Any tips for a hospital stay?

[Savvy_Sue]

Well it's now March, so allegedly some time this month I will get a phone call offering me a date for my brain surgery (no I'm not joking, but it's minor in the grand scheme of things!)

Since this will be my longest hospital stay EVER - 5 days minimum - and the last was a long time ago, what tips can you all offer me? Moneysaving and other!

Someone elsewhere suggested slipper socks to keep feet warm, but I've got new slippers as well because I don't trust toilet floors anywhere (well would you if you lived in a house full of chaps?)

I also have new button up pyjamas in case there are tubes coming out of my head, and a silk dressing gown for lightness and warmth. Little pots of moisturiser and handcream are on hand, along with 'nice' lipsalves etc. What else should I shop for while I still can? ;) (It's excellent displacement therapy!)

[shrek101]

Can't give you any advise unfortunately as I have only been in hospital for an op fortunately. But I wish you best of luck and speedy recovery. :)

[suki1964]

Sorry to hear you have to go in, wishing you a speedy recovery.

Just a few ideas that have helped me through stays in hospital

Ear plugs - wards can be extremely noisy at night and not getting enough sleep can make you feel worse then the op did

Cheap personal stereo or radio - hospital radio is a hit and miss affair

I found short stories to be better then the blockbuster as there is often so much going on around you, concentration goes to pot.

[Glad]

Tissues
baby wet-wipes [ideal for freshen-up when you stuck in bed, and to wipe around toilets and sinks before using]
squash
bottled water
biscuits [tea is often served at 5pm so need a snack later, don't take any food that may go off as hosp wards are very warm]
magazines
notepad and pen [for jotting down things you think of you want to ask on next ward round]
carrier bags for dirty washing [especially if the odd drop of blood etc on your clothes, this helps keep them seperate from other items in locker]
loose change [for telephone, sweet/paper trolley]

[Sofa_Sogood]

I'd take an old pair of PJ's in too Savvy_Sue, that iodine stuff seems to get everywhere. And make sure the socks are the slipper socks - I got told off a couple of times for not wearing the non-slip type on the slippery floors. I'd have a spare pair of the anti-DVT socks too - they were in short supply for some reason.

I also found the Oil of Olay face wipes, or Dove (the ones you have to moisten first) a great help too. Not very money saving this is it? ;) Maybe someone else can suggest a good cheap substitute?

Not sure what your situation is, but my friend collected 'housework credits' before she had major surgery. Before she went in she did shopping for various friends, and ironing (she must have been mad lol) for another friend, and various jobs for others. They in turn returned the 'favours' when she was out of hospital but not able to do a lot.

Don't forget change for the phone (if necessary) for when you're able to use it, and I'd make a rota out for who can visit and when. Those visitors either drained me or turned up when the anaesthetic was having one of it's unladylike after effects. Very embarrassing for me :o not sure if it's applicable in your case though.

Can't think of anything else just yet, except to say don't worry and good luck! :)

[Sofa_Sogood]

Sorry glad, I must have been typing as you were posting.

Your list's far better :D

[frizz_head]

I was in last week for an Op - but only as a day case, and it was bliss! A whole day in bed, feet up, watching TV and drinking tea. Well, makes a change from school runs, work, after school activities, shopping, washing, cleaning, cooking!! You get my drift.

If you're looking for reading material - after just one day I was sick to death of Magazines, I can really recommend Harry Potter. For years people kept on telling me how great they were, but I just couldn't see how a 'kids' book could be so good. Well I gave in to pressure, and was not disappointed - they are brilliant. Pure escapism.

You will, I imagine, be given surgical socks to wear. I was given them even though I was only in bed for a day.

Good luck Savvy - hope all goes well.

[queensway_boy]

Just want to wish you a


SPEEDY RECOVERY

[elona]

Good luck with your hospital stay.

The food is normally horrible so something like bags of mini ryvita,Seasons etc and boiled sweets can be a lifesaver.

A home made spray of water and essential oil can freshen the atmosphere and essential oil of lemon or orange is supposed to kill germs better than antiseptics. :):):)

[elona]

At the risk of offending any hospital staff - who are lovely- the system in some areas can be such that if you imagined you were being sent to prison and then what you would give anything to have smuggled in- would give you the tips you need:)

Prepare for the worst in terms of conditions and you may be pleasantly surprised :)

[Sarahsaver]

a mist spray to cool yourself down cos it gets hot in hospital
sweeteners if you use those
slippers definitely, and flipflops to wear in the shower.
a tub of value baby wipes to use for cleaning yourself, toilet seats etc bcos of the wonderful array of bacteria etc in our hospitals.
Don't forget your moisturiser, cleanser, hair conditioner etc. These little things make all the difference. And I made good friends with some lovely old ladies who hadnt been 'fussed over' for ages - a little bit of moisturiser cheered them up no end!
Radio tomes or something like that because the radio is the most interesting, and around here you have to pay to watch telly in hospital.
I wish you all the best, I spent a month in hospital after my stroke. I never really got used to the mealtimes - lunch at 11.30 /12 and tea just around 5 - way too early. Choose things (if you get a menu choice) which you may be able to save for later! such as fruit juice, fruit, biscuits, sandwiches.
If the menu looks particularly dodgy then go for the hindu vegetarian option if you are offered one - at least you get much healthier food and its not SO mass produced!

