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Buyers - do you prefer sellers to be home or out for viewings?

We have our first viewer tomorrow. Fingers crossed but as a buyer do you prefer to have the seller there to ask any questions to or prefer them to be out so you can have a proper look around.

I was planning to make myself scarce as that is what I would prefer but wondered what others thought.
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  • jbainbridge
    jbainbridge Posts: 2,036 Forumite
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    Give them a quick show round and finish upstairs ... then suggest they look round by themselves and come to you if they have any questions.

    Sadly you'll find that most of them aren't in a position to make an offer and some are 'just getting their house on the market' ... it's very frustrating.

    Good luck!
  • I'd prefer the seller to be out for a first viewing because with the seller present I'd feel a bit under scrutiny and like I couldn't say what I thought in case it either offended them or gave away that I liked the place too much (and weakened my negotiating position). I think the seller's presence makes me feel a bit tense and I think if I'm feeling tense I'm less likely to like the house.
    Common sense?...There's nothing common about sense!
  • Jaybo10
    Jaybo10 Posts: 101 Forumite
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    edited 14 August 2013 at 9:07PM
    The best viewing I went to was where the agent was there with the seller. We were left to go around the house on our own but then the seller and agent were available to answer any questions.

    I found I got a lot more information about the fabric of the house and the local area (what work they had done, some of the issues they had and how they overcame them/ average bills/ neighbours/ schools) from the seller.

    Though in this instance it was an open house and he had a little crowd around him!

    I never trust any information the agent provides when they are alone, often the have no clue what they are talking about and are quite clearly making it up..
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  • Old_Git
    Old_Git Posts: 4,751 Forumite
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    if the agent is doing the viewing keep out off the way .
    "Do not regret growing older, it's a privilege denied to many"
  • botchjob
    botchjob Posts: 269 Forumite
    Out for the first, home for the second.
  • witchy1066
    witchy1066 Posts: 640 Forumite
    I prefer to seller to be out for the first viewing , to be honest I prefer the vender to be out for all viewings ,

    we wanted to take our son to view the house we are hoping to buy , while he was here on holiday (he lives 220 miles away)

    I rang the EA , made an appointment to view , it was the vender let us in, he then went and sat in front of the TV and left us to it , I felt really uncomfortable, after all its still someone's home
  • Mobeer
    Mobeer Posts: 1,853 Forumite
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    I don't mind, but if you are in, please concentrate on the assisting the viewing, and be ready to answer questions. The worst scenario is for the vendor to be in but sitting down to dinner, playing with children, doing laundry or otherwise engaged such that I (the viewer) feel like an intruder.
  • Grimbal
    Grimbal Posts: 2,334 Forumite
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    Most definitely out for the first viewing. The worst experience we had was where the EA was (supposedly) leading the viewing, only to be followed around by the over eager vendor, desperate to point out things to us.
    "Science is a wonderful thing if one does not have to earn one's living at it" Einstein 1951
  • princeofpounds
    princeofpounds Posts: 10,396 Forumite
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    Out for the first, home for the second.

    Agree. At least the option of having them around anyway.
  • I can tolerate 1 person during the viewing especially as most vendors make themselves busy during the viewing.
    The worst viewing for me was when the whole family of 5 was present. The vendors husband didn't know whether to be friendly or just sit in the study in front of the PC, the kids were either in the lounge in front of the telly or in their bedrooms & I almost felt guilty entering their bedrooms as they were in there.
    Also if you conduct the viewing, don't appear too desperate to clinch the deal. It's really off putting.
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