Trying for a Baby Part 8

Good point Raz. I'd offer but I know I'd make a complete mess of it

Well done courgette on a more relaxed attitude, I could learn a thing or two from you

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Evening ladies! :hello:

OMG huge congratulations Bigbird! :j:j:j Fab news!

Congrats on your new job squirrel! :T:T:T Sorry to hear about your DH's SA.

abis, what a fab list of positives

Teamlowe, keeping everything crossed for a BFP for you!!

Thanks for all your support about my git of a doctor! The plan for the time being is to go for the blood test next week, then DH is off the week after and will try to get in to see a different doctor and ask about getting a test done. Trying not to stress about it all at the moment. I do have fairly regular cycles, so maybe that's why the doctor said to come back at 18 months, maybe he thinks that us losing weight will help matters.

All the Red Dwarf talk made me laugh, I used to watch it years ago but didn't like the last programme they made, we've taped this one as DH is mad keen! And as for Homeland OMG I can't wait!! Got to say I have a little crush on Damian Lewis in that! Maybe it's the uniform...

I like all the period dramas too, Downton and the Paradise at the moment.

Trina, it can be hard when others announce their pregnancies in real life. Think we've all struggled with that.

I've been feeling up and down today, I often get PMT in the two weeks before my period. Will have to summon some PMA for tomorrow as it's my niece's christening. We found out that my SIL was pregnant with her literally a few minutes after my first negative pregnancy test last September. She rang while I was sat here sobbing and I just knew from what DH was saying on the phone that she was pregnant. Of course I was pleased for her, it just made me even more sad for us in a way. Anyway, our niece is a lovely little thing, I love her and my nephew very much, and I've written a poem to put in the card for tomorrow. I hope SIL likes it. (Don't care about BIL, he's an eejit! )

Oh dear, I've rambled on a bit! Meant to say, bigzippy glad the pre-op went ok QQ if you're off on a trip hope you have a nice time

Oh, and lilymay, so sorry for causing the confusion! I don't mind peeps calling me LTL.

Also, welcome to the new ladies

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Hi girls sorry ive beenaway ive had a really crappy week. Tuesday i ended up having to run out of the uni as had been fighting all day and i didnt want a seizure in front of the kids as i know they would freak. So i ran out got to the car n oh had one thing to do before we got home.
I got home and then promptly had 25 seizures apparantly. Think u got a bit of concushion yes i know i cant spell.

Had to take two days off to recoop

Sf paid today and most of the wedding is now paid two more things to pay n then its all systems go eeeeekkkkkk.
Third assignment is in for my wedding day. I sooo dont think thats happening.

The woman who is in charge of my evening reception is 8weeks on clomid first time round
My mate is also 8weeks preggs

Congrats mogwai

I got a little worried earlier my cm has turned back to ew n lots of it

Also keep feeling sick n i dont normally

Wed i shud b on oh well anoth month of nothing happening. Whens it my turn????

Sorry to be a drain on PMA, but I need to vent (and it's CD1 )

A while ago my friend (hereby known as Friend1) suggested she wanted to go to a Centre Parcs type place for her birthday which is early next year, and she was encouraging friends to come along for the weekend. She made it very clear that partners and even friends she'd never met would all be very welcome. I signed myself and DH up thinking it would be nice to celebrate her birthday and see our mutual friends, even though it meant taking time off work and wasn't exactly cheap (and even though she'd refused to come to our wedding as it was too expensive and she wouldn't take the time off work )

Another mutual friend of many years (Friend2) has recently moved very close to us (think a couple of streets away) and I'd got quite upset because she never came over when I invited her and repeatedly had house parties, etc at her house but didn't bother to invite me. I was really low anyway (was withdrawing from anti-depressants at the time in order to start TTCing) and DH was upset to see me so weepy. When she posted an update on Facebook about the fun night she was having DH posted a message saying that she should have got in touch with me, at which point Friend1 weighed into the fray saying DH was out of line, etc.

DH apologised and they promptly de-friended him on Facebook. It's now several weeks later and I've met up with friend2, who was the one he'd been a bit rude to, on a number of occasions and we've joked about the situation. Completely out of the blue and during our 5 year anniversary dinner I received a text from friend1 saying that DH was no longer welcome on the Centre Parcs weekend but I am still invited to what is essentially a couple's retreat with her and her boyfriend, friend2 and her boyfriend and a few other couples.

Cue crying and general upset between myself and DH on what should have been a lovely and memorable night. I've not been able to sleep at all since and just feel physically sick - I've known this girl for years and she was never even the one DH 'offended'. It just all seems so childish. I know she's entitled to have whoever she wants at her birthday, but she's been very clear that even complete strangers are welcome, just not DH.

aww TeamLowe please dont think like that. Your baby is coming, they're just taking a bit longer in quality control to make sure its perfect. xx

This process is so damn hard.