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    • Tropically
    • By Tropically 12th Sep 16, 9:56 PM
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    Getting rid of a London-sized Mortgage
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    • 12th Sep 16, 9:56 PM
    Getting rid of a London-sized Mortgage 12th Sep 16 at 9:56 PM
    Hello,

    I tried to look for other situations which were like mine but you all seem to have everything so under control. You are all very inspiring so I thought I would put up my story too.

    I bought a house in June with my partner for £425,000 (London) and our mortgage is £318,000. Our mortgage payments are about the same as we were paying in rent but we have over 3 times the space now. Yes this a huge mortgage, no, we don't make a lot but the time came for us to buy instead of rent.

    Plan:
    1. Call bank tomorrow and see if I can 'round up' our mortgage which will cut off 2 years from the term.
    2. Get £10,000 in savings again as an emergency fund before over paying mortgage - I don't have any money at all any more.
    3. Get in a tenant from November 1st and rent the second bedroom for hopefully £700/month and apply that as over payments.

    It would be amazing if we could pay off the mortgage 10 years early. I would be just over 40. I have a lovely spreadsheet which calculates all of this for me. If we were to only apply the extra rental money to the mortgage, we would be able to pay off 10 years early.
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    • Tropically
    • By Tropically 30th Mar 17, 1:52 PM
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    I knew you were going to say Cayman! Having lived there myself and then also had family there, I understand the lure of the cheap holiday. Sadly our free board and lodgings are no more
    Originally posted by mfmaybe
    It's such a gorgeous place and the lifestyle is so good! The free board is key to having a cheap holiday there!! My sister is a fancy-pants corporate lawyer so I don't mind eating her food and driving her car, given that she wouldn't move back here as the salaries are "too low."

    On the mortgage overpayment vs term, I had a similar issue. We have been overpaying by about £300/month for a few years. When I was remortgaging this time, I noticed my term hadn't gone down which confused me immensely. Essentially though, it's due to a mix of customer fairness and risk in lending. On the fairness point, basically any mortgage application assumes you will keep the mortgage for the whole life of the balance (even though in reality most people take out a new product after the cheap rate ends). So, you agree with your bank to have say 25 years to pay it off. You overpay for a few years and they reduce your term by (for example) 5 years as a result. Then you have children. Your income goes down and you have childcare costs. Suddenly meeting even the minimum payment is tough; and that's higher than it might have been because you now have 5 years less to get the balance paid off. In those circumstances a customer might say "well that's not fair, we had a contract for a 25 year repayment term, why do I suddenly have to pay it off 5 years early"? On the risk part, it's the flip side of the same coin. The bank has decided you can afford the repayment at the current rate. They haven't scored you on whether you could afford more each month, so their risk would be greater - in other words more people will default with a higher payment. So - overall, that's why reducing the term has to be a new application. Even though I can overpay as much as I want, when I want (currently on SVR), it still doesn't change the term. So that means at the end of a fixed interest period, when the new payment is produced,it would be lower than if you had never overpaid. It does of course reduce the interest you pay and still has the same benefit; but you do need to keep an eye on the level of overpayment.

    That said, it doesn't explain why your bank make it so complicated regarding overpayments. Do they calculate daily interest? That's pretty important; if not then you must find out when they calculate interest and time your payments to be just before that point.

    Will follow with interest, am hoping to start a MFW diary of my own soon as plans are afoot!
    Originally posted by mfmaybe
    That's a really really good way of looking at it. And it does make sense - I agreed one thing with them and the right away want to change the terms of our agreement. In my head, we only have a two year agreement until the fixed term runs out, but in reality both of us (the bank and me) need to treat it like the 25 year partnership that it could be! I really must look into when they charge interest.

    I look forward to reading your diary!

    My boyfriend started his new job, which has caused some cash flow issues because they got the sort code wrong on his pay! It will be sorted in a few days, but because of that plus his celebrating his new job (a bit too much), we're a bit disjointed. I'm not sure when we can get the monthly overpayment in but it won't be until we've got his salary in the bank.

    I have been selling some bits and bobs on ebay. I have net £56.33 and put that into the overpayment account, to build up to £500. I also completed some "retail intelligence" price checks, which has net me £15.55. Plus I have also been selling used makeup (go figure) and when people pay up, it should be £50 or so. I have a lot of branded makeup - urban decay pallets etc. and apparently some people don't mind if it's gently used.

