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In 2009 my father helped his brother by putting up £180k towards recovering one of his repossessed houses (stupid mistake). My father has only received half that back and after so many requests of the remaining money they have yet to pay my father back fully - they can easily sell one of their properties to pay us back, and stop living a luxury lifestyle.

If worst comes to worst and they don't re-pay the money or if god forbid my father passes away, could I take them to court (via money claim online) and try to recover the money or take their assets away or make them bankrupt?

It's rather a sensitive topic as family is involved and my father has probably resigned to losing all that money.

Thanks for your advice in advance.
Credit Card Debts: £11,605.95/£16,240.53 - 71% paid off.

£4,634.61 credit card debt remaining. Aim for credit card debt free before
[STRIKE]October 2011[/STRIKE] December 2012. In debt since 2004.

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  • TonyMMM
    TonyMMM Posts: 3,439 Forumite
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    Is there anything in writing to record that the loan was made, or the debt acknowledged - and on what terms.

    The debt could form part of your father's estate if not paid before he dies, but enforcing it may be a problem (e.g. your brother could claim it was a gift)
  • zppp
    zppp Posts: 2,476 Forumite
    Was there any form of wirtten agreement for the loan between them?
    Best Regards

    zppp :)

  • There never was a written agreement, only a record on the bank statement. There were no terms, just the verbal remortgage the property and get the money back, but after paying all the costs and other people there was nothing left.
    Credit Card Debts: £11,605.95/£16,240.53 - 71% paid off.

    £4,634.61 credit card debt remaining. Aim for credit card debt free before
    [STRIKE]October 2011[/STRIKE] December 2012. In debt since 2004.
  • Clive_Woody
    Clive_Woody Posts: 5,959 Forumite
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    In 2009 my father helped his brother by putting up £180k towards recovering one of his repossessed houses (stupid mistake). My father has only received half that back and after so many requests of the remaining money they have yet to pay my father back fully - they can easily sell one of their properties to pay us back, and stop living a luxury lifestyle.

    If worst comes to worst and they don't re-pay the money or if god forbid my father passes away, could I take them to court (via money claim online) and try to recover the money or take their assets away or make them bankrupt?

    It's rather a sensitive topic as family is involved and my father has probably resigned to losing all that money.

    Thanks for your advice in advance.

    You would need to prove the debt existed firstly. Moneyclaim online has an upper limit of around £3k I think.

    :D
    "We act as though comfort and luxury are the chief requirements of life, when all that we need to make us happy is something to be enthusiastic about” – Albert Einstein
  • There never was a written agreement, only a record on the bank statement. There were no terms, just the verbal remortgage the property and get the money back, but after paying all the costs and other people there was nothing left.

    Then no, there is nothing you can do to enforce this.

    The default position without evidence to the contrary (a written contract etc) is that this was a casual arrangement (a gift) and not a contractual based one.

    Sorry that is not the news that you want to hear.
    Thinking critically since 1996....
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