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New ebayers - bloody annoying!

Somehow a ebayer with 0 feedback managed to bid on my item, dispite me putting "no bidders from peope with less than 5 feedback", so I thought i'd give it a chance. She emailed me last night wanting to send a postal order, whereas I stated on my auction paypal only (I had a fake postal order in the past and a abusieve ebayer over it). I emailled her stating I accepted paypal only due to fraud in the past, and so i've just had this email back :

Q: well,thats up to you i am a genuine ebayer looking for a bargain...do you still want to sell me the wii skin? thank you

I can't get to a post office until next weekend now anyway, just posted all the other things that finished and were paid for by ebay. Shall I just say yes to the postal order? Or stick to my guns? I always prefer paypal really as I save money through it :/ Are there a lot of fake postal orders about or are they harder to forge?
~*Cerenia*~

2017 Goals
Wedding Saving Pot - £1300/£2500

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  • I've never had a fake postal order, so I'm guessing they are probably quite rare. I prefer paypal too, but on the bright side, when you get a postal order, you don't have to pay paypal fees, so I say you should just agree, and if it's fake, you don't have to send your item out... but I'm sure they are genuine anyway. It's pretty much up to you! :o
    I :heart::coffee:
  • hils
    hils Posts: 73 Forumite
    I have never received a fake postal order

    Its your choice but newbies have to start somewhere....

    Personally I would accept postal order...

    Hils
  • 080766
    080766 Posts: 84 Forumite
    10 Posts
    I would accept it too. You could bring the item on that day so you can send it after you cashing it unless she crossing it.
  • custardy
    custardy Posts: 38,365 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    yeah i always insisited on uncrossed postal orders nad just used them to pay for postage when i did the PO run.
    that way if it was fake you could find out before sending.
    however its up to you as to whether you can be bothered or just insist on paypal. they chose ot bid so balls in your court
  • Cerenia
    Cerenia Posts: 1,857 Forumite
    Yeah, I said she could do postal order - but I won't be able to post it until next weekend , just edgy about it all after the fake and the abuse I got from the buyer because I wouldn't send until I got the actual payment. Was mainly wondering if it happened a lot. Little annoyed the buyer didn't ask before buying though, just assumed.
    ~*Cerenia*~

    2017 Goals
    Wedding Saving Pot - £1300/£2500

  • Cerenia
    Cerenia Posts: 1,857 Forumite
    Oh christ, got the postal order today, and its a crossed one? So apparently I have to pay it into my bank account, and she's adamant that its uncrossed, and thinks i'm trying to scam her by not sending out the goods. Looks like i'm getting my first neg >.> I'm refusing to send it until the cash is either in my bank account, or in my hand, converted from a PO.
    ~*Cerenia*~

    2017 Goals
    Wedding Saving Pot - £1300/£2500

  • jarrod1
    jarrod1 Posts: 534 Forumite
    500 Posts
    she mustnt know that you can get the wii skins for free, silly bint
  • Cerenia
    Cerenia Posts: 1,857 Forumite
    Some you can get free, some you can't, promo ones you can't.

    I'm still confused as to how it bypassed the rule I clicked stating ebayers with 5 feedback or more o.O
    ~*Cerenia*~

    2017 Goals
    Wedding Saving Pot - £1300/£2500

  • shelly
    shelly Posts: 6,394 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    jarrod1 wrote: »
    she mustnt know that you can get the wii skins for free, silly bint


    Do you mean for the console or the Wiimotes? I know about the remote ones but would love a free console skin :D
    :heart2: Love isn't finding someone you can live with. It's finding someone you can't live without :heart2:
  • Cerenia
    Cerenia Posts: 1,857 Forumite
    shelly wrote: »
    Do you mean for the console or the Wiimotes? I know about the remote ones but would love a free console skin :D


    Thw console skins - if you can get pally with the nintendo guys you can get them free :) And our current rep loves me :)
    ~*Cerenia*~

    2017 Goals
    Wedding Saving Pot - £1300/£2500

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