    We have the 'budgeted' £500 OP sitting in the joint account to be applied when my boyfriend's cash flow issues are resolved. The skimmed mortgage overpayment is sitting at £268. I hope we can apply it soon. After that, I might change our joint account to someone else. We only got £0.02 interest last month on a balance of £3,000 after you take the £5 Santander fee into account.

    I am still being very well behaved on the entertainment front, using cash! If I get a chance, I'll post much budget vs actuals when I calculate it.
    • mfmaybe
    • By mfmaybe 30th Mar 17, 7:43 PM
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    Haha yes Cayman salaries are something else. That said, living expenses are through the roof, my sister spent £1k/month on electricity alone and their food bill was eye watering! But their disposable income was really quite impressive. The no tax helps

    I'm glad the mortgage overpayment blurb helped as it was quite long, sorry about that

    That's annoying about the cashflow, hope it gets sorted soon. And wowee to people buying used make up. I have to say it's not something I would consider, but there you go. I once stumbled upon a market on fleabay for used tights. At an insane price, so let's just say I don't think it was for professional women looking for a bargain on their Wolfords Bleurghhhh...
    Create credit card buffer fund £12.93/£1000 1.4%paid. Pay by Christmas 17

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    • Runders
    • By Runders 1st Apr 17, 8:24 PM
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    Hey Tropically,

    I've just caught up on your diary after I've been AWOL for a bit. It seems like you are doing really well on the over payment front!

    Thank for the comment you made about the Fourex machines. I was in London a few weeks ago and I got over £40 for all my random foreign coins.

    I've been awful on my entertainment budget recently, I have bought a few theatre tickets for this month, all are in London so I will need train fairs too. I will endeavour to not eat out to make up for this.....I may be kidding myself!
    MFW: Start: September 2014 - £110844
    Target: £95K Sep17
    Sep15: £105329.87 Sep16: £99192.71 Nov16: £100701.39
    Offset Target: £15K Sep17
    Offset £9126.70 £10332.17
    • Tropically
    • By Tropically 7th Apr 17, 12:46 PM
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    Hello again, mid-month update.

    My boyfriend has finally been paid! He had to take money out of the joint account for the cash flow. It has hopefully shown him the value of having an emergency fund. I hope that it results in lasting change. I know that partner support is a running theme in many people's diaries. I have one who wants to save money, but can't seem to. It realllllly makes sense for people in debt to have an emergency fund. I have one, but it's not that big. We will have to do some analysis later. We've been overpaying all of the extras in our savings account, but maybe we need to re-examine our approach.

    I've been selling quite a bit on ebay. It is so hard to get the postage thing right! I have put almost everything at 'Buy It Now' as it will mean less stress for me, and I'm more likely to get the price I want. If after 30 days of Buy It Now, it doesn't sell then I will donate it. I'm curious to

    I've been diligently recording my garden harvest. I have saved £4.50 so far this year... Really not a lot but it's only April. I'm have measured and then compared to the cheapest organic price to get my values. Most of it has come from purple sprouting broccoli and mitsuna.

    I shall return with graphs on Sunday perhaps, when I get a moment to relax.
    Mortgage started at £318,000 in June 2016. Original MF - 2041
    2017 OPs: £7000/£7000
    Mortgage in Nov 2017 - £297,808
    • FacelessNumber
    • By FacelessNumber 7th Apr 17, 3:44 PM
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    Hi!


    I've had a read through your diary today, definitely sounds like you've got the right attitude! I'm going to subscribe to see how you get on!


    Well done to your OH for the payrise, I guess the trick is to save the difference and spend the same as before?

    • CouponClipper
    • By CouponClipper 10th Apr 17, 3:51 PM
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    Read your thread over the weekend Tropically. I also have a London sized mortgage of just over £211,000 - so smaller than yours at the moment.

    Currently not overpaying as me and my partner are trying to save £10,000 each first but hopefully next year with a payrise and some emergency funds we'll be able to start chipping away at it like you are.

    Good luck - I am subscribed on your journey!

    CC
    • Tropically
    • By Tropically 13th Apr 17, 12:22 PM
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    So, I thought I would try to get a part time job. I do various gig things like mystery dining, surveys, market research, and random-tasks, ebay etc. I thought that Deliver-eee would be a good place to sign up. I like cycling and there aren't that many delivery people around here (as I have noticed from when I try to order).

