The Cutting Down / Giving Up Booze Thread (Part 14)

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  • Poor_Single_lady
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    Hello All


    12/20 please


    Thinking about your previous question HB For me personally I think It is the rebel in me that doesn't want to go home and wants to stay out for as long as possible and drink the whole bar. I think its a throw back to being 17/18/19 and not wanting to be around my parents and the pub providing that escape.
    Its illogical these days as I live on my own but I think its a long ingrained habit and a bit of fear-of-missing-out. And also the grief people give you if you want to leave early, as though you are personally hurting them by wanting to leave.
    2017- 5 credit cards plus loan
    Overdraft And 1 credit card paid off.

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  • Barny1979
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    16/24 AFDs today
  • CuppaTea
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    12/16 please shaggy
    Live for the moment and plan for the future
  • Honey_Bear
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    I'm very relieved that other people recognise that sentiment of knowing perfectly well we've had enough and perfectly consciously opening another bottle / dipping back into the wine box / buying another round / accepting the offer of another one. It wasn't just me then; I just wondered.

    Over dinner on Sunday neighbours were talking about a gin tasting evening they'd hosted last year. We weren't invited, no matter, but I used to love gin, and in my drinking days I'd have loved loved loved a gin tasting evening. Listening to them talking about it I was surprised to find I felt very detached from the discussion and found myself wondering if coke addicts talk about the different hits they get from coke from different sources. I wouldn't know, I've never been tempted by the stuff, and I'm not a fan of the black fizzy drink, either.

    It seemed a slightly mad subject, to be honest, with my almost out of body experience while reflecting on being sober for three years listening to intelligent people discussing the merits of one version of getting !!!!!! over another. Because I used to love gin and not once was I even remotely tempted to go back to drinking it, and it therefore didn't come as a surprise to me that I drank in a dream that night, much to my dreaming disappointment in myself.

    23/31 please, Shaggy.
    Better is good enough.
  • ElusiveLucy
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    I had a s*d it night last night, for which I feel disappointment today, so I am now at 9/15
    What goes around comes around.....I hope!
  • cathybird
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    Afternoon all, 22/21 for me today please.
    In April I am taking a break from buying: Books
  • shaggydoo
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    August 2017

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  • cathybird
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    Thanks Shaggy! Hope you are having a nice time on holiday!! :hello:
    In April I am taking a break from buying: Books
  • maggiem
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    13/15 please for yesterday. Pleased especially as using an airport lounge with free booze and resisted. May have a drink tonight as with friends but target is almost in sight.

    Well done Cathybird - and with 7 days to go!
  • Barny1979
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    17/24 AFDs today
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