Breathing space campaign: how have your debts affected you?

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Former_MSE_Andrea Posts: 9,614 Forumite
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edited 15 February 2017 at 2:44PM in Debt-free wannabe
Hi everyone

MSE has been backing the Families with Children and Young People in Debt (Respite) Bill calling on the Government to create a “breathing space” to bridge the gap in legal protection facing families and individuals struggling with debt.

One of the charities supporting the Bill is The Children’s Society.

As part of its work it’s asked to hear from our Forum users about your experiences. Your replies will be used to feed into a private members bill in Parliament currently set to be debated on Friday 24th February (although the date's not set in stone).

Please do share how you’ve been affected. The questions below may help you start.

  • What kind of impact does/did problem debt have on you and your family?
  • What impact do visits from bailiffs/escalating interest fees have on your ability to manage or repay your debt?
  • Have you ever accessed a debt management plan (or a debt payment plan (via DAS) in Scotland). What impact did this have on repaying debts. How would you rate its effectiveness?
  • How do you think a breathing space would make a difference to your circumstances/ability to get out of debt?

If you’re reading this, would like to share your experiences but are worried about privacy don’t worry, it’s totally anonymous to join and of course free.

Just ensure you choose a username that doesn’t give away who you are. You can join here.

If you'd prefer to share your thoughts off the thread, you can email [EMAIL="breathingspace@childrenssociety.org.uk"]breathingspace@childrenssociety.org.uk[/EMAIL].

Nicole from The Children’s Society will be following and joining in on this discussion.
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  • dieselv2
    dieselv2 Posts: 164 Forumite
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    What kind of impact does/did problem debt have on you and your family?
    It caused massive amount of stress between us in a relationship aspect. I hate debt and OH doesn't give two youknowwhats. It did cause a few arguments but we made sure kids didn't go without and they didn't know what was going on.

    What impact do visits from bailiffs/escalating interest fees have on your ability to manage or repay your debt?
    Never had a bailiff visit and interest is frozen on all my accounts.

    Have you ever accessed a debt management plan (or a debt payment plan (via DAS) in Scotland). What impact did this have on repaying debts. How would you rate its effectiveness?
    I had a DMP with StepChange and even though my debts were only getting £1 each it relieved a lot of stress and made me feel in control because something was coming off those debts. Now a year later I'm on a self managed DMP of £10/mo to each creditor but again we made sure that paying this wouldn't affect the kids in any way. I'd date StepChange 10/10.

    How do you think a breathing space would make a difference to your circumstances/ability to get out of debt?
    It would be nice even to get a few months just to get head together, complete an SOA and get finances in order instead of pressure to pay straight away to make payments without assessing finances.


    I hope this helps :)
    Debt As Of 19/3/2021: £16,973 | Current Debt: £9,322 | 54.9% Repaid
  • TheChildrensSociety
    TheChildrensSociety Posts: 2 Organisation Representative
    Hi dieselv2,

    Thanks so much for sharing your experience - it's a great help.

    Nicole - The Children's Society
    Official Organisation Representative
    I’m the official organisation rep for The Children's Society.

    MSE has given permission for me to post letting you know about relevant and useful info. You can see my name on the organisations with permission to post list. If you believe I've broken the Forum Rules please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. This does NOT imply any form of approval of my organisation by MSE
  • Thanks for your post dieselv2
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  • I work for a credit union (not-for-profit, member-owned community bank). I'm not commenting on behalf of all or even my own CU, but I want to make some observations on the final question and to be transparent about my viewpoint.

    Member feedback consistently identifies our approach to borrower difficulty as one of the strengths of the sector. Providing borrowers communicate with us, we will do what we can to assist. This might mean rescheduling loans to reduce payments, reducing interest, accepting payments aren't going to made temporarily or allowing them to use any savings. Obviously this hits our bottom line, like any lender, but we see this as part of our long-term aim, which is to improve our members' financial position.

    How do you think a breathing space would make a difference to your circumstances/ability to get out of debt?
    One of the obvious dangers of problem debt is that the person is under so much pressure to keep up repayments that they lose perspective.

