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Struggling & Dont know where to turn

Hey People

I am in debt and dont know what i can do to help myself I have water mobile phone & bank debt all in the region of £500 i know this is not a huge about but its worrying me to the point that its affecting my mood and already bad depression a few months ago i posted on here about my bank debt and i had some lovely people talk and try to help me. but I have burried my head in the sand and hoped that it would all go away but it hasn't its just got worse like these things do. I took the first step in helping myself i went to a cab local office and spoke to a debt adviser who gave me a money advice trust booklet and told me fill in a budget sheet and go from there and send it to my creditors. I work part time and dont get alot of money after paying my rent council tax and other bills But i just want these debts to go away so i can rebuild my not so great credit file (if i can rebuild it :/ ) any advice anyone has would be greatly appreciated. I am getting alot of letters from a Dca called intercred who are on behalf of affinity water who i am in debt with needless to say its causing me alot of stress and worrie sorry for my long post thank you

Comments

  • Have you followed the advice you were given at CAB? The debts won't just go away I am afraid. Take a look at the National Debtline website to see what your options are - but the first step in all cases is to complete a budget sheet so that you can see what you have left after you have paid for your basic living costs.
  • Hello When the going gets tough

    Yes i am in the middle of working out my budget i shall have a look at the website you have advised thank you for your reply :)

    Cameron
  • jodles16
    jodles16 Posts: 1,477 Forumite
    Car Insurance Carver!
    edited 18 August 2014 at 7:39PM
    Working out a budget is the first steps after sharing on here! You will find loads of great challenges to do with making and saving money on here as well. A lot of folks complete a SOA and share to that others can advise, and also heres the link to Martin's great thread and then a link to the main website advice!
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/107280

    Good luck!

    Jodles :j
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  • GunWharf
    GunWharf Posts: 308 Forumite
    100 Posts Uniform Washer
    Well done on posting, that is the first hurdle.
    Plenty of support on here, I did not know where to turn at first. Many helpful people on here and that is what makes a huge difference. Look at my Signature, I was in a right Mare!

    If you ever get down, look at the size of other peoples debts, can be a great motivator. If they can do it- so can you!

    Good luck
    (Debt Jan 2014 LBM £34,000) Current 2016 "Problems" as follows:

    C Cards 1,2,3,4 WAS £18,333 NOW£0 :j...Overdraft WAS £2700 NOW£0 :j
    Secured Loan
    WAS £4113 NOW£0:j.......Loan WAS £8864 NOW £6,000

    DEBT TODAY = £6,000
    (£28,000 PAID OFF SO FAR!)
  • Seriously...the minute you take the first proactive step towards clearing these balances you will feel a million times better!

    The CAB will help plus, please don't underestimate the support of this forum...when you're feeling low...pop in and have a chat. You will find soon enough that you will be helping others who are experiencing a situation that you have handled!

    Good Luck!
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