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    • smallholdingsister
    • By smallholdingsister 10th Aug 15, 11:39 AM
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    smallholdingsister's strivings
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    • 10th Aug 15, 11:39 AM
    smallholdingsister's strivings 10th Aug 15 at 11:39 AM
    Righto, so as Ed says later (ooh I can time travel!) One can't rebrand oneself on MSE. However...
    I do feel - and partly because of the experiences of another MFW who was getting somewhat robust criticism for not being hard core enough - that, well, I'm not nearly hardcore enough.
    So here I am. 43. Mortgage due to expire when I'm 55.
    I am going to try for getting rid of it by 50. Including a move to a smallholding as that's what I am aiming for (no s h i t!).
    I am planning a LOT of storecupboard challenges and a LOT of fiscal fasts.
    Here goes!
    Last edited by smallholdingsister; 10-08-2015 at 6:00 PM.
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    • earthgirl
    • By earthgirl 18th Mar 17, 4:31 PM
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    earthgirl
    Hope you are fully recovered now. Enjoy the weekend.
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Dec 13 - £116,508 Bought Dream House Dec 14 - £94, 402 (£22,106 offset in 2014) Jan 16 - £67, 852 (£26,550 offset in 2015) Dec 16 - £33,529 ( £34,323offset in 2016)
    Jan 17 - £39, 773 (Re-estimation of endowments )
    June 17 £32,053
    Kids savings 13,578/36k
    • smallholdingsister
    • By smallholdingsister 18th Mar 17, 5:29 PM
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    Thanks everyone. Back at the grindstone for a couple of days.
    • Karmacat
    • By Karmacat 19th Mar 17, 12:01 PM
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    Sorry to hear you've had a bug thats that bad I get terrified at the thought of what a bug will do to me, with my only-recently-improved immune system ... I use a *lot* of antibac hand gel, and while I'm out and about, I still try not to touch anything (which leads to interesting contortions around lift buttons etc)
    Retired August 2016
    • smallholdingsister
    • By smallholdingsister 26th Mar 17, 9:11 AM
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    You can imagine what its like in a school!!
    • newgirly
    • By newgirly 26th Mar 17, 12:31 PM
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    Hope you are fully recovered now and being spoilt today
    MFW 21
    Target for 2017 £38,545 / £14,264 paid so far

    Mortgage £48,846 4 years 9 months left. Total owed £66,122 planning to clear in 24 months
    WW target - 29.5 lb start date 11/5/17 so far 10.5lb lost.
    • smallholdingsister
    • By smallholdingsister 26th Mar 17, 3:27 PM
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    Thank you. I am. Except for the four hour marking frenzy!
    • FloppyDisk
    • By FloppyDisk 31st Mar 17, 12:48 PM
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    Hope the sunshine restores you a bit this weekend. Are you taking plops out?
    MFW July 2012 £139,642 /
    Aug 2017 £112,526
    • earthgirl
    • By earthgirl 31st Mar 17, 7:53 PM
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    Hope you are feeling better and enjoy the weekend .
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Dec 13 - £116,508 Bought Dream House Dec 14 - £94, 402 (£22,106 offset in 2014) Jan 16 - £67, 852 (£26,550 offset in 2015) Dec 16 - £33,529 ( £34,323offset in 2016)
    Jan 17 - £39, 773 (Re-estimation of endowments )
    June 17 £32,053
    Kids savings 13,578/36k
    • apple muncher
    • By apple muncher 31st Mar 17, 8:21 PM
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    apple muncher
    Have you broken up now?
    NST SS #10; NSD 6; Ex 6; craft 150; remove 510
    2017 MFW#63 Pay off: £2239/£4050; 2
    017 sell 110

    Mortgage £24,831 (01/14: £78,201; 01/15: £59,629; 01/16: 39,915; 01/17: 27,295) MFWDate Dec 2018
    • smallholdingsister
    • By smallholdingsister 3rd Apr 17, 7:37 AM
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    Finally broken up. Woohoo!
    Applied for a promotion at current school and had DS's birthday party which ran unusually smoothly (everyone turned up and RSVPd).
    I don't go out with Plops unless trailering is required since DD1 suddenly realised she could ride out alone. It is a freedom but I might go for a cuddle later!
    • earthgirl
    • By earthgirl 3rd Apr 17, 6:27 PM
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    That sounds great, sss.