    So, I signed up. Then I received so. many. calls. I received one or two calls everyday plus follow-up emails. The emails would say, "book an appointment for training online." I thought that was great and was going to sign up online as soon as it was a little lighter in the evenings because I don't really like cycling at night. I wanted to test drive my bike around as well as I hadn't had it out over winter. Eventually I booked online and the calls stopped.

    For some reason, they texted me and said that my appointment was cancelled and I needed to reschedule. The calling every day started again. They called at least twice every day until I finally told them I was not interested. If they are so desperate for drivers, they should pay more than a pittance. But if they were going to harass me all the time to sign up, what would they be like to work with? So that isn't going to happen. I wonder if uber eats is so annoying.

    On the road this week I saw a Just Eat robot self-driving to deliver takeaway! I thought someone was playing a trick on me when I saw this robot cruising down the payment. It didn't look like anyone was driving it. I looked it up later and it was a genuine robot. So these delivery jobs might not last that long before robots take over!

    I made those graphs that I mentioned before and it is pretty sad. In the epitome of 'first world problems' we are still spending too much on entertainment. My boyfriend isn't too worried. We spent £776.72 on entertainment in January, £652.96 on entertainment in February, £574.29 on entertainment in March. That is just insaneeeeeeee. I don't feel like we are out too much. I spent £672 of that, and he spent £1,333 of that. So we're not uneven - we are both guilty.

    So let's see. What was sooo good that it was worth £2k??

    Cash - £32.50
    Cash - £50
    Cash - £30
    Pub - £12.60
    Cash - £30
    Nandos - £29.9 (and I don't even like Nandos, we were just too lazy to cook at home on a Saturday afternoon...)
    Cinema - £13.65
    Restaurant soft launch so 50% off food - £63.19
    Pub - £17.68
    Same pub - £4.99
    Same pub - £14.67
    Same pub - £9.67
    different pub - £9.60
    Cash - £30
    Pub - £11.20
    Same pub - £19.80
    Cash - £20
    Work team night out - £30.75
    Tickets to Hamilton bought on the day they were released on presale - £199.10
    Lottery - £10 (why???)
    Mystery package game - £100
    Pub - £15.10
    Meeting old friends for din - £16
    Pub - £7.50
    Fancy meal out - £64.60
    Pub - £20
    Pub - £9.3
    Cash - £30
    Pub - £7
    Meal out for lads night - £36.02
    Cash - £30
    Pub - £7.85
    Pre-play drinks - £8.60
    Pub - £8.40
    Pub - £12.40
    Cash - £20
    British Museum Exhibit - £26
    Meal out with friends - £50
    Chocolate pre-cinema - £3.85
    Pub - £9.3
    Cash - £30
    Drinks - £11.49
    Cash - £30
    Pub - £12.15
    Cash - £30
    Work drinks - £5
    Cash for the month of March to cover all entertainment (supposedly) - £100
    Meal out because of laziness - £36.50
    Learning to climb - £20
    Going climbing - £13
    Leaving drinks for boyf - £23
    Not really sure... - £200
    Cash - £30
    Cash - £30
    Pub - £14.40
    Cash - £30
    Meal out - £54
    Drinks - £10
    Cash - £30
    Meal out - £4
    Not even sure... £56.33
    Meal out - £9.56


    Cash... Cash... Pub... Pub... Cash... Cash...

    What do other people do for fun that doesn't cost so much?? I would love some ideas. There are so many fun things to do in London for free but then we tend to go to the pub or buy food out once we are out.

    I think I've done a good job but sometimes I have externalised the cost to my boyfriend as he paid for two of the fancy meals out. I can see there were a lot of times that I wasted money because I was too lazy to cook.

    We also spend an average of £100/month on naughty food - i.e. bad planning meant we had fast food/grab and go food.

    I hope summer will mean we do more BBQs and parks rather than pubs.
    Mortgage started at £318,000 in June 2016. Original MF - 2041
    2017 OPs: £7000/£7000
    Mortgage in Nov 2017 - £297,808
    • mfmaybe
    • By mfmaybe 13th Apr 17, 3:09 PM
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    Well we don't live in London, we're likely much older than you, and we have a small child! But long before we had him, we'd moved on to meals being at people's houses not in restaurants. And just drinking at home, lol. The museums here are free so that's often a wet weather activity. Dry weather will usually just be anything outside. A walk. A park. A cycle.

    I think you don't have debt outwith your mortgage, and you are living within your means so it is hard to find the impetus to cut back.

