Weekly Flylady Thread 15th November 2021



Welcome to the weekly Flylady Thread.
What is
FLYLADY? Well, it's our version of the US flylady idea - but we work on the
principle that housework is not fun, it's boring, can be time-consuming, is
often thankless but, unfortunately, necessary. It's here on Old Style to
provide the support we all need and to make the whole task easier and quicker.
We also accept that, sometimes, life just gets on top of us and we can't keep
up, maybe because we're time-poor, not in the best of health and/or we have
littlies who need us. We are definitely NOT control freaks aiming for
perfection and utterly spotless show-homes.
You're more
than welcome to join us in the everlasting battle against dust, grime and
gibble. The aim of our thread is to make those onerous tasks less daunting, and
to support each other - and to make time for the finer things in life!
Please do
remember we have to abide by MSE rules; each post should, ideally, include some
mention of flying.
Thank
you Valli for last week's thread
Please
follow the forum rules on this thread as Flylady has been here a LONG time and
is a fabulous support and resource for lots of us. All posts should have some
Flylady-related content! (i.e. it should be on-topic)
The idea is
that even if you are really busy you don't need to fall off the wagon!
Every room
comes back around next week so please don’t stress about catching up
These lists
are only suggestions and not a must do list; you are more than welcome to post
and follow your own lists.
Also adding
a declutter mission each day will help to gradually clear the clutter and make
flying easier.
A few of the basics before we start the week -
Hotspots are areas
where if one thing gets put there, loads of other things follow!
Daily
routines are anything you need to do on a daily basis like
washing, swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, ironing, making beds, vacuuming
high traffic areas, making meals etc.
Night-time
routines are all things which make getting ready in the morning
easier, preparing clothes for the next day, making lunches, swish & swipes
of the kitchen and tidying the living room before you go to bed plus personals
like shower/brush teeth etc.
Fling
Boogie - stick on some loud music, grab a bin bag and whiz around the
house finding items that can go out with the rubbish, recycling, for charity
shop, basically anything that will stop it cluttering your home.
Swish
and swipe/S&S means have a quick wipe over an area such as a sink or
toilet to prevent the build up of dirt. This is usually done on a daily basis
HHE/HHC/HHI Half Hour
exercise/challenge/ironing ... run around for 30 minutes to the Benny Hill music frantically cleaning
exercising or ironing.. .other music may be used if you prefer!
WM ~ Washing
machine
TD ~ Tumble
dryer
SC ~
Slowcooker
BM ~
Breadmaker
DW ~
Dishwasher
SOAADFA ~ Sit on
'bottom' and do 'nothing'
KH/XH/FW ~
Ex-husband and other not so polite versions
DH/DD/DS/DW/DP ~ Dear
husband/daughter/son/wife/partner/whatever
OH/SO ~ Other
half/significant other
NN ~ nice
neighbour
Toxic (friend/mother/sister/whoever) ~ person in your
life that seems to exist to make your life miserable
AF ~ Aunt Flo
'time of the month'.. nothing to do with flying but it comes up often.
ETA ~ Edited to
add
Gibble ~
miscellaneous crap that appears forever homeless
Dot-to-dot ~ pick a
small area (not a whole room) like a chair/coffee/table/shelf/worktop or
wherever- that’s your first 'dot' - totally clear it - clean it - and only put
back what should be there - deal with what you have removed (not just move it
somewhere else) then if you have time move on and do the same to another 'dot'
-the idea is just like a dot to dot puzzle, you aim to join up all the dots and
have a tidy room. The trick is to keep each dot tidy until you get them all
joined up! All credit to former Flylady AnW's Mum for this one
RoD ~ Room of
Doom, the one room that feels like it is a permanent pit and cannot be used to
its potential!
MAD half
hour - Mad is the abbreviation for Make A Difference.
The idea is
that you have a Forth bridge (ie never-ending - or just huge) task but that you
work on it in half-hour bursts. This way you know you ARE stopping, and that
you won't get it finished but you will make a difference - so it might be
clearing out - the garage or shed, or clothes sorting, or weeding - you get the
picture - but rather than keep going until you've lost the will to live you do
half an hour...but, eventually those half hours will get the job done!
Frog (or
other amphibian) ~ google 'eat that frog'
Spoons ~ google
'but you don't look sick' and/or 'The Spoon Theory'.
