Disrespect - am I wrong here?

redrabbit29
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I have been in a long term relationship now for about 5 years. I'm starting to get really really pee'd off with a few things, namely that my GF doesn't respect my space or priacy I feel
  • GF just barging in and invading my privacy. NOW, before you all judge me, remember that this is something that I have tolde her before, and I have taken time out to calmly explain. Now 4-5 years later she still barges in. I'm really fed up with it.

She just walks in when I'm trying to relax, and it's just not right. I've told her again... and again.. and a a!!!!ing again... dont' walk in but she does
Amo L'Italia
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  • Jojo_the_Tightfisted
    Jojo_the_Tightfisted Posts: 27,228 Forumite
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    You need to build a shed.
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  • Jamiesmum
    Jamiesmum Posts: 368 Forumite
    Barges in where?
  • Sagz_2
    Sagz_2 Posts: 6,251 Forumite
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    Is "trying to relax" a euphemism?
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  • Frogletina
    Frogletina Posts: 3,888 Forumite
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    Sagz wrote: »
    Is "trying to relax" a euphemism?

    It was with my ex

    :sad:
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  • Mr.Generous
    Mr.Generous Posts: 3,373 Forumite
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    As long as she is prepared to lend a hand as required who cares?
  • bspm
    bspm Posts: 541 Forumite
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    Made me laugh this thread.

    Do you actually think she is barging in when he is taking himself in hand?

    :wall:
  • Mr.Generous
    Mr.Generous Posts: 3,373 Forumite
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    The only other possibility is when he's taking a dump, surely most females would avoid this due to the smell, sound, sight and the thought of it!
  • Tipsntreats
    Tipsntreats Posts: 8,612 Forumite
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    I am confused over priacy.
  • fairy_lights
    fairy_lights Posts: 9,220 Forumite
    You shouldn't spend so much time relaxing anyway or you'll get hairy palms
  • System
    System Posts: 178,093 Community Admin
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    The only privacy I get is in the loo. Mind you my Son knows to knock if the bedroom door is shut He would be traumatised for life if he saw me in varying states of undress.
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