally posted by ManofLeisure
    I can honestly say Mum is in her garden doing something almost every day of the year, in the warm weather this can be from breakfast to supper time some days! She is planting trees and bushes that will mature a long time in the future but enjoys it so much.

    She only asks for help with the heavy or high things. We either pay ad hoc for assistance, I help her or a nice young neighbor helps her. In return for his help she has been helping him with plants, the odd knitted garment for his young son or on the odd occasion payment for decorating.

    The beauty of retirement is you have the time to pace yourself as it doesn't need doing before work on Monday or the next shift- the task is the next shift!
    CRV1963- Light bulb moment Sept 15- Planning the great escape- aka retirement!
    • MrAPJI
    • By MrAPJI 17th Feb 19, 6:15 PM
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    The beauty of retirement is you have the time to pace yourself as it doesn't need doing before work on Monday or the next shift- the task is the next shift!
    Originally posted by crv1963

    So true - it's like being on holiday 24/7 .
    • Mr Costcutter
    • By Mr Costcutter 17th Feb 19, 7:37 PM
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    My wife retired less than a year ago and is finding it hard to adjust. Today she suggested that we 'move house'. Goodness me, I genuinely thought this was our 'forever home' .

    ManofLeisure, did you ever sell that buy-to-let?

    CRV, your mum is lucky to have you .
    • ManofLeisure
    • By ManofLeisure 18th Feb 19, 11:37 AM
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    ManofLeisure, did you ever sell that buy-to-let?
    Originally posted by Mr Costcutter

    The property was 'gifted' to my four sons a year or so ago. At the moment my youngest son is living there with his partner, but I think the property will be marketed soon.
    • Mr Costcutter
    • By Mr Costcutter 18th Feb 19, 12:38 PM
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    Probably a wise move .
    • bugslett
    • By bugslett 19th Feb 19, 1:42 PM
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    Take no heed of them . I'll be 63 this year and can honestly say that gardening is less of a physical chore to me now, than it was when I retired 8 years ago .
    Originally posted by ManofLeisure

    I didn't as far as the gardening was concerned...but I decided not to go for it. Something ermine said on the pension board about not making any major decisions in the first 6 months chimed with some thoughts I already had. Is what I think I want to do while my work head is on, going to be the same as my retirement head.

    If anyone is interested - in the 'armpit' of a canal and the River Weaver navigation, 6 reception rooms, four beds, three baths. All for 200k.

    https://www.bests.co.uk/properties-for-sale/property/7131321-canal-side-weston-point-runcorn


    The oddity if anyone wants to look at it on the satellite map, is that to get to it, you go through Eddie Stobart's security barrier during the day, gate keys at night and you are on the port of Weston. Lot of space to run about with the dogs and a long 1 miles spit of land to mooch round. It's either your worst nightmmare of a house or a dream come true. Certainly useful in the event of a zombie apocalypse



    Bugslet as Man of Leisure also said, ignore them! They are wrong on so many levels. I as you know work in mental health, I was worried about my Mum doing too much, and had a good chat with one of my Consultant Psychiatrist colleagues about it - he has a mother around the same age.

    The relevant part of the discussion was never stop or try to stop anyone doing anything that they enjoy.

    Just help them do it safely. So I got Mum some step ladders with a platform for stability instead of the "normal" A frame ones so she can get up a height, hedge trimmer with a long arm for reach and a smaller electric lawn mower so not as heavy. I pay for a chap to come three times a year to do the tops of the hedges at just over six foot tall about 30-40 a time. I do the tip runs.

    One of the theories about lifespan of men vs women is to simplify it, men retire and do less, women retire and do the same or more. It is the doing- housework, gardening, the doing things, cooking, shopping, hobbies like crafts that make the mind work that helps. Also the social side of things, chatting to strangers in shops, having coffee with friends, exercising dogs, joining groups such as dancing, keep fit and the like that broaden social circle and keeping up with family that counts. These are all female dominated activities on the whole, men tend to treat retirement as a long holiday on the whole and lose the routine.

    The loss of a routine or purpose however loose and varied it is, is what leads to arm chair sitting and decline. Although there are exceptions that is what they are exceptions and of course the physical can interfere.

