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at 10.58 i was declared BR

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  • peachyprice
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    Lisa, don't worry about what the judge said, if you don't have the money it may as well be £7 million you owe, if the numbers don't add up, they don't add up.

    Good luck tomorrow with Lillies legs.
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  • fiveyearplan
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    I'm glad you got through it Lisa. Good luck with the hospital appointment today. Lillie already got her first tooth - that seems a bit early - it reminds me of that song, "All I want for Christmas is my 2 front teeth"!

    :j :j


  • I'm glad you got through it Lisa. Good luck with the hospital appointment today. Lillie already got her first tooth - that seems a bit early - it reminds me of that song, "All I want for Christmas is my 2 front teeth"!


    i know shes only 15wks old maybe another one will pop through before xmas then i can sing it to her.
    thanks FYP

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  • fiveyearplan
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    How was the appointment?

    :j :j


  • thanks FYP shes fine the ultrasound didnt show anything wrong so its obviously rectified itself now i was so worried incase she had to wear a brace that separates her legs for ages.

    but had some bad news my mum had her appointment today as shes got lung cancer so went through 6 months of chemo, she finished it last month, this was a check up to see how well it worked before she has radiopherapy after xmas but they said its grown alot again so will have to go through chemo again. its small cell lung cancer which is fast growing so each time she had chemo it shrunk it abit but by the time she had the next lot (which is 3 wks apart)it was nearly back to the same size. she got so ill last time and this new chemo is different drugs which the side affects are alot worse so she will be really ill after. they did say at the begining they will never be able to get rid of it completely but they can control it.

    as its on the top of the lung that joins to the other one so cant be cut out or it will damage both lungs. we was just hoping there would be at least a few years before she had to do it again.
    If you want to see the rainbow ,you gotta put up with some rain
  • DON79
    DON79 Posts: 3,842 Forumite
    Hi Lisa, am so glad little lillie is ok. she will be running around before you know it!

    I am so sorry though to hear how your mum is ill. what a blow for her and the family. the treatment can be so hard, sorry to hear about it.
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  • Hi Lisa,Just been reading thru all your threads as Im considering declaring myself BR too, even tho im working full time, after ive been slapped with bank charges each month,there isnt much to pay back to any of the creditors. Will be doing much thinking and figure work over christmas.
    :beer:
  • fiveyearplan
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    I'm so sorry to hear about your mother's illness. That really puts things into perspective and just makes you realise how unimportant debt is!

    :j :j


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