    Could you work out something like - every £20 you spend in a pub could save you £30 (or whatever) if you paid it off the mortgage now? Set yourself rules about how often you eat out, or how many hours you spend in a pub during a month.
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    • Yaz_2016
    • By Yaz_2016 14th Apr 17, 8:11 AM
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    Its crazy how much you can spend isnt it? I had unexpected costs arise this month! My cat need dental treatment £400, my plasma tv had screen burn which my insurance does not cover for so £700 for a new 55" samsung, hubby wanted re-map to our X5 £350, random shopping perfume etc £300, private reg for a birthday present £300. So thats over £2000 spending. That is not even including the 3 takeaways we ordered this week! Its CRAZY
    • michelle09
    • By michelle09 14th Apr 17, 1:27 PM
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    Hmm... what is it about the pub that appeals to you? The atmosphere or the drinking? Can you replicate it anywhere else?

    We started making our own cider at home (obviously it requires planning in advance) but we can produce 40 pints for about £30 ingredients. Then we invite friends over where we provide the cider and games, and everyone brings a pot of food.
    • Jessy103
    • By Jessy103 15th Apr 17, 10:05 AM
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    Hi tropically! I might sound a bit of a bore (I'm 30) but I love reading so to save money I swap a lot of books with friends, my MIL likes doing jigsaws so I borrow them when she's completed them, I also like to do a bit of crosstitch and I grow some vegetable in pots on the windowsills and in my little garden. It would be good if you could find a hobby that doesn't cost much that would keep you entertained at home instead of going to the pub. x
    Original Mortgage Amount 2007 - £87,310.50
    Mortgage Amount Oct 2017 - £61,990.00
    Overpayment Target for 2017 - £5,000 /£4,060.70
    Jan - £873.26 Feb - £185.38 March - £269.07 April - £193.66 May - £467.64 June - £407.79 July - £849.96 August - £255.11 September - £177.22 October - £381.61
    • Tropically
    • By Tropically 19th Apr 17, 4:54 PM
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    I think you don't have debt outwith your mortgage, and you are living within your means so it is hard to find the impetus to cut back.

    Could you work out something like - every £20 you spend in a pub could save you £30 (or whatever) if you paid it off the mortgage now? Set yourself rules about how often you eat out, or how many hours you spend in a pub during a month.
    Originally posted by mfmaybe
    You are right on the money. Every £20 saved from the pub would mean £11 of interest saved, so £31 later. My rate of discounting is probably such that I would rather have £20 now instead of £31 in 25 years time... We are 27 and 29, and are spending about 18% of our salaries on entertainment at the worst. We are saving 18% of our salaries as well, plus 5% going into a 'house float' fund, outside of mortgage overpayments If I look at it that way, then it makes me not want to cut back at all... I guess the point is to not feel bad, but to plan so that the food I eat out is food I want to eat and the drinks I have out are drinks I WANT to have, rather than just because I am out of the house.

    Hmm... what is it about the pub that appeals to you? The atmosphere or the drinking? Can you replicate it anywhere else?

    We started making our own cider at home (obviously it requires planning in advance) but we can produce 40 pints for about £30 ingredients. Then we invite friends over where we provide the cider and games, and everyone brings a pot of food.
    Originally posted by michelle09
    Without being rude, is the cider good? I have seen there are some good things at Lakeland which appeal to me. I love making new things. Games is a good shout. I should organise a games night.

    Hi tropically! I might sound a bit of a bore (I'm 30) but I love reading so to save money I swap a lot of books with friends, my MIL likes doing jigsaws so I borrow them when she's completed them, I also like to do a bit of crosstitch and I grow some vegetable in pots on the windowsills and in my little garden. It would be good if you could find a hobby that doesn't cost much that would keep you entertained at home instead of going to the pub. x
    Originally posted by Jessy103
    I should read more books, definitely. It's a lot of fun. When it gets nice again I could sit outside and read books in the garden!! I have many solo-hobbies but it's the social part that I need to get better at. Maybe I should really really try for board games and beer at home. I get a little bit of anxiety at inviting people to my house, and when hosting I want to go all out with 10 course fancy meals. I could just relax about it. My mum is always stressy about having people over, for example at Christmas we usually have at least 15 dishes for 6 people attending... My boyfriend on the other hand doesn't want to even tidy before guests arrive. A balance is in the middle of course.

    So in other news, I was a BrewDog Equity Punk and should be getting a payout on some of my shares! I will be getting about £200 from their recent buy out so that'll be a nice bonus. I have to research the tax implications but I hope it's alll mineeee.