    So we encourage Mum when she says I'm going to try.......... She can be hard to catch when the weather is warm and around Christmas for all of he "do's and parties" she goes to as part of her activities. She has a far wider social circle now Dad has died because she can and does please herself.

    If you want to buy your ideal home do so, I love our home, on paper with what needs doing to it and the large garden we'd never take it on now- on paper if we were sensible we'd end up with a modern box, safe, little work but so dull in comparison, at least we have to think, plan and work on it. Plenty to keep us going for years!
    Originally posted by crv1963

    My close friends husband is semi retired. He needs to allow his son to take over the business without interfering,however the interfering is all he has. He has no hobbies apart from watching Everton play and that isn't my definition of a hobby. It can't be doing him any good and it certainly drives my friend nuts!

    When I was thinking about retiring, I drew up more than an A4 sheet of paper of things to do; some were doing more of what I do now, others were taking things up again but mosty it was new things, which included joining societies and meetings.

    I do agree that on the whole, women are more likely to be active in retirement, to seek out new people and that makes all the difference to an enjoyable, meaningful retirement than one where you put your feet up.
    Last edited by bugslett; 19-02-2019 at 1:47 PM.
    Yes I'm bugslet, I lost my original log in details and old e-mail address.
    • Savvy_Sue
    • By Savvy_Sue 19th Feb 19, 11:11 PM
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    If anyone is interested - in the 'armpit' of a canal and the River Weaver navigation, 6 reception rooms, four beds, three baths. All for 200k.

    https://www.bests.co.uk/properties-for-sale/property/7131321-canal-side-weston-point-runcorn


    The oddity if anyone wants to look at it on the satellite map, is that to get to it, you go through Eddie Stobart's security barrier during the day, gate keys at night and you are on the port of Weston. Lot of space to run about with the dogs and a long 1 miles spit of land to mooch round. It's either your worst nightmmare of a house or a dream come true. Certainly useful in the event of a zombie apocalypse
    Originally posted by bugslett
    My worst nightmare!

    One of my siblings was house hunting but was 'discouraged' from looking at a station master's house. Beautiful setting, only access was over the (pedestrian) railway bridge and up a slope the other side. Yup, no road access at all: removals, deliveries, visitors - all up and over the bridge, then up the slope the other side.
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    • bugslett
    • By bugslett 20th Feb 19, 8:57 AM
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    My worst nightmare!

    One of my siblings was house hunting but was 'discouraged' from looking at a station master's house. Beautiful setting, only access was over the (pedestrian) railway bridge and up a slope the other side. Yup, no road access at all: removals, deliveries, visitors - all up and over the bridge, then up the slope the other side.
    Originally posted by Savvy_Sue
    Access is virtually to the door on this one, that's not a problem. I actually really like industrial areas and once you are on the property itself, it's like an island, even the garden appears to have its own microclimate. I really would love to have that port as my own personal playground at night
    Yes I'm bugslet, I lost my original log in details and old e-mail address.
    • crv1963
    • By crv1963 21st Feb 19, 8:55 AM
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    Bugslett,

    The property to me sounds great, if I was NW based rather than NE I'd be seriously thinking about it! Isolated but accessible, easy reach of amenities and services, lots of potential and gardens big enough to make an escape free run for the dogs.

    If the house appeals and you can sort the work/ refurbishment I'd really be torn too.
    CRV1963- Light bulb moment Sept 15- Planning the great escape- aka retirement!
    • bugslett
    • By bugslett 21st Feb 19, 3:19 PM
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    You know crv, I thought you were SW! Just move, I'll walk round and help you with the gardening
    Yes I'm bugslet, I lost my original log in details and old e-mail address.
    • crv1963
    • By crv1963 21st Feb 19, 5:03 PM
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    You know crv, I thought you were SW! Just move, I'll walk round and help you with the gardening
    Originally posted by bugslett
    No we're in the NE, right up in the hills, just a 20 minute walk and we're in Northumberland. Thanks for the gardening offer but I have to fight Mum off from doing it!
    CRV1963- Light bulb moment Sept 15- Planning the great escape- aka retirement!
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