Balancing not just the budget

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  • MuffinTops
    MuffinTops Posts: 2,477 Forumite
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    Once again I'm feeling motivated to attack the mess at home! I've got next week off so will be decluttering and hopefully selling lots too.

    Well done on the list of organising and MSE things. How are you doing with them?

    I seem to be addicted to notebooks at the moment! Buying way too many pretty ones!!!

    Apologies for not being on much. I will make sure I'm on regularly again as I miss the updates.

    MTx
  • Hi all

    Sam - the looooong January is a bit of a nuisance isn't it. I used to get paid on the last Thursday of the month and it was a nightmare as the January gap could end up being six weeks. Fortunately now it's a set day in the month and they've already said when we will get our December pay - it's only a couple of days early.

    MT I am doing OK on the organising and very glad to have got back to it - I had forgotten how nice it feels to come into a lovely tidy clean flat... not that I'm there yet, but progressing. The only problem is that the time I am spending on organising is taking away from study time, so I'm going to try and balance out the two. I also set up a work journal to get myself fully back to organised there, and will start cleaning out desk drawers etc - I suspect there's stuff that can go now I've moved jobs.

    So today...

    Organising things
    • Shifted a big item of furniture that the landlord is going to pick up tomorrow. This will give me more storage space, which is desperately needed. I'm not sure how best to use it yet so will look at this on the weekend.
    • Picked up a new food recycling caddy as yet another one has disappeared :mad: already clearly wrote the house number on it and am considering keeping it in the back garden instead of out front. Fortunately they're free, but it's a PITA when they 'go missing' as it means either waiting two weeks or wasting a lunchtime to get a new one.
    • Completed the first week of my own design work journal and set up the next one. (Still waiting on my Desire Map planner for personal stuff.)

    MSE things
    • Ate one of the ready meals for work lunch when I decided to dial into a meeting instead of driving there.
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    Sooo looking forward to the weekend - at college tomorrow which will be a really long day.

    I'm trying to work on my sleep pattern as logically it would be better to start and finish work early and have more of the evening spare, than my current later pattern. So I'm avoiding screen time after 10pm, going to bed earlier, and am just getting to the point of waking up before my alarm. It will be all disrupted again with the early start tomorrow but I hope I'm getting somewhere albeit slowly.


    Rosa xx
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  • Gaaahh to Bl4ck Fr1day. My inbox is full of carp. GO AWAY shops, I don't want to buy stuff I don't need!
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  • kerri_gt
    kerri_gt Posts: 11,202 Forumite
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    keep changing my mind about what to do with November and December money too... Its just stressful ...lol I have Dec pay coming in bank just 21 days after November !!! and then a very long wait for Jan pay :P

    Is it possible to ignore your Dec pay cheque if you get it early and pretend it's not there until your proper pay day? We usually get paid a couple of days before Xmas which I like, in previous companies it was a week or more early, which I hated as, like you say, it made Jan seem way off (.plus my OH b'day is at the end of January which made it even worse if I didn't budget well)
    Gaaahh to Bl4ck Fr1day. My inbox is full of carp. GO AWAY shops, I don't want to buy stuff I don't need!

    tell me about it, i have succombed to two hot water bottle covers, but to be fair .a) we need them, b) they are ones I've been looking at for ages, whilst not cheap they are thick and should last, OH got burned from a cover that wasn't substantial enough previously. So I would've bought them anyway at full price shortly even without a code.

    I even got a txt today from a company saying .'we miss you come back it's Black Friday blah blah' I haven't shopped with them for at least 10yrs :eek: goodness knows how they even have my my number as its changed in that time.

    On the subject of throwing veg, if you notice fresh veg starting to turn, bung it in the freezer cut into portions and the like so you don't end up throwing it away. I have a bag of broccoli stalks, cauli leaves etc for soup in the freezer and just chucked in some kale leaves which were getting a bit past their best. They'll be fine in a soup and blitzed up. Actually going to try making a Thai green soup with them as I have paste, coconut milk (didn't realise until recently how much the actual coconut % in tinned coconut milk can vary :eek:) and lime juice ( LO and frozen in an ice cube tray ). Might even make that this weekend.
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  • That's a very smart idea re veg Kerri - I might try it. On the other hand, I eventually binned the chicken carcasses that were kept for similar reasons as I had to confess I clearly wasn't going to have time to do anything with them and wanted the space for other things!

