Leaving a job off my CV

Hi all

I have another thread here explaining I have an investigatory meeting which I know will lead to a disciplinary and has a very good chance of my dismissal. (I did something foolish)

With what's happening with Covid19 and have a gross misconduct on my file, I would find it virtually impossible to get any job.

So my questions is, I'm 34 and been with my most recent employer 2 and a half years. If I do get dismissed for GM am I best just leaving it off my CV and explain away the time as working towards my degree (as the company was paying for it and I would only be 1 year away) and helping to care of my father, he has extreme health issues and has had for a number of years with my mum caring and working. And say I dropped out of university to care for my dad but now I'm looking for work.

If I don't do something I have virtually no chance of employment in the current climate and I don't know what I'd do with myself.

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  • BrassicWoman
    BrassicWoman Posts: 3,217 Forumite
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    don't get ahead of yourself. one crisis at a time.
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  • TELLIT01
    TELLIT01 Posts: 17,728 Forumite
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    You need to have a very good memory to get away with a long string of lies such as you are proposing.  You might get away with a short gap with a phoney story to cover it, but a 2 1/2 year gap is more likely to get you 'sifted out' from the application pile.
  • TELLIT01 said:
    You need to have a very good memory to get away with a long string of lies such as you are proposing.  You might get away with a short gap with a phoney story to cover it, but a 2 1/2 year gap is more likely to get you 'sifted out' from the application pile.
    Yeah I guess you are right, and with my anxious nature I would always be thinking if the next meeting was to say "hey we found out your were dismissed for gross misconduct"
  • sharpe106
    sharpe106 Posts: 3,558 Forumite
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    You would be worrying all the time what if they found out, especially if it is similar sort of job, your new manager might know somebody from your old company. 
  • Grumpy_chap
    Grumpy_chap Posts: 17,678 Forumite
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    Hey, Adam, from your other thread, sounds like you can keep the job on the CV, nothing to worry about :)
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