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at 10.58 i was declared BR

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firstly a big extreamly massive thanks to everyone for your support advice and patients in my constint questions
i arrived at court at 9am there was 3 people in front of me. i got talking to a man in there so that eased the waiting about abit. i got called into the office we went through my forms making sure i had done them properly. then back to the waiting room. i got called to go downstairs to another waiting room, and got called before the judge :eek: who asked as my debts was only 7k that i was sure that i wanted to go through with br then he declared me at 10.58 and i went outside for about 10mins till they brought out my paper work.
but yes you lot were all right it aint as scary as you think it will be.
i feel abit numb at the moment and dishonest really about not repaying my debts. but i suppose give it a few more days to sink in ill be fine, but i just feel like ive done something seriously wrong and im waiting for the police to come get me if you understand.
but i suppose when i have the OR interview which they said will either be today /tomorrow or before xmas
ill relax abit
ive got lillies hospital appointment tomorrow so i bet it will be then
again a big thanks to everyone i couldnt have got through it with out you lot xxxx
i arrived at court at 9am there was 3 people in front of me. i got talking to a man in there so that eased the waiting about abit. i got called into the office we went through my forms making sure i had done them properly. then back to the waiting room. i got called to go downstairs to another waiting room, and got called before the judge :eek: who asked as my debts was only 7k that i was sure that i wanted to go through with br then he declared me at 10.58 and i went outside for about 10mins till they brought out my paper work.
but yes you lot were all right it aint as scary as you think it will be.
i feel abit numb at the moment and dishonest really about not repaying my debts. but i suppose give it a few more days to sink in ill be fine, but i just feel like ive done something seriously wrong and im waiting for the police to come get me if you understand.
but i suppose when i have the OR interview which they said will either be today /tomorrow or before xmas

ive got lillies hospital appointment tomorrow so i bet it will be then
again a big thanks to everyone i couldnt have got through it with out you lot xxxx
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Can i say Well done :T:T:T:T.
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Good girl, you got through it! The numbness is perfectly normal. You'll find your emotions about the whole thing will keep shifting and sifting for a good few weeks yet. Did you have a preliminary chat with the OR? If not, give them a quick call this afternoon and say hello and explain why you can't talk to them tomorrow. They will understand.
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Well done:T . I thinks its the sterness of the courts that scares most of us here.All those wigs,cloaks and people in high places:eek: ,but as long as you are not wearing silver bangles;)when you go in, you tend to come back out fairly unscathed. I really hope you get your interview before xmas, so you can relax and enjoy what is after all, supposed to be a fun time.DxFree impartial debt advice available from: National Debtline - Tel: 0808 808 4000 | The Consumer Credit Counselling Service (CCCS) - Tel: 0800 138 1111 | Find your local Citizens Advice Bureau
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Well done. Glad it was a smooth process for you.
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Yay, glad it went well for you.:j :beer: :j
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Well done. It's all uphill from now on.
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