A Money-Mastering Maternity

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  • crunch_time
    crunch_time Posts: 1,353 Forumite
    Aw T2rry, your posts sound like you are down.

    Do you know what you are going to do after maternity leave yet? Go back to work full time/ Part time?

    Do you know what your budget might look like? Just wondering as it might help you keep your chin up if you know what the future looks like - debt payment wise.

    Big hugs xx
    19/8/19 vs now Current Total debt £14,188 Savings £2757
    Overdraft £1600 vs £1050
    HSBC1 £1900 vs £3868
    HSBC2 £4100 vs £3730
    Virgin 1 £3050 vs £2800
    House stuff and improvements £4460 Virgin 2 £2740
  • sugarcube84
    sugarcube84 Posts: 542 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    How was your first mothers day? I'm right in thinking its your first isn't it? I hope you put your feet up and were spoilt rotten
    DFD September 2017
  • Jonesy88
    Jonesy88 Posts: 959 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    You're doing so well t2rry - I suspect if/when I go on mat leave then my debts will increase. Yours are still going the other way :)
    :rudolf: DF by Xmas 2018: #83 £8,250/£15,000 55% :rudolf:
    SPC 7: #135 :staradmin | MFW 9.72% | Groceries: £6.49/£80 | Exercise 0/20 | NSDs 0/15
  • t2rry
    t2rry Posts: 1,033 Forumite
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    Thanks sugarcube. My first Mother's Day was wonderful. I am so in love. With both my beautiful bouncing boy but also my husband. I have never been happier in life.

    Except for the debt!!!! How annoying it is! I'm glad they're going in the right direction, I just wish they were going quicker! I miss having two proper salaries to throw at it.

    I'm hoping to go back to work part time, crunchy. I need to put the official request in yet though. I have worked out how our budgets will look on all of the circumstances and we will have a better disposable income even after all the nursery fees. Fingers crossed they'll let me go back as I want to. I'm very lucky I guess, even with this debt, that I can go back part time. I see the argument here for going back full time at least until the debt is paid off but I don't feel that the extra is worth giving up all that time with my boy and living the life I am currently loving as much as possible.

    Keeping on with sales. £50 up and £67 to follow tomorrow. This is helping.

    Mot tax and insurance due this month. I have £200 aside for mot but hoping we can get away with a £30 basic mot job without any work being necessary. Then the extra can go to debt. We shall see
    Debt Free I FFEF I Building Savings I 2024 Plan:
    1. Slush/Tax Fund £2,050/£5,000
    2. Additional Pension Contributions £3,300/£5,000
    3. Regular Savings £2,720/£15,000


    #47 Save £20k in 2024 - £8,070/£20,000 (40%)
  • t2rry
    t2rry Posts: 1,033 Forumite
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    Doing okay with Swagbucks too. I'm turning it all into Amazon vouchers at the moment as they are 'cheaper' and I want to buy DS some swimmers so we can go as a family on a weekend. Need a couple more £5'ers!
    Debt Free I FFEF I Building Savings I 2024 Plan:
    1. Slush/Tax Fund £2,050/£5,000
    2. Additional Pension Contributions £3,300/£5,000
    3. Regular Savings £2,720/£15,000


    #47 Save £20k in 2024 - £8,070/£20,000 (40%)
  • t2rry
    t2rry Posts: 1,033 Forumite
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    I've been quiet. Which usually means I've been less obsessive than usual. Tick to things not improving for a while!

    Oh well, less than two weeks to payday
    Debt Free I FFEF I Building Savings I 2024 Plan:
    1. Slush/Tax Fund £2,050/£5,000
    2. Additional Pension Contributions £3,300/£5,000
    3. Regular Savings £2,720/£15,000


    #47 Save £20k in 2024 - £8,070/£20,000 (40%)
  • t2rry
    t2rry Posts: 1,033 Forumite
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    I'm starting to lose the will. This is much harder than I envisaged.

    This has today been topped off with the fact the car failed it's MOT and has cost us £300 over budget to get up to standard. Even though we've only had it a year. It must have crept through the MOT last year just before we got it.

    Part of me feels like giving up for now, but I know I can't else we'll be worse off when I go back to work rather than better off than we are today. But it is tough.
    Debt Free I FFEF I Building Savings I 2024 Plan:
    1. Slush/Tax Fund £2,050/£5,000
    2. Additional Pension Contributions £3,300/£5,000
    3. Regular Savings £2,720/£15,000


    #47 Save £20k in 2024 - £8,070/£20,000 (40%)
  • t2rry
    t2rry Posts: 1,033 Forumite
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    Re jigging has been required as a 0% came to an end. Another transfer then plus the fees to go with it to make sure it all stays on 0%. I had always hoped to have all 0%s paid off before they came to an end.

    I've felt really down about this all recently so I've been concentrating on enjoying time with DS rather than worrying about money, or lack thereof. But I can't afford to do this completely. Mot and car insurance jumping up have also caused issues but re jig of signature puts it back on the straight and narrow. I'm worse off than at the start of maternity and I am determined this will not be the case by the end of it. To top it all off I have been unwell so dh has had free reign of the food budget etc and hasn't stuck to anything whatsoever.

    One week to payday and kind of a new start. Again.

    We have cancelled sky tv so saving some pennies there. I have bulk cooked a freezer load of food for an £80 shop. This has reinforced the fact that planning food really does make it a lot cheaper. I will continue doing this and should be able to get our food spends down and back to within budget each month. DS will be weaning soon so when I can cut out his formula will help!
    Debt Free I FFEF I Building Savings I 2024 Plan:
    1. Slush/Tax Fund £2,050/£5,000
    2. Additional Pension Contributions £3,300/£5,000
    3. Regular Savings £2,720/£15,000


    #47 Save £20k in 2024 - £8,070/£20,000 (40%)
  • t2rry
    t2rry Posts: 1,033 Forumite
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    New target is to pay off the next 0% before it ends. Spare pennies will be slushed to it as it's going to be tough. But I'll be back to work by then so it should improve
    Debt Free I FFEF I Building Savings I 2024 Plan:
    1. Slush/Tax Fund £2,050/£5,000
    2. Additional Pension Contributions £3,300/£5,000
    3. Regular Savings £2,720/£15,000


    #47 Save £20k in 2024 - £8,070/£20,000 (40%)
  • t2rry
    t2rry Posts: 1,033 Forumite
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    All that said, I have expensive things to come. New car seat for DS required soon. They don't come cheap. At least we bought a base that will work with the next seat so we don't have to replace both.

    I can't decide whether to sell some of the things DS has outgrown. It would help with cash flow but might be short sighted as we will want to have another. That also said, I think finances will make a bigger difference as to when we come to decide to do that. We will need to be rid of a significant chunk of this debt before considering another, if not all of it.
    Debt Free I FFEF I Building Savings I 2024 Plan:
    1. Slush/Tax Fund £2,050/£5,000
    2. Additional Pension Contributions £3,300/£5,000
    3. Regular Savings £2,720/£15,000


    #47 Save £20k in 2024 - £8,070/£20,000 (40%)
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