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    • Verbatim
    • By Verbatim 12th Aug 08, 10:19 AM
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    ex and would be ex-gamblers support thread
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    • 12th Aug 08, 10:19 AM
    ex and would be ex-gamblers support thread 12th Aug 08 at 10:19 AM
    There seem to be a good few posts recently from people who are in debt due to gambling and I wondered if anyone else thinks a support thread or a sub-board like the bankruptcy sub-board or giving up alcohol thread would be a good idea?
    CCs @0% £24k Dec 05 £19,621.41 Au £13400 S 12600 Oct £11,981 £9481 £7500 Nov £7250 D £7100 Jan 6950 F £5800 Mar£5400 May £4830 June £4660 July £4460 Aug £3200, S £900, £0 18/9/07 DFW Nerd 042
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    • cantcope
    • By cantcope 28th Mar 17, 12:49 PM
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    cantcope
    thanks.it was just thought it might of been the slots/ roulette etc on the internet.

    the problem with sports bets is that some sports men play to lose thats what put me off.


    I watch it in slow mo
    Originally posted by prosaver
    Please dont put betting related videos or pictures on here. we are all trying to stop gambling. see a horse race on here is torture for some.
    Would you put a pint in front of an alcoholic??
    my eyes are like mirrors. They reflect whats going on around me rather than whats inside
    Original debt May 06 £16569,25th Feb 08 DEBT FREE

    Last bet : 26th October 2006
    • prosaver
    • By prosaver 28th Mar 17, 12:55 PM
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    prosaver
    Please dont put betting related videos or pictures on here. we are all trying to stop gambling. see a horse race on here is torture for some.
    Would you put a pint in front of an alcoholic??
    Originally posted by cantcope
    ok took it off, just thought it would help as the race was fixed.
    Referendum,Lisbon Treaty. shamelessly broken by labour and we never had the chance to vote on probably the most important change in Britain’s sovereignty in hundreds of years. Then Brown slunk off to sign the Treaty alone, away from the cameras and other European leaders, as if embarrassed by this betrayal of the people he’s paid to represent.
    • Hillwalker17
    • By Hillwalker17 31st Mar 17, 6:03 PM
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    Hope everyone is still doing well!

    Day 16 for me and I just ain't looking back, only forward.
    Ex Gambling Addict - Last bet made on 15/03/2017 - 29 Days
    Slowly building an emergency fund - £1000/£6000
    • cantcope
    • By cantcope 5th Apr 17, 9:03 AM
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    cantcope
    keep going Hillwalker!
    my eyes are like mirrors. They reflect whats going on around me rather than whats inside
    Original debt May 06 £16569,25th Feb 08 DEBT FREE

    Last bet : 26th October 2006
    • cantcope
    • By cantcope 12th Apr 17, 11:07 AM
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    cantcope
    How's everyone doing?
    my eyes are like mirrors. They reflect whats going on around me rather than whats inside
    Original debt May 06 £16569,25th Feb 08 DEBT FREE

    Last bet : 26th October 2006
    • buddiebabe
    • By buddiebabe 13th Apr 17, 12:10 AM
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    Not going well here at all havent posted for a long time and the email notification thats just popped through has come at the right time. I was paid my monthly wage today and have just blown it all. Im so angry and upset with myself right now.... what the hell was I thinking ive done so well for so long.
    DEBT OUTSTANDING 23.04.17 £16802.97
    • jools1985
    • By jools1985 13th Apr 17, 1:05 AM
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    jools1985
    oh no buddiebabe! I can totally relate to what you've done tonight and can almost feel that gut wrenching feeling. I've no great words of wisdom for you as what is done is done. Have you ever sought help from GA? It really helps being amongst people who understand and don't judge,
    • HEROWHENZERO
    • By HEROWHENZERO 13th Apr 17, 12:40 PM
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    HEROWHENZERO
    Not going well here at all havent posted for a long time and the email notification thats just popped through has come at the right time. I was paid my monthly wage today and have just blown it all. Im so angry and upset with myself right now.... what the hell was I thinking ive done so well for so long.
    Originally posted by buddiebabe
    What thoughts led you to gambling? It's important to be honest with yourself and ask yourself the questions that are much easier to avoid.

    https://www.gamblersanonymous.org.uk

    If you haven't been to GA before, I strongly recommend it. Without GA, I'm sure I would have gambled again, but I'm now 13 months without it. I've been where you are many times over and I can't stress enough, please reach out for help, it is there and you can do it :-)

