possible ebay problem

ok, so ive been an avid user of ebay for years, buy all kinds of stuff on there, i bought an outfit for my daughter from there quite recently.

So the other day i put this outfit on her and it had a button missing, im quite disappointed. so i send her a message telling her this and asking for a refund (or something), not sure what i was expecting there heh.

she has send me a message saying she doesnt usually give refunds but will on this occasion, but only for the actual price of the item, so it cost 8 quid plus 2 postage and shes only refunding me the 8 quid (i have to pay return postage too).

So im just feeling a bit bad at the minute as i sell on ebay occasionally too, and dont want to be mean. ive replied saying i want a refund including original postage.

is it the norm to just get the item price back or not? its only 8 quid, if she refuses to give me original postage back should i open a snad dispute or just leave it?

thanks in advance x
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  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    don't meant to sound rude, but can't you just sew another button on it (or a move a button up/down etc)?

    I know it's not answering your question, but maybe it's better than losing on on money?

    The seller doesn't have to refund all costs, just a good seller would :)
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  • its ok, its not rude, i cant sew lol otherwise i would! i mean i wouldnt have even bid on it at all if it mentioned buttons missing and that. It just ive been caught out a few times before with ppl sending absolute rubbish to me in the most and ive just left it.

    yes useless i know. ill probably leave this one too. i dont like upsetting ppl either. i would refund all postage if it was me. but i know not all ppl are daft like me lol
  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    its ok, its not rude, i cant sew lol otherwise i would! i mean i wouldnt have even bid on it at all if it mentioned buttons missing and that. It just ive been caught out a few times before with ppl sending absolute rubbish to me in the most and ive just left it.

    yes useless i know. ill probably leave this one too. i dont like upsetting ppl either. i would refund all postage if it was me. but i know not all ppl are daft like me lol

    You're not daft cos I'd refund too! :D
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  • ANGSTDATA
    ANGSTDATA Posts: 411 Forumite
    i would allways refund in full ,postage included - what i ussually do is relist it stating that a button is missing and if/ when someone buys it ,get the first buyer to send it to the second buyer - refunding 2 lots of postage o the first buyer
  • Hintza
    Hintza Posts: 19,420 Forumite
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    A button? I'm a bloke and I could sew a button on. Let's have a reality check here!!
  • RFW
    RFW Posts: 10,371 Forumite
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    This is the best thread on here:rotfl:
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  • pdel61
    pdel61 Posts: 986 Forumite
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    Surely you have a friend or relation who can put a button on for you, how old's your daughter she might be able to do it for you:D
  • Tony69
    Tony69 Posts: 422 Forumite
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    can't sew won't sew
    never chew the umbilical cord!!
  • lol, thanks all, but i why should i sew a button on something that was described as perfect condition. I can do everything else, like have a full time job, look after my two children including my disabled son and husband. I have no time to sit back and sew a buttons on things ive just bought. So thanks for the reality check Hintza.

    My MIL can sew but if i went to her she would probably take me shopping to get my daughter new clothes.

    The point is, i bought something which is not as described, ive actually already decided to not bother doing anything about it.

    note to self: GET REAL
  • Hintza
    Hintza Posts: 19,420 Forumite
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    Haven't noticed it so much these days but I remember when I was young that loose thread on your new shirt that you pulled and the button fell off...used to be a nightmare. :rotfl:
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