    I am also going to diligently record my garden produce and transfer savings into my OP fund. So far, I have saved.... £5.00......... so not the greatest yet but I hardly have anything in yet.
    Mortgage started at £318,000 in June 2016. Original MF - 2041
    2017 OPs: £7000/£7000
    Mortgage in Nov 2017 - £297,808
    • mfmaybe
    • By mfmaybe 19th Apr 17, 8:16 PM
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    Ah, DH was also a punk and he's a bit annoyed about it at the moment. Something to do with the number of shares you are allowed to cash in, but they've just done a share split which means he can only reap 10% of what he thought. There's quite a lot of noise about it apparently. Still, it's a nice return on investment!

    So on your entertainment budget; you sound in an incredibly good place financially for the age you are. If you don't actually want to cut back your entertainment budget, then don't. Within reason (Such as not getting into debt) then do whatever makes you happy. You are only young once
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    • michelle09
    • By michelle09 22nd Apr 17, 12:01 PM
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    It's not rude - it's a reasonable question! I quite like it, although it's a little drier than my normal preference. My OH loves it. No we're getting the garden redone he's checking apple trees so we can start from scratch (rather than the puree).

    The first time we did it, we had a party and I bought a few bottles of wine just in case people had preferences/didn't like it etc. Only one bottle of wine got opened between the seven of us.

    My main tip is - leave it after bottling as long as possible. It's drinkable after two weeks, but much better after six months.
    • Tropically
    • By Tropically 24th Apr 17, 2:43 PM
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    I have a lot of apple trees on the nearby streets, and we back onto a park which was formerly an orchard. I bet we could harvest a lot and make cider. I will look into it. A trial run now with the puree, plus a harvesting in the summer sounds wonderful.

    So, the refugee that was staying with us has moved out. Although we lost about £200 pm in Airbnb income since January, I wasn't too sure about the whole Airbnb thing anyway. It wasn't that much money for the sheer amount of cleaning and washing I had to do. He cleaned the house almost every day and was a really nice person to have around. He never bothered us and was clean, tidy, and respectful. My MIL was incredibly grumpy about it, and was telling my boyfriend that he should 'kick him out onto the street'. Actual words. Of course that provided me with motivation to have him stay with us for even longer, but I have relatives and friends coming to stay in the summer so all good things have to end.

    The programme we hosted him under said DO NOT give your guests money. I brought it up with my boyfriend and asked if we should give him money. My boyfriend said something to the effect of, "That is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard, why would you even suggest it? Why did you bring it up?" This from the man spending £1300 on booze since Jan! Anyway, I just said, "oh, okay, never mind."

    I got some cash out from the cash point, and put £40 in our guest's suitcase as he was leaving. It's my own money, so I didn't tell my boyfriend. Our former guest sent me a text message sayin, "Oh my god I am speechless, I wish I knew a word that's much stronger than Thank you. After everything you did for me, you gave me money on top that I just found this morning. You have no idea what a difference this money will make as I don't even have £1.50 for a single bus fare. Thank you so much. I wish you guys all the very best. God bless you."

    He followed up about an hour later, "Too bad, there's nothing more that I can say or do than to say thank you once again." English is his second language so you'll have to forgive any grammar mistakes.

    It made me feel really good. Much better than the couple-of-pints-and-a-crap-meal-out we normally waste our money on. I kept my little happiness inside and wasn't going to tell my boyfriend, even though I know for sure that it was a good thing to give him that money.

    It didn't last long as his case worker sent us both an email saying, "I just received a text from Kofi saying how much he appreciated everything you did for him and especially for the surprise he rec'd in his bag of £40! That is so kind and generous of you both. He is totally chuffed."

    So, my first attempt at keeping a secret didn't last long at all!

    mfmaybe, I was a little cheesed off about the limit as well, along with the almost £15 fee! I only bought two shares (which are now apparently 100 shares). My boyfriend missed the deadline so will get neither free beer nor ROI. See, he needs me!

