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can i send a sick child a brand new toy?

hello

i have a brand new toy that i would rather go to a child who is ill rather than a charity shop (just my view i love charity shops buts this toy cost me 20 pounds and i would rather some one play with it them it be priced down in a charity shop )

can anybody suggest anywhere its a dora the explorer toy.

thanks

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  • carbbit
    carbbit Posts: 107 Forumite
    How about donating it the children's ward at your local hospital?
  • Krystaltips
    Krystaltips Posts: 9,220 Forumite
    Either that or contact your local hospice and see if they can suggest anyone..
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  • i thought about that but i emailed a friend who has been suffering with the big c for the majority of her life (since she was about 9 , she is now 20) and she said that children wards aren't always that good for kind donations as a lot of items get stolen and the same for our local hospice which i struggle to believe people could be so heartless?
  • zzzLazyDaisy
    zzzLazyDaisy Posts: 12,497 Forumite
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    can you wait until you read something about a child in your local paper who you think might appreciate the gift?
    I'm a retired employment solicitor. Hopefully some of my comments might be useful, but they are only my opinion and not intended as legal advice.
  • again i just think once its been in the paper they will get loads of items (just speaking from experience with a few friends) and it will be just another present.
  • penguin83
    penguin83 Posts: 4,817 Forumite
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    How about sending it to a post pals child. Each childs page has their story and their favourite characters/toys x x
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  • what a lovely idea - how about contacting your local women's refuge and asking if they would like it? They often move with just a small bag and can't take many toys with them
  • hey i just phoned the womens refuge and they would put it in a nursery i would rather it just go to one person
  • peachyprice
    peachyprice Posts: 22,346 Forumite
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    Sorry, I don't understand your rationale.
    You feel the need to do a good deed by dontaing this toy, but not to somewhere where many needy children will get the use of it. :confused:

    If you're that particular about one child having the use of it save it for a birthday present, then you'll be 100% sure that it will only be played with by that one child.
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  • one child is more likely to look after it properly than it get ruined by 10 children, i would like it to be a toy that the child thinks wow somebody is thinking of me rather than it go to a nursery were its just going to be another toy.


    and i dont feel the need to do a good deed i'd just rather it go to a good home and not ruined by a nursery all the nurseries i've been to the kids don't care about.

    i gave all the little girls i know one at christmas hense why i have this one left over as i bought one to many.
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