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    • xoxo
    • By xoxo 4th Sep 10, 11:39 PM
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    Help!! Ideas for rehoming a puppy
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    • 4th Sep 10, 11:39 PM
    Help!! Ideas for rehoming a puppy 4th Sep 10 at 11:39 PM
    Hi

    I'm looking for ideas/help with rehoming a 10 month old staff cross rhodesian ridgeback. I've tried everything I can think of but rescues won't take her because she has staff in her. She also needs medically spaying due to vaginal prolapse.

    I took her in for a friend when she was younger and I don't want to let her go but with an 8month old now crawling around the house having a big lively puppy jumping around isn't really an option, and it would be unfair to keep her locked up all day or shut out in the garden as winter approaches, so she has to go.

    Any suggestions would be much appreciated as i'm out of ideas I'm in the Essex area if that helps with local suggestions. I think i've tried all the obvious places
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    • welshmoneylover
    • By welshmoneylover 4th Sep 10, 11:55 PM
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    Oh dear, what places have you tried?

    Dogs Trust might help out, but as you say, staff crosses are overwhelming rescue centres..

    Have you tried contacting the original breeder to see if they can help out?
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    • By xoxo 5th Sep 10, 12:07 AM
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    • 5th Sep 10, 12:07 AM
    The original breeder doesn't want to know any more, i've tried them and they asked a few people but nobody was interested and they've since given up and left me to sort it out

    I've tried everything (seriously, everything!) that comes up on google for: dog rescue and/or rehoming dogs in essex/sussex/kent/london/brighton, also lincolnshire & nottinghamshire.

    Also tried rhodesian ridgeback specialists, staff specialists, all local vets, doris banham.

    Ridgeback rescue gave me about 40 numbers to try, none of which would take her.

    Dogs Trust won't take her

    The dog warden for the local council won't take her

    I only took her in as a favour for a friend and I don't know what else to try
  • cyberbob
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    • 5th Sep 10, 12:12 AM
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    • 5th Sep 10, 12:12 AM

    Have you tried contacting the original breeder to see if they can help out?
    Originally posted by welshmoneylover
    I can't see any reputable breeder breeding a Staff/Ridgeback cross, So I doubt they'll be much hope there.

    Why should having a child effect you owning a dog? As long as you train the dog and give appropriate care it should not be a problem.

    Sorry to be harsh it just sounds like you can't be bothered with the work required for the dog you took on so now want to dump her on a charity.
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    • By xoxo 5th Sep 10, 12:23 AM
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    • 5th Sep 10, 12:23 AM
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    • 5th Sep 10, 12:23 AM
    I can't see any reputable breeder breeding a Staff/Ridgeback cross, So I doubt they'll be much hope there.

    Why should having a child effect you owning a dog? As long as you train the dog and give appropriate care it should not be a problem.

    Sorry to be harsh it just sounds like you can't be bothered with the work required for the dog you took on so now want to dump her on a charity.
    Originally posted by cyberbob
    I can't have a big dog jumping around an 8month old baby crawling around his home and it's cruel to keep the dog shut outside all day or shut in a room on her own.

    I have tried training her, in fact she's well trained apart from the jumping, but thats besides the point. I didn't take her on with a view to keeping her forever, I took her on short term as a favour for a friend who's circumstances changed too quickly for them to find a permanent home for her. Now that my 8 month old wants to explore his home and the friend I took her in for is not in a position to take her back then she has to go. I don't want to 'dump her on a charity', I want a permanent home to be found for her, which this was never going to be! Would you prefer I gave her away in the paper rather than "dump her on a charity" so she could end up with anybody?
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    • By hethmar 5th Sep 10, 1:06 AM
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    • 5th Sep 10, 1:06 AM
    If you had her spayed there would be more likelihood a rescue would take her on. Is she suffering with her condition?
    What part of the country do you live in? Ah, just saw Essex - How far are you prepared to travel to take her to a rescue?

    Have you tried these?

    http://www.mutts-in-distress.org.uk/
    http://clactonanimalaid.org/
    http://www.wagtails-rescue.co.uk/
    http://www.plusbreeds.com/rehoming-centres/
    Last edited by hethmar; 05-09-2010 at 1:18 AM.
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    • By xoxo 5th Sep 10, 9:35 AM
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    • 5th Sep 10, 9:35 AM
    Thank you so much for your reply. Unfortunately i've tried them all apart from Battersea who would put her down as she needs the op I don't want her to be put down or for any harm to come to her, that why i'm trying to do this properly instead of just sticking her in a paper or something

    I can travel to get her to a rescue but i've tried all the ones I can find in essex, london, surrey, sussex etc
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    • By november 5th Sep 10, 9:46 AM
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    Have you tried asking on the DogPages forum? http://www.dogpages.org.uk/forums/index.php
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    Thank you for that, i'll give it a go!
    • hethmar
    • By hethmar 5th Sep 10, 10:10 AM
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    hethmar
    Can you not contact PDSA or Blue Cross for this operation? Its so very sad not to help the girl. If you/the owner are on benefits then PDSA or Blue Cross may help you. What a pity she wasnt insured.

    One last chance with a rescue, if you really feel you have contacted all those in that list is to try Hillside Animal Sanctuary in Norfolk. They are very caring people.
  • puddy
    why isnt the 'friend' doing all this?
  • LittleTinker
    I can't have a big dog jumping around an 8month old baby crawling around his home and it's cruel to keep the dog shut outside all day or shut in a room on her own.

