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At our wits end...next doors dryer
Hi All, Not sure where to post this so placed it here. Our new neighbours tumble dryer is driving us insane (2 adults and a 3 year old). We're in an old victorian terrace with very thin walls. They have installed the dryer against the party wall where our bedroom sits and its on for 9-12 hours a day. Theres a constant low…
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Furlough
I Am a bus driver and most of my work colleagues have been furloughed, because of underlying health or young families to look after. around 80%. I have been chosen to remain at work to cover services. If I become ill and unable to work during this time my company has placed staff under furlough, do I then get placed on…
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Living in his car
Our friend (in his 60's) has given his married daughter close to 100K to help pay her debts. She and her husband (the kids have been taken into care) are now intentionally homeless. They have parked their caravan, uninvited, in his front garden. He will not allow them access to power or water. They defecate in his garden.…
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Inheritance/IHT/£/kids
Situation…...,
thoughts please Age 70, 3 sons all
40 odd. All left to them divided by 3. Father recently died £600k to
me. My house £150k, left to my 3, so total £750k. I am in ‘good’
health and have looked at lovely houses to buy outright, but my
mobility/legs is a problem. I have all I need here/nearby in this
house as I…
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Passing on Property
I have a small house that I bought to supplement my pension. Unfortunately my son lives in the house and is on long term sick leave. He cannot claim benefit as it is a family home. He cannot get a council flat as he has accommodation. I would like to sell the house to help with my living costs but he would then be…
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Possible Internet Dating Scams?
Firstly, I am not a dad but this seemed to be the only forum that comes near to what I want to message about. I am single and have tried a new dating site recently called GingerLove.co.uk The women aren't all ginger on it (which is a shame as I LOVE gingers, lol!) but two women I have started talking to on the site, they…
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Moved: Paying for childcare during shut down?
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Moved: Helping single son to pay his bills possibly long term
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CHILD MAINTENANCE
Hello all. I pay my ex £330 per month child maintenance. I take home £1638 a month after tax yet she still has this perception that's it's not enough. That I should still pay for uniforms etc on top of that. To me the £330 is for uniforms and stuff like that. What are your thoughts?
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Wills and Trusts
Hi. I am new here. Can my 2 Children be the beneficiary to my estate in the event of my death? I am thinking of writing a Will leaving everything to my 2 Children (Twins). If i die before they are 18 years old, the money goes into Trust. If i die after they are 18 years old, the money is split 50/50. Is this a feasible…
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Boots No7 for Men
Boots are doing an online deal at moment 3 for 2 on anti age No7 for men. If you spend over £50 you get £15 discount aswell. For example No7 Men serum is £26 each. So order 3 and its £52 but you then get another £15 off making it £37 for 3 so they are now about £12.50 each. You can do this as many times as you like but…
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Single Dad with new Partner, Need advice about mortgage etc.
Morning Folks, I'll try to keep this short and simple and giving you all the important details. So I have a son (6 years old) with my ex, and just over 3 years ago I got myself a one bed flat, suitable for all my needs bought it for 85k and so far I've paid off 14 k plus the 13 k deposit. Outsanding mortgage is now roughly…
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Should I send a demand letter from the solicitor?
Hi folks, Just looking for some advice here, so me and my Ex split over 5 years ago, we have a little boy (6 years old, soon to be 7). When we split my son was only one and a half, she moved 50 miles away and didn't drive. Due to the distance , we had agreed that I would take my son every second weekend for two nights and…
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Advice Needed
I am an EU citizen for 22 years in the UK (late 40s). Married since 2011, dad to a 6-year-old boy. Not having a great relationship with the wife, we are holding it together it seems, at least I'm keeping the appearances up for my son. We bought our house against my best advice last December 2018. I am self-employed, but…
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30hrs adjustable income
Morning all. Does anyone know if payments to a lifetime ISA count as deductions from income for the 30 hrs childcare?
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Customs Marriage Relief for Transfer of Residence to the UK
Hi, Trying to help my son and daughter-in-law. My daughter-in-law is Russian (currently lives in Russia) and they were married last October. My son is a UK citizen. The visa has not yet been applied for as there is a massive amount of preparation needed for that. Probably going to be some time in February. We have an…
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rough patch - mental health
Just sounding off really.. Anyone in the same position? Husband to a wife with anxiety thats getting worse. Father to two children (7, 9), the eldest of which is getting really bad anxiety and is starting to hit himself and is really negative. The issue is my wife and I now see things very differently. I dont hear her…
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Separation stalemate
Good morning all. And this is 1st ever post here. My wife of 20 yrs and I separated around 10 months ago, as I could no longer live with emotional abuse. We have an 18yr old lass who is in her 1st year at Uni. My wife continues to live-in the marital home, for which I am continuing to pay almost all bills plus mortgage…
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I just split with ex and have a child, where's the best way to find someone new?
i split with ex and we have a child. Any dating tips and where to go to meet someone new?
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Help Please
I will try and include as much detail as is needed but i am at a brick wall! Me and my ex have 4 young children youngest being 3, we have separated for 6 months but have both still been living in OUR house! I keep being told to leave for the kids sake as us living under the same roof is not ideal at all and I for one cant…