    I've been in the city today and had to dash into one of the shopping centres to grab a gf wrap - was very surprised to find it seemed better then previous Fridays. Was expecting it to be total chaos and possibly looting by that point :rotfl:


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • I'm a happy bunny :):T.

    Last time I was in college I decided I really need to sort out a study nook so I can enjoy my reading and internet-ing and DVDs. I always used to when I was studying before and it doesn't require a lot, just a clear spot around the bookcase and the sofa.

    I've been sort of not using the living room and garden of my flat for a while, and couldn't really think why. Today when I finally tackled moving the bookcase and shifting a few other things I realised that I had not wanted to look at all my files and books from the course I hadn't finished - it made me sad. I also didn't like looking at the files and books from my masters, because I felt so awful for half of it and felt I had done it badly as well as just the memory of my emotional and health state at the time. Well today I realised that there is no longer any need for that - I know what was wrong during the masters, I was really ill. I've started getting my confidence back about that and have now got all my stuff for that subject together. And now that I've gone back to college to finish my other course, there is no need to feel bad about that either. I've cleared the bookcase, hoovered everywhere, wiped things down, and will start putting all the books back and organising things tomorrow night. And I've reshuffled things so the living room now looks fab - cosy and tidy and inviting.

    I am just so happy I've done this - it feels like there has been a stagnant little corner of the room holding all that sadness, and now it's washed away. The room is mine again and I am back to taking care of my home like I always did before I got ill with the gluten issue. I've still got bits of decluttering to do, but I reckon by January I can make this flat look great again and be pleased not embarrassed to have people here.

    I think in some ways Marie Kondo is quite right - stuff holds emotional power for us, and needs to be let go of or cared for to stay healthy.

    I'm off to curl up on my newly cleared and cosy sofa :D


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • Just wonderful to hear you have been kind to yourself ....Great news about the space too.... perfect for moggie parties while your out


    ;):)


    Stay warm ..
    MMSam


    xxx
    Grocery challenge Feb £107/£100-epic fail due to cake and biscuits
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  • Decluttering continues - in a kinda random order as I had a sudden need to go through one of my cupboards and check the dates on things, but it turned out to be just as well as quite a bit of stuff was out of date. So that's now sorted and I made a bit more space there which should enable easier use of the coffee machine!

    Still loving my living room space and that is also making progress. I'm sticking to doing things a little at a time and whatever feels easiest so am currently working my way through some shredding. The landlord is coming in the week to do two things that I should probably have asked him about ages ago and will both make the flat nicer - I put them off when I thought I was going to buy the place, but have now decided I deserve to live somewhere as nice as it can be for however long I am here :).

    The budget is a little over what I had planned for December so I will have to use some of this month's paycheque in the same month. I have just emailed a coach about help with preparing for a job interview next year so that is an additional cost, on the other hand now that I am cosily sorted with my study nook I feel much more settled and will hopefully just enjoy the things that matter to me without any unnecessary spends.

    Oh and in small :money:things - I checked my Clu7car3 account and found £6.50 I didn't know about - turns out it's not worth spending on the thing I wanted, as I'd have to pay delivery, but worth knowing. I also have about £7 in Boots points and have to sort out my Wa1trose card next time I'm in there as I seem to have two. And I have got six months Ama3on Pr1m3 for free as a student membership trial!

    So all going OK here, hope everyone else is having a lovely weekend too.


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • Great news about the space too.... perfect for moggie parties while you're out ;):)

    :rotfl:

    Funnily enough this weekend is the first time I've known them curl up actually touching each other. Maybe the scrapping is all an act!
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
  • Why Being Organised Is Brilliant #1

    I ordered a leather jacket from Ebay a few weeks ago, I suddenly remembered one I used to have and by a stroke of pure luck there was one the same for sale.

    The only thing is, it smells of someone else's perfume - even after weeks of being left hanging in the breeze inside out. Which has meant every time I've put it on, I've felt a bit weird about it and taken it off again.

    What it needs is say, a steam cleaner.

    Oh, you mean like the one I found in the cupboard that I bought from Ald1 ages ago and had forgotten about?

    Jacket now steam cleaned :D


    Rosa xx
    Debt free May 2016... DFW#2 in progress
    Campervan paid off summer '21... MFW progress tbc
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