Mr
S/A/T/M/L/Al - supermarkets Sainsburys, Asda, Tesco, Morrisons,
Lidl, Aldi. You get the picture!!
Click here to
read Toots wonderful welcome guide
PLEASE REMEMBER YOU DON'T HAVE TO DO A COMPLETE LIST EVERY DAY!
Now for this week:...
Monday
~ Lovely Living Room, Happy Hall and Safe Stairs
Level One...
Declutter all these areas
Vacuum these areas
Level Two...
Wipe/vacuum sofas
Clean windows in these areas, check curtains/nets/blinds while you are there,
do they need a clean?
Dust any areas below eye level
Level Three...
Dust anything above eye level (if safe to do so)
Clear anything that shouldn't be where it is, should the magazines really be on
the floor?
Wash any soft furnishings in need
Binbag dance
Tidy coats/shoes bags etc
Extra Mission Tasks~ if you want to do more
- Clean windows in these areas, check curtains/nets/blinds while you are there, do they need a clean?
- Check you have your Christmas card list done, if it's not done at least spend 10 minutes on it
- Spend 15 minutes sorting paperwork, dealing with anything urgent NOW
- Have you booked your Christmas shopping delivery slots?
- Spend half an hour doing something for yourself
- 27 Fling Boogie, you know the routine, grab a bag and clear that clutter!
- Clean out the vacuum cleaner, empty the bag/bucket, clean filters if they are washable MAKE SURE YOU DON'T PUT THEM BACK UNTIL THEY ARE DRY!
Tuesday
~ Kitchen and dining room
Level One...
Clear and wipe work surfaces
Wipe down all the major appliances.. clean filters/drawers/seals etc
Wipe over the cupboards fronts and kickboards
Level Two...
Wipe the tables and replace the cloth if necessary
Sweep and mop the floors
Run appliances through a 'clean' wash
Deweb and defluff these rooms
Level Three...
Clear and mop/vacuum the floors
Scrub down the dining chairs..
Binbag dance! Grab a binbag.. fill it up.. and chuck it out!
Clean the oven.. and the shelves!
Extras - help yourself!
- Wipe and replace ALL the small appliances
- Empty and wash out bins
- S&S the fridge
- Clear out a manky cupboard
- Check the freezer, see what needs using up..
- If you want a christmas supermarket delivery you need to book it this week, if you haven't already done it!
Wednesday
~ Master Bedrooms and Landings
Level One...
Remove floordrobe, make sure all clothes are put away neatly
Level Two...
Strip bed linen and wash, replace with clean linen
Vacuum floors in these areas
Level Three...
Vacuum mattress
Clean tops of drawers
Extra mission tasks, as always if you fancy an extra challenge try one or
more of these
- Clean windows in these areas
- Check through drawers, anything that should have been thrown out ages ago?
- Cobweb removal upstairs, go on grab a duster and swipe them down
- Clean a set of curtains, nets or blinds
- Clean light fittings and light switches in any room, more than one if you like
- Plan your shopping list for your christmas goodies.. don't forget the turkey! If you are ordering stuff from local shops.. pork pies/meat etc get it done this week!
Thrilling
Thursday - Study/PC area and Bathrooms
Level One...
Clean floors in these rooms
Level Two...
Clean baths, toilets and sinks
Clear any clutter from desk
Dust PC and desk and wipe off those cup rings!!
Wipe keyboard, house phone, sockets, switches and mouse etc
Level Three...
Wash your bathroom mats
Wipe down tiles in bathroom
Delete 10 links in your favourites which you no longer use or don't work
Clean shower screen/curtain if you have one/if required
Extra tasks list, as usual choose one or more
- Clear a hotspot, if it's bad at least spend 10 minutes on it
- Clean windows in these rooms
- Check house for places where draughts are getting in such as doors, windows etc and see if there are ways to stop it
- Clean out that airing cupboard, get rid of those things you don't need, you can use dead towels as cleaning cloths etc be ruthless! Yes this means parting with the 'just in case' things you have kept and you'll never use!
- Clean the toilet bowl on the outside and the floor in front of it, especially for those with little boys!
Friday!!~ those frightening kids rooms and spare rooms!
Level One...
Declutter the floors
Level Two...
Clear away anything that isn't in it's place, clothes, toys, books etc
Dusting.. all those shelves and flat surfaces!! Don’t forget the light shade
and curtain pole!!!
