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benefits and dfw

Hi

Is it ok to be on here as a dfw when most of my income is benefit based? I am disabled and my partner ia my carer. I work self employed but dont have a great deal coming in atm.

Is this ok?
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  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,570 Forumite
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    Why shouldn't it be? If you have debts and want help to clear them and support while you do, welcome aboard!
  • rjh090384
    rjh090384 Posts: 2,224 Forumite
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    I just didnt want to be thought of as a sponger :( will do my soa tonight x
    love you lots like jelly tots :o
  • giblet1979
    giblet1979 Posts: 864 Forumite
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    I'm only relatively new, but in my opinion and from experience so far on here, everyone is made welcome, and people have a variety of different backgrounds, situations and life experiences. We all have the same goal, to be free of debt, and can learn so much from each other, and offer support and kindness when needed.

    Welcome, and good luck with your debt free journey :)

    Gib x
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  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,570 Forumite
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    rjh090384 wrote: »
    Is it ok to be on here as a dfw when most of my income is benefit based? I am disabled and my partner ia my carer. I work self employed but dont have a great deal coming in atm.

    Is this ok?
    rjh090384 wrote: »
    I just didnt want to be thought of as a sponger :(

    None of us who have disabilities and health problems have chosen to be like we are. We are lucky to live in a society that does support those in need.

    We're in a completely different situation to fit and healthy people who chose to manipulate the benefit system to avoid working.
  • rjh090384
    rjh090384 Posts: 2,224 Forumite
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    Thanks for your kind words. I will sort my soa tonight and get some help. :) xx
    love you lots like jelly tots :o
  • Upsidedown_Bear
    Upsidedown_Bear Posts: 18,264 Forumite
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    Hello and welcome to DFW board :wave:

    Look forward to your SOA :)
  • fatbelly
    fatbelly Posts: 21,978 Forumite
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    rjh090384 wrote: »
    I just didnt want to be thought of as a sponger :( will do my soa tonight x

    You're getting us confused with the Daily Mail.

    We're just interested in getting you debt free. And that involves maximising your income and claiming what you are entitled to.
  • National_Debtline
    National_Debtline Posts: 7,998 Organisation Representative
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    Hello there,

    A large percentage of callers to our charity are from folks that are in receipt of state benefits for one reason or another. As the others have mentioned, all we're keen on is helping you find the most effective way to become debt-free. Do get your SOA posted up as I've already got a couple of ideas in my mind which could be useful for you.

    Very best wishes,

    David @natdebtline
    We work as money advisers for National Debtline and have specific permission from MSE to post to try to help those in debt. Read more information on National Debtline in MSE's Debt Problems: What to do and where to get help guide. If you find you're struggling with debt and need further help try our online advice tool My Money Steps
  • jaxsmar
    jaxsmar Posts: 511 Forumite
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    Hi.

    I personally love the No Spend Challenge and the extra payment a week challenge. Everybody has been lovely and encourage each other. I am on working tax credits only and I've had a few sarky comments about people on benefits!
    Penny wise pound foolish. 366 days 1p challenge 2020/21/22/23 completed.
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  • rjh090384
    rjh090384 Posts: 2,224 Forumite
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    I am a bit under weather tonight so no soa. I did peek at challenges board earlier though and have decided every Monday to round down accounts to nice round numbers and overpay something. Did that today 27.81 off cc xx
    love you lots like jelly tots :o
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