    Bills keep coming in and people can't see the woods for the trees, they may not know how to prioritise their debts and pay non-priority creditors because they're shouting the loudest, or have continual payment authorities, or (in the case of banks) take their money as it comes in to the account.

    Too often, because they don't have this time to consider the best options, the only 'solution' they can see is to borrow more, either to serve existing debt or because life goes on, cars break down, children need new clothes, etc. etc.

    We've seen an increase in people trying to borrow for rent arrears or to pay day-to-day bills. They often have an unsupportable proportion of their income already servicing other debt and we usually have no option but to decline their application, as it would not be in their best interests to add to their debt.

    Leaving aside consolidation loans, (getting a loan to repay other debt, which may be a solution for some people in particular situations) my fear is that some lenders are not as responsible and they are lending more or putting up existing credit limits, merely putting off the problem for another day, when the level of debt is even higher.

    Our approach is simple, if someone can't pay, we do what we can to assist, discussing it with them and keeping communications open. Often it is only necessary for a short period, but sometimes it can be longer.

    It is incredibly frustrating when we are the only ones to do this and are often forced to write debt off that we can ill afford, because members feel forced into an arrangement to make other creditors back off, when if they were willing to support their customers earlier in the process, a long-term solution could be found to suit everyone, without adding to the distress of the borrower.

    I dealt recently with a woman who had a catalogue debt (catalogues are notorious for giving no quarter) and had got into arrears because of their 28-day payment schedule. Her job had changed with a reduction in income and she was worried she'd never pay the balance off, even paying £200 a month. She'd asked them for a pause in the interest to get back on track. Their response? 'We won't freeze or reduce interest for anyone unless they're in an IVA - pay up' (followed up by lots of texts about IVA schemes).

    I've signposted the person to further advice, but imagine, you've finally got to the point where you have to swallow your pride and call up your creditor and beg them to help you, and that's your response. 'Get an IVA', which might not be appropriate or necessary. Unless you want to take it to the Ombudsman, there's nothing more you can do.

    A breathing space would mean that people had the time to consider the best options for them without the pressure of knowing that interest and charges are building up faster than they can pay it off. Reasonable lenders should welcome this.

    In my view, the debtor should not be allowed to borrow more as a condition of the respite period, similar to other formal debt solutions. They should also be required to seek advice from a debt charity on their whole financial situation (this should not be seen as a 'quick fix').

    In an ideal world, we would be able to do this without compulsion, which will hit the good lenders with the bad, but sadly, experience teaches us that compulsion is the only way to get the measures in place that help people quickly enough to make a difference.
    Worker in, and passionate advocate of, the credit union movement. I don't speak for the sector or for any individual CU. My opinions & experiences are my own.

    Search MSE for more info about CUs and find ones that cover your area by searching online for 'find your credit union'.
  • TheChildrensSociety
    TheChildrensSociety Posts: 2 Organisation Representative
    Hi SparklesJD, thank you very much for sharing your thoughts on the breathing space scheme. We’re trying to gauge the impact a scheme like this would have on people who have personal experiences of debt and it would be great it be able to include a professional perspective too. I understand that you’re speaking on behalf of yourself, rather than the credit union you work for, but I was wondering if we might be able to use some of your words to inform our parliamentary and campaign materials - perhaps we could reference it as ‘worker in a credit union’?
    Thank you,
    Nicole - The Children's Society
    Official Organisation Representative
    I’m the official organisation rep for The Children's Society.

    MSE has given permission for me to post letting you know about relevant and useful info. You can see my name on the organisations with permission to post list. If you believe I've broken the Forum Rules please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. This does NOT imply any form of approval of my organisation by MSE
  • SparklesJD
    SparklesJD Posts: 85 Forumite
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    Hi, sorry, my subscription notifications were going into 'junk'! Absolutely fine, if it's not too late.

    If you'd like a wider perspective from the sector, I'm sure our trade body ABCUL would be happy to give you an 'official' view or canvas for opinions. Likewise, Responsible Finance, the trade body for CDFIs.

    Happy to provide contacts if it would help.
    Worker in, and passionate advocate of, the credit union movement. I don't speak for the sector or for any individual CU. My opinions & experiences are my own.

    Search MSE for more info about CUs and find ones that cover your area by searching online for 'find your credit union'.
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