Put all the discs in their boxes and the books on the shelves and the toys in the
chests!
Sort through a chest of drawers/wardrobe and fling anything that no longer
fits.
Vacuum the floor, even if it's just where you can see
Level Three...
Strip beds, turn and vacuum mattresses!! and replace with fresh linen .. check
if duvets need freshening up too!!
Wipe any sticky marks off walls and doors
Drag the junk from under the bed and put it in its proper homes.
Fill a binbag for charity shop.. Santa will be here in 36 days so make some
space!
Dust and vacuum and wipe of sticky grotty bits.
Tidy a box of 'stuff'
Binbag dance!.. See how many toys you can fling before the large guy in red
arrives.
Extras
- HHI
- Check through what decorations etc you have and what needs replacing/buying/finding, check lights etc
- Catch up on yesterdays list! We keep getting behind!
- Update spreadsheets.. meal plans, finances etc
- Scrub your grill pan..
- Clean where your Christmas tree and any other decorations are going.
- Contact anyone you don't have address for for Christmas cards
- Check what else you need to buy or make for Christmas presents
- Wipe over ALL the upstairs doors!!
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Anyone still wanting to sign up for the Flylady Secret Santa? I shall declare the list closed at midnight tomorrow (Monday).
Hope everyone has a good week xx
This morning I have vet appointment, well Littleydog does, and I'm seeing DGD2, then this afternoon I may meet up with friends.
Have a great day everyone.
I have written my list for today, which is probably far too long to finish, but I've already made a start and will see how I get on.
I must not forget to replace the light bulb in the LR which died some time before DH went to hospital - and while I've got the steps out, I will do the annual dusting of the ceiling light fittings
Rosie had a wonderful time in the woods yesterday afternoon, so - even though I spot shampooed her - my study (her bedroom) is once again delicately perfumed with Eau de Renard. I shall have to fling open the window while we have breakfast, but will shut it again asap as it's foggy and damp outside.
(((Hugs))) spoons and sticks all round xx
thanks for the lists, I shall try to be in! A busy weekend here and flying has been neglected. We did however spend a couple of productive hours in the garden on Saturday, also menu plan and food shop were done. Yesterday was spent moving furniture back in to the dining room after the flooring was fitted and restoring the room to how it should be. Then I had to work and the day was lost. Now the rest of the house is in need of some tlc!
Paid stuff today but not too many meetings and I started early so I’m hoping to get some time around lunch to fly, probably be working to my own list though…
Hugs to all, back later with a progress report x
Thank you for the lists, I appreciate them so much even though I do my own thing most of the time!
I left the kitchen in a state last night so I have been rectifying that since 7am.... I have also set a load swishing in the WM although we are forecast rain later, so it will have to dry by the dehumidifer. I have also broken down lots of cardboard boxes to squash into the recycling bin, and generally re-homed things.
The weekend felt a bit trying if I am honest - DS, who is 7, has always had a lot to say for himself but recently everytime I ask him to do something it turns into him trying to negotiate, or saying "in a bit", rather than just getting on and doing. When he isn't being obtuse he is playing the prankster and being daft. It seems like ages since I actually had a nice little chat with him, he is either contrary or the jokester. Sure it's just a phase, but it has got to me this weekend.
Right I am going to make breakfast before I tackle the floors. I think DS has left his metal detector in the garden as well so must retrieve that.
Have lovely days all xx
I am in, of sorts! Thanks Natty for the lists, and thanks Valli for last week. The LR doesn't look too bad - just the usual hotspot on the side table that I need to sort.
I am not up yet (it is still my weekend!) It may be foggy outside as I think I can hear the fog horn 🤔 but I could be imagining it! My plan today was to get the garlic planted, and a few other allotment jobs. However, DS has noticed that the bits of furniture that he needs may be in stock at the Swedish store, so we may be going there instead! At the moment he has a wardrobe with drawers & hanging rail, but no doors & shelves! It has been a nightmare getting stuff, so we need to do it when available.
DD1 & SiL visited at the weekend, and now DH, DS & my mum are in on the secret 😁 My knitting can now be done openly!! 😂😂 It is still very early days (6 weeks) so we can't be telling everyone yet 🤐 which is hard!
Hugs, sticks & spoons to those that need them. Have a good day everyone