    Pay day tomorrow! We had a cheeky weekend away over Easter, so hope to make an overpayment tomorrow after the dust settles. We didn't manage one last month due to the (hopefully now resolved) cash flow issue.
    Mortgage started at £318,000 in June 2016. Original MF - 2041
    2017 OPs: £7000/£7000
    Mortgage in Nov 2017 - £297,808
    • Moneyfordreams
    • By Moneyfordreams 24th Apr 17, 3:54 PM
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    How lovely are you
    Mortgage Feb '13 £200000, end 2038. Aiming for before March 2025 (crunched to 2034)
    January 16 £182800 : minimum £360 OP but needs to be £600 to achieve 2025
    Current mortgage £158200
    h@lifax CC £4300 0% until May 2018.. will pay minimum for now, slow stooze
    CC daughter gift and holiday spends £2200
    • Jessy103
    • By Jessy103 25th Apr 17, 10:09 AM
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    What a lovely thing for you to do! I'm a big believer in what goes around comes around, so I'm sure you will have some good karma coming your way! x
    Original Mortgage Amount 2007 - £87,310.50
    Mortgage Amount Oct 2017 - £61,990.00
    Overpayment Target for 2017 - £5,000 /£4,060.70
    Jan - £873.26 Feb - £185.38 March - £269.07 April - £193.66 May - £467.64 June - £407.79 July - £849.96 August - £255.11 September - £177.22 October - £381.61
    • Tropically
    • By Tropically 25th Apr 17, 12:06 PM
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    Overpayment woooooo!

    Given that our bank doesn't give us a mortgage balance, I think our balance is £308,611. We are close to having paid off £10,000 since we took out our mortgage last June and will have next month! Of this, £1,729 has been overpayments which we started in earnest in January.

    House-related savings: £9,260 - This has decreased because our yearly council bill has come out
    Original Mortgage (July 2016) - £318,000
    Mortgage Balance - £308,611
    Mortgage Overpayments - £1,729

    Next monthly, I want to Tilly Tidy by overpaying £751, which could get us to £307,000.
    Mortgage started at £318,000 in June 2016. Original MF - 2041
    2017 OPs: £7000/£7000
    Mortgage in Nov 2017 - £297,808
    • Incywincy21
    • By Incywincy21 23rd May 17, 1:36 AM
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    Hey,

    What a fantastic blog/diary... I've just read from the beginning!
    How are things this month?

    I think it's fantastic that you are so committed to overpaying the mortgage and therefore reaping the benefits of owning a property outright reasonably young.

    Yes, I understand your quandary about how much you spend on entertainment - but reality is, looking at your SOA from January, that you can afford to spend this if that's what you want to do. You have money left at the end of the month even after allocating for all the things you spend. You give to charity, you are up to date on all your bills - and ultimately you're both still in your 20s and are wanting a life.

    If you are really wanting to cut it down, and you are frustrated by it, have you tried the cash envelope system? Just with you mentioning that your boyfriend likes to use cash anyway, it seems it could be a way that you could cut the entertainment area down quite easily (should you really want to).

    But like I say, you're in your 20s, doing an amazing job of overpaying the mortgage, you've had a new kitchen fitted, and still need to live/feel young!

    Incy x
    • Tropically
    • By Tropically 30th May 17, 9:02 AM
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    Tropically
    Hey,

    What a fantastic blog/diary... I've just read from the beginning!
    How are things this month?

    I think it's fantastic that you are so committed to overpaying the mortgage and therefore reaping the benefits of owning a property outright reasonably young.

    Yes, I understand your quandary about how much you spend on entertainment - but reality is, looking at your SOA from January, that you can afford to spend this if that's what you want to do. You have money left at the end of the month even after allocating for all the things you spend. You give to charity, you are up to date on all your bills - and ultimately you're both still in your 20s and are wanting a life.

    If you are really wanting to cut it down, and you are frustrated by it, have you tried the cash envelope system? Just with you mentioning that your boyfriend likes to use cash anyway, it seems it could be a way that you could cut the entertainment area down quite easily (should you really want to).

    But like I say, you're in your 20s, doing an amazing job of overpaying the mortgage, you've had a new kitchen fitted, and still need to live/feel young!

    Incy x
    Originally posted by Incywincy21
    I think the cash envelope system will really work for us! I will try and persuade the boyfriend to go for it.

    I didn't do my normal pay day update because I was really distracted. My boyfriend decided to do the very un-MSE thing of proposing to me! Yikes! He didn't have a ring, and said I could pick the one I wanted and choose the budget I wanted. I think that was the first test...

    So, once that arrives and the dust settles, we will have to start saving for a wedding. For this reason, I haven't made an OP this month. My family has been super excited and I've had several hour-long phone calls where I hardly said a word because they had so many ideas.
    Mortgage started at £318,000 in June 2016. Original MF - 2041
    2017 OPs: £7000/£7000
    Mortgage in Nov 2017 - £297,808
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