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2024 - slowing down, simplifying and saving up for a more intentional life!
I’ve decided to draw a line and start a new diary ahead of the new year. For background, I’m in my mid 40’s, Mum to one amazing little boy and feel as though I’ve never got a grip on this whole adulting lark! This is reflected in the very chaotic nature of my life and the way I budget / manage the household finances (or…
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We will get this debt down & the savings up
Several years ago I joined MSE with a different user name, but then it all went a bit wrong with losing job and other things, so I sort of fell by the wayside. Now I have created a new profile and am starting again with more determination. I have read so many people's diaries and can see that it helps you focus and it is…
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Moving on with things
I have debated posting this for a few days or so. One of the main reasons I wanted to post an update is because recently I said goodbye to my car for good having made the decision to lease another electric car through my business. A decision I simply think I wouldn’t have made without having been on here. My wife and I are…
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Kezzy's debt journey 2024
I've been a member here for a long time, but for the first time I am going to create my own debt free diary. A little about me:nhs nurse, married mother of 2, and 2 doggie children. I have a bit of a problem with gambling, but hopefully I'm addressing it now I have used gamstop to block myself from uk sites. Lightbulb…
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2020++ - smiling and waving and looking so fine
Hello welcome to my shiny new 5 years (I hope) diary. The title is based on my favourite lyric from the Bowie song 5 years - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4bcnO3VQ_fc - I commend you to go and have a listen - its the live Old Grey Whistle Test version and is hauntingly beautiful. Why a 5 year diary - well its is…
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Giving every £ a job
I've decided to be brave and continue my journey from lurking on these boards, through posting on these boards and I now feel ready to start my own diary. I don't actually have any debt anymore but I am very bad at saving so I've decided to set myself savings goals and treat them as debts to my future self. I was…
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An in-between phase
I am largely starting this thread so as to not rudely put a long whinge on the lovely @foxgloves and @EssexHebridean threads! I will talk a little more about my slightly unsettled life situation in due course, but for now, just whinging 😂 Today I have been trying to switch to a more money saving phone contract. It has been…
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Onwards and the debt goes downwards!
Hi All Old diary is here http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=1000559 I can't do the posh linky things. Things are all changing in the Lucielle household. DS1 arrived back from New Zealand and has moved out to start his new job. Spent most of last week building flat pack furniture from the well known store.…
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Evasive action! Stop the trench becoming a hole.
I need to take evasive action, and I need to hold myself accountable. I'm not going to call where I am a hole. It's still a rut. A trench. I've got savings, but they are in accounts where they earn good interest rates so I hate touching them. I've just moved house, and I've been doing a money shuffle every month, borrowing…
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A new chapter, An empty nest, Drama school & Last year of Uni
I've been on these boards for many years and a long time ago did start a diary when we'd had a windfall and cleared some debt and I'm not sure what happened but 'life' got in the way. Today starts a new chapter of my life as my youngest has just left home (albeit temporarily) for her to access a drama course in a different…
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181k in Debt - Need Help
So, I guess this is the start of my debt free diary..... Oh boy, I just worked out my debts and I cannot believe how much I owe. I bought a house within the last 6 months, I've done the house up and it's now worth £65,000 more than we paid for it. The plan is (and always has been) to do the house up and remortgage in 12…
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Desperate to retire...
Hi I'm a single mam with a teenage son, spaniel and 2 🐈 Until a few days ago, I thought I had 6 months leftt on a loan.. nope it's 18 months. Over the last couple of months my cat ran up £500 at the vets and the car needed repairing.. after all it does need to be able to start.. that was another 500. So I've worked out my…
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One final push BPD vs DFW
Good Afternoon all, I have been debt free before and even had a good little pot of savings. But in 2022 I suffered from a BPD spiral so big it landed myself (35f) and my husband (35m) into £32k worth of debt in a mere 6 months with nothing to show for it. Since then I have been signed up to Stepchange and am down to £23k…
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Budgeting by the beach
I've been on here lurking for some time, and I think it's time I started my own diary and keep it updated. I originally tried to get this diary started in 2021, but just wrote one post which I then deleted. I've decided to resurrect this one on Friday 6 May 2022. Last year I decided I needed a fresh start, so I moved close…
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Life is a journey to be experienced, not a problem to be solved…
Hi all, F26 Finally facing up to a situation that’s been getting rapidly worse since I was 18. Fed up of feeling self loathing, judgement for myself and full on misery. Struggles with gambling addiction (in recovery), payday loans, cost of living, mental health struggles, financially supporting an out of work (now ex)…
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Debt and Caring
An unprovoked attack on my ankle by a metal workout bench has me lying down with a foot up this evening. Which makes this the ideal time to start this diary. And possibly to declutter some exercise equipment... Yesterday I was £9993.61 in debt. Today I have made a £1500 payment to one of my credit cards taking me down to…
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2024 - Let's go again
So I'm starting 2024 with my debt at a little over £31k - still sounds so bad but considering it was £50k when I had my LBM in 2022 it's not so bad. I'm paying £700 per month towards debt and all but one account has been defaulted. Which makes me think about how best to tackle that. Defaults will start dropping off in…
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taking responsibilty to get me where I want to be
Good morning MSE'ers I have been reading diaries for the last few months and have found peoples stories so inspiring that I am hoping for some company on my own journey , this will be my own log which hopefully will motivate me at times of bleakness so I can look back on any progress I have made My sitituation is quite…
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My long overdue journey to becoming debt free!!
Hello, I've been lurking on here for a good few years now, and I have decided its time to finally, and for once and for all, to sort my sorry financial mess out! I wont bore you with all the gory details of how I got here, it would just be a list of excuses and justifications, when the hard reality is I spend more than I…
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Getting Over "The Terrible Mistake" and a Debt Free Target of 2026
Hi everyone In January 2022 I had to sit down and tell my wife that not only had I managed to lose over 100K in inheritance but tried to recoup those losses through adding approximately 25k in credit card debt. COVID also caused a huge drop in income. Through a couple of really crazy investments (Avoid AIM investing like…