What a mess:-(
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Hello all!
Sorry not kept you all up to date,,, I have a rotten cough and as always it's just not the best time to be poorly as we are soooo busy at work and I'm doing extra hours, ( that's good as extra money is 'doing' Xmas )
The panto went well, it was really good this year, I spoke to MIL after when kids were out the way, she told me she's devastated and it was suck a shock for her, she said she can't work it out as he still talks about me with affection!
I know she struggles with this sort of thing so I didn't push it, I just wanted her to know where I 'stand' and my ( and many others ) view on him being depressed - of course I was diplomatic !
After we went back to hers - my photos are still all over the house :T
Wedding photo still on wall :T
We then meet EX and FIL for a meal ( they'd been to laser eye appt- EX now has to wait til march now
Meal went well and really anyone would not know any different!
He moves into his flat tomorrow and I'm glad for him but I still in my heart wish things were not this way
But I can't live with the angry moaning and miserable side of him- but I still long for the happy loving side of him !:(
Still a mess:money: I will never be rich but I'm happy :rotfl:0 -
Thanks for the update! Glad things went well on Saturday and everyone enjoyed themselves.
It won't be easy but just take one day at a timeWealth is what you're left with when all your money runs out0 -
I want to wish you all a very merry Christmas ,
You all have been so very supportive and kind to me - ( someone very kind , you know who you area, and as you know I am truly grateful )
I'm sitting here on my own, both boys in bed and I've done the 'stockings'
Feel very alone - I know this time next year I will look back and laugh . But at the mo can't seem to even smile :-(:money: I will never be rich but I'm happy :rotfl:0 -
I've just read your thread-I don't know you, and you don't know me, but I wanted to reach out to you. They say the darkest hour is just before dawn.0
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Merry Christmas to you too. I know it will be a different Christmas this year, but I hope you and your boys have a lovely time. xx x x0
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I want to wish you all a very merry Christmas...I'm sitting here on my own, both boys in bed and I've done the 'stockings'
Feel very alone - I know this time next year I will look back and laugh . But at the mo can't seem to even smile :-(
Hope your Christmas goes ok, loveasale.
You have been really brave.
The next year is going to be exciting and things will improve - here's to 2013!
MsB0 -
Just read your story and it makes me feel sad however sending you best wishes.
You may feel lonely but you are not alone.0 -
Well that's it!
I've cooked for them and they have just left. Not sure how I feel , sad angry or even fuming !
I never have television on Xmas day , bu today it seems to be on 24/ 7 !
Oh how things have changed!:money: I will never be rich but I'm happy :rotfl:0 -
Yesterday was all round the inlaws,
My BIL was down and EX doesn't get on too well with him, he has caused his parents loads of problems over the years , so it was ok , BIL knows ex doesn't approve of him but Inlaws always forgive what ever he does to them!
I feel a bit strange and I think that it is because I know next year things will be a lot different .
At times I can't believe my marriage is over and that I will wake up from a bad dream!
I am working out a couple of goals to set for next year.
I will post them soon :rotfl::money: I will never be rich but I'm happy :rotfl:0 -
Sounds like you are being strong for everyone - dont forget to look after yourself xx0
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