    Any more details on the party?

    Any interest in the house?
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Dec 13 - £116,508 Bought Dream House Dec 14 - £94, 402 (£22,106 offset in 2014) Jan 16 - £67, 852 (£26,550 offset in 2015) Dec 16 - £33,529 ( £34,323offset in 2016)
    Jan 17 - £39, 773 (Re-estimation of endowments )
    June 17 £32,053
    Kids savings 13,578/36k
    • smallholdingsister
    • By smallholdingsister 4th Apr 17, 3:58 AM
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    Sorry. I am more than usually monosyllabic.

    Party ran smoothly because it was at soft play. Bliss not to have to clear up. I don't know if it is peculiar to Devon but people usually don't seem to want to RSVP to kids parties.

    I spent yesterday resting and sleeping since the kids were off gallivanting. I have to be more productive today.
    • greent
    • By greent 4th Apr 17, 12:00 PM
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    Nope - RSVP-ing is sadly lacking here in Glos, too. Putting my mobile number on invitations gets a better response - people can text at random times - but there are inevitably a couple or so (depending upon how many were originally invited) which always need chasing up...
    I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul
    Repaid mtge early (orig 11/25) Bal 01/09 £124616 01/10 £104927 01/11 £89873 01/12 £76317 01/13 £52546 01/14 £35356 01/15 £12133 07/15 £NIL
    Next: BTL Mtge 12/16 £69786. 2017 OPs (#18) £4070/£3286
    Net sales 2017 £763.00/£500 PAYDOX17 £10787/£10k Decluttered 1284/2017 items
    • smallholdingsister
    • By smallholdingsister 4th Apr 17, 6:26 PM
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    I wonder how often it is because the invitation in languishing in the child's tray.

    If I have the parent's number I will text to say an invitation is on its way.
    • AlexLK
    • By AlexLK 4th Apr 17, 11:17 PM
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    When I organise a birthday party for my son, I don't sent invitations. The party is always small and if my son wishes to invite a child we don't know, the unknown child will have to come to the house for dinner in advance of the party.
    Money saved 2017: £3330. Overpayments 2017: £500.
    Saved £11,000 in 2015, £9,800 in 2016.
    From £32,000 in debt on 2/9/2013 to debt free on 12/1/2015.
    • smallholdingsister
    • By smallholdingsister 5th Apr 17, 7:27 AM
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    That's brill Alex. I am never at the school gate though and messages sent through my parents (who are there in my place) are somewhat...um...variable.

    An example of this is my Mum telling me I would have to change the date of the party since there were two others on the same day. Neither materialised!
    • smallholdingsister
    • By smallholdingsister 6th Apr 17, 12:11 PM
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    Tidy up day today since the agent is coming to re take some of her terribly dark photos.

    It is so ineffably frustrating to not have any viewings.
    • smallholdingsister
    • By smallholdingsister 7th Apr 17, 5:22 PM
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    Tidying done. When I write my memoirs (diaries of a full time working mother of three) I am going to call them
    "How the hell did you get toothpaste THERE?".

    I also (while understanding why there is a yellow stain around the base of the loo) am concerned to have NO IDEA why there is also one around the base of the sink.?!
    • newgirly
    • By newgirly 7th Apr 17, 6:36 PM
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    best just clean it and don't ask questions!!!
    MFW 21
    Target for 2017 £38,545 / £14,264 paid so far

    Mortgage £48,846 4 years 9 months left. Total owed £66,122 planning to clear in 24 months
    WW target - 29.5 lb start date 11/5/17 so far 10.5lb lost.
    • apple muncher
    • By apple muncher 7th Apr 17, 7:30 PM
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    Limescale? That's where we always put the blame here...
    NST SS #10; NSD 6; Ex 6; craft 150; remove 510
    2017 MFW#63 Pay off: £2239/£4050; 2
    017 sell 110

    Mortgage £24,831 (01/14: £78,201; 01/15: £59,629; 01/16: 39,915; 01/17: 27,295) MFWDate Dec 2018
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