    All the best

    Hero
    Just for today I will not try to solve all my life problems at once. | DFD: April 2033 April 2031
    Original Debt: £96K Mar 2016 | Current Debt:£87201.73 Apr 2017
    • cantcope
    • By cantcope 19th Apr 17, 3:05 PM
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    cantcope
    Not going well here at all havent posted for a long time and the email notification thats just popped through has come at the right time. I was paid my monthly wage today and have just blown it all. Im so angry and upset with myself right now.... what the hell was I thinking ive done so well for so long.
    Originally posted by buddiebabe
    oh no if you haven't already get some blocks on your electronics. k9 is free ( shut your eyes and smash out a password if there is nobody you can ask to do it for you) (my dad comes to my house and does mine every time i get something new) and will stop you being able to gamble on your tablet/phone/laptop.

    I also second GA. I've been in the room 11 years in May and off a bet 10.5 years. i couldn't do without it. the support i get daily outside of the rooms from other members is invaluable. not just for gambling, which i rarely think about now, but for life in general, things that COULD lead me back to it.

    It's my birthday today and i have more cards and well wishes from GA members than any of my friends and family! They ARE my friends and family.
    my eyes are like mirrors. They reflect whats going on around me rather than whats inside
    Original debt May 06 £16569,25th Feb 08 DEBT FREE

    Last bet : 26th October 2006
    • jools1985
    • By jools1985 19th Apr 17, 9:25 PM
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    Happy birthday CC. I hope you've had a great day. You give tremendous support to others on this thread. It's good to hear you get the same from your GA buddies
    • cantcope
    • By cantcope 20th Apr 17, 12:39 PM
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    Happy birthday CC. I hope you've had a great day. You give tremendous support to others on this thread. It's good to hear you get the same from your GA buddies
    Originally posted by jools1985
    Thanks Jools.
    my eyes are like mirrors. They reflect whats going on around me rather than whats inside
    Original debt May 06 £16569,25th Feb 08 DEBT FREE

    Last bet : 26th October 2006
    • 611
    • By 611 24th Apr 17, 8:43 AM
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    611
    I'd be interested in hearing from anyone who has remained abstinent without attending GA. My gambling addiction has always been a very private thing that I don't discuss with others, even those closest to me don't know about it. Social situations with strangers can make me anxious so I'd really like to find another way to beat this (currently on day 17 and feeling very confident about it).
    • cantcope
    • By cantcope 24th Apr 17, 12:28 PM
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    i think you might struggle to find anyone who managed to abstain for a long period of time without any support from GA or gamcare or some form of counselling. Everything is easier to deal with if you can be open and honest about it. too much pressure otherwise.

    i'd be interested to know too though. i only see evidence of people returning to the rooms having not been for a period of time and they are in more debt and have lost family, friends, jobs etc
    my eyes are like mirrors. They reflect whats going on around me rather than whats inside
    Original debt May 06 £16569,25th Feb 08 DEBT FREE

    Last bet : 26th October 2006
    • HEROWHENZERO
    • By HEROWHENZERO 25th Apr 17, 1:08 AM
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    HEROWHENZERO
    I'd be interested in hearing from anyone who has remained abstinent without attending GA. My gambling addiction has always been a very private thing that I don't discuss with others, even those closest to me don't know about it. Social situations with strangers can make me anxious so I'd really like to find another way to beat this (currently on day 17 and feeling very confident about it).
    Originally posted by 611
    I can only tell you of my experience, and my observations of others in the fellowship. I tried on my own many many many times and failed to stay off a bet EVERY time. One the the best ways that I now stay off is by talking about it with like minded people. I've seen a number of people stop going to GA and then come back a few months having succumbed to gambling addiction.

    Personally keeping everything private was what fuelled my continued gambling, as I was not accountable and hadn't declared that I had an issue. Being open and honest about my addiction was vital to staying off, and my family appreciate it. All the time I kept it to myself I suffered in silence, and the suffering would surface in other indirect ways, taking out frustration on my loved ones, normally without even realising it.

    I've not gambled now since 15/03/2016 and I'm pretty sure that without GA and honesty, I would have gambled since then.

    I really hope you all the success in your gambling free recovery, but I strongly suggest you give GA a try. Gambling addiction is an illness and GA is my weekly medicine.

    Hero
    Just for today I will not try to solve all my life problems at once. | DFD: April 2033 April 2031
    Original Debt: £96K Mar 2016 | Current Debt:£87201.73 Apr 2017
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