    I have tried training her, in fact she's well trained apart from the jumping, but thats besides the point. I didn't take her on with a view to keeping her forever, I took her on short term as a favour for a friend who's circumstances changed too quickly for them to find a permanent home for her. Now that my 8 month old wants to explore his home and the friend I took her in for is not in a position to take her back then she has to go. I don't want to 'dump her on a charity', I want a permanent home to be found for her, which this was never going to be! Would you prefer I gave her away in the paper rather than "dump her on a charity" so she could end up with anybody?
    Originally posted by xoxo
    It wouldnt be any worse than your so called friend dumping it on you!
    What kind of dog owner was she that she just dumped her dog on an uncaring person like you?
    If it really was a short term favour you did, then give the dog back to your friend and let her sort it out, seeing as how its her dog really.

    Or was it a case of you agreed to have the dog and have now changed your mind because you cant be bothered with it?

    You proved you dont care one jot about the dog as you called the dog warden! Dog wardens put dogs to sleep!!

    If you cant look after a dog for life, then dont get the dog in the first place.
    That poor dog!
    • xoxo
    • By xoxo 5th Sep 10, 10:22 AM
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    Thank you hethmar i'll try them. I have looked in to getting her the op but i've been unable to get any help so far.

    why isnt the 'friend' doing all this?
    Originally posted by puddy
    Because as far as she's concerned she's done all she can by asking a few other friends to take her and can't be bothered any more and has left it to me to do it all
  • EmptyPockets
    This is, as usual, a case of the poor animal suffering because people's circumstances change. I don't understand, from what you have said, why you have to get rid of her - surely there is a way you could make it work, unless of course you're really not interested in making it work..?

    Have you thought about investing in a large dog crate for her? They are invaluable for times when you want to restrict your dog, like when your youngster is crawling around for instance... A crate, coupled with shelter and fresh water in the garden, plus a nice cosy bed and some toys in a quiet room of the house, all these options could be used to give you 'time out' when necessary... and would surely be a better solution than the poor dog finding herself in kennels somewhere?

    Sorry if I sound harsh but I just don't understand people who are so quick to get rid when 'circumstances change'. No matter what happened, I would rather live in a tent and eat cold baked beans for life if it meant I could keep my animals and still care for them and be there for them.
    Last edited by EmptyPockets; 05-09-2010 at 10:26 AM.
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  • MrsE
    I don't think its helpful when people post about needing to "get rid" of a pet to
    A have a go at them for it or
    B try & persuade them to keep it.

    1. People get animals without thinking & want rid, its better they get good advice (for the animals sake) than be scared to ask.
    2. If they don't want it, the animal is better off getting rehomed somewhere it is wanted.
    Last edited by MrsE; 05-09-2010 at 10:35 AM.
    • elliesmemory1
    • By elliesmemory1 5th Sep 10, 10:28 AM
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    Would battersea put her down because she needs spaying? I thought all rescues spayed before rehoming anyway.

    Have you looked on dog pages? that might help. Have you spoken to local vets. They may know someone who has recently lost a pet and wants another?
    Last edited by elliesmemory1; 05-09-2010 at 10:34 AM. Reason: speling
    • xoxo
    • By xoxo 5th Sep 10, 10:29 AM
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    It wouldnt be any worse than your so called friend dumping it on you!
    What kind of dog owner was she that she just dumped her dog on an uncaring person like you?
    If it really was a short term favour you did, then give the dog back to your friend and let her sort it out, seeing as how its her dog really.

    Or was it a case of you agreed to have the dog and have now changed your mind because you cant be bothered with it?

    You proved you dont care one jot about the dog as you called the dog warden! Dog wardens put dogs to sleep!!

    If you cant look after a dog for life, then dont get the dog in the first place.
    That poor dog!
    Originally posted by LittleTinker
    I'd hardly say i'm uncaring. I've looked after the puppy for months. I took her in as it was that or my friend would have let her go. It was only ever intended as short term.

    I've not changed my mind about anything, it was supposed to be for a few weeks, a few months later and it looks like my friends circumstances won't be changing again any time soon.

    I didn't know the dog warden puts dogs to sleep, otherwise i'd not have called them. The reason I won't call Battersea is because she'll be put to sleep by them.

    I do care for her, I won't see any harm come to her and will obviously keep her here until there's a suitable solution, I just can't keep her much longer because she's too boisterous around the children, especially the crawling baby.
  • LittleTinker
    I'd hardly say i'm uncaring. I've looked after the puppy for months. I took her in as it was that or my friend would have let her go. It was only ever intended as short term.

    I've not changed my mind about anything, it was supposed to be for a few weeks, a few months later and it looks like my friends circumstances won't be changing again any time soon.

    I didn't know the dog warden puts dogs to sleep, otherwise i'd not have called them. The reason I won't call Battersea is because she'll be put to sleep by them.

    I do care for her, I won't see any harm come to her and will obviously keep her here until there's a suitable solution, I just can't keep her much longer because she's too boisterous around the children, especially the crawling baby.
    Originally posted by xoxo
    Train her then and then she wont be boisterous.

    Lets face it....it is a case of you cant be bothered and now want rid.
    • elliesmemory1
    • By elliesmemory1 5th Sep 10, 10:32 AM
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    I don't think its helpful when people post about needing to "get rid" of a pet to A have a go at them for it or B try & persuade them to keep it.

    1. People get animals without thinking & want rid, its better they get good advice (for the animals sake) than be scared to ask.
    2. If they don't want it, the animal is better off getting rehomed somewhere it is wanted.
    Originally posted by MrsE
    Well said. its not helping to have a go at the op who is trying to find another home. yes a dog should be for life and people should think much more before taking on animals but in this situation people should try to help the dog.
  • MrsE
    Well said. its not helping to have a go at the op who is trying to find another home. yes a dog should be for life and people should think much more before taking on animals but in this situation people should try to help the dog.
    Originally posted by Hardupandfedup
    Exactly.....
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