[Nile]

Hello Savvy_Sue

Buy a selection of puzzle/crossword books on sale in most supermarkets or newsagents. Take some pencils (with the type with an eraser on the end), pens and a notepad. If you have an Asda supermarket nearby, they sell all these items at very low prices. Treat yourself to a copy of the autobiography of your favourite film star or musician.

We'll all be thinking of you.

[Glad]

Sorry glad, I must have been typing as you were posting.

Your list's far better :D

That's ok

I was trying to think of things that patients say "oh I wish I'd brought that in"
I mentioned bottled water because hosp water is given out in a plastic jug and although I know on my ward they are cleaned scrupulously, I would rather it from a bottle,
and I know from experience that food in lockers goes off very quickly, having cleaned out lockers after patients have been discharged and found week old lamb sandwiches in the bottom :eek:

[Sofa_Sogood]

Thanks glad :)

I've just thought of something that might help, but I don't know if there's a way around it. It's just that I've found that when I have been able to sleep in hospital, the staff wake you up to give you your sleeping tablets if needed!

Without getting off to a bad start Savvy_Sue, I'm wondering if there's a way around this? I know it's just one of those things that can't always be helped, but maybe worth remembering?

Agree about the water too glad, do hospitals still let you leave certain things in their fridges, like milk and do they still provide ice cubes? The water's always warm isn't it? Not that I've asked for these things by the way, just that cold milk or water's quite nice :D

I suppose taking a flask in might help but it'd be a bit like trying to pack the kitchen sink ;)

And if you're expecting flowers Sue, drop a hint and say you like the ones that come in their own water. Must be a nurses pet hate having to a) find a vase and b) arrange the flowers. I've never asked for that either btw :D

[johannamse]

Dont forget a towel. I did (silly me).

[Glad]

Thanks glad :)

I've just thought of something that might help, but I don't know if there's a way around it. It's just that I've found that when I have been able to sleep in hospital, the staff wake you up to give you your sleeping tablets if needed!

Without getting off to a bad start Savvy_Sue, I'm wondering if there's a way around this? I know it's just one of those things that can't always be helped, but maybe worth remembering?

Agree about the water too glad, do hospitals still let you leave certain things in their fridges, like milk and do they still provide ice cubes? The water's always warm isn't it? Not that I've asked for these things by the way, just that cold milk or water's quite nice

I suppose taking a flask in might help but it'd be a bit like trying to pack the kitchen sink ;)

And if you're expecting flowers Sue, drop a hint and say you like the ones that come in their own water. Must be a nurses pet hate having to a) find a vase and b) arrange the flowers. I've never asked for that either btw :D

well I happen to work on a ward where the old rules still apply and we try to be all round good nurses, I work nights and I don't wake people just to give them sleeping tabs, but it is a bit of a standing joke :D the reasoning is that even if woken the sleeping tab will then enable you to then sleep through the night, but I try to use my common sense
and I always go round and put their flowers in vases, I love arranging them.

we do have an ice machine and fill up jugs with iced water at beginning and end of shift, most wards are now stopping patients using hosp fridges due to the high rise in hosp acquired infections, even with sealed foodstuffs germs can still be carried on the packaging, a cool bag may be useful to put drinks etc in.

[Curry Queen]

And if you're expecting flowers Sue, drop a hint and say you like the ones that come in their own water. Must be a nurses pet hate having to a) find a vase and b) arrange the flowers. I've never asked for that either btw :D

Some wards don't allow cut flowers, only planted ones, so it's well worth checking with the ward sister first so friends/relatives don't waste their money.

Most things I'd suggest have already been mentioned above, apart from an electric fan, as it can get unbearably hot on the wards and fans are always in short supply. The only problem there is that it would need to be checked by a hospital electrician before you can use it though but if you can arrange that in advance most hospitals don't mind you taking one in.

Can't think of anything else at the moment apart to wish you a speedy recovery and hope all goes well *hugs* :)

[s@sha]

I was in for a few days last year for a gallbladder removal, then unexpectedly the week before Christmas 2004 so was literally brought in with nothing but what I was wearing.

Definitely, definitely get the ear plugs. I was by the door & could hear the nurses talking all night at their station, or walking up & down, plus all the other normal hospital sounds. And I couldn't even have anything to help me sleep because I'd just had IVF & didn't know at the time whether I was pregnant. If I could just take one thing, it'd be ear plugs!

Your watch. Such a small thing, but easily forgotten & very much missed if there's no clock in the ward.

If you get to choose from a menu for meals, make sure you opt for starters, main course AND dessert, even if you'd never normally have all 3. The main meals in my hospital were tiny & I'd just about last until the next meal-time if I had all 3...(I know, I'm greedy!). Or keep a supply of snacks, as someone else said.

Can't think of anything else at the mo, other than the usual little comforts already mentioned, like moisturiser, lipsalve etc & whatever reading materials you like...it can get so boring in hospital once you're feeling better, but not quite ready to be discharged.

[homealone]

you have some great tips there already. i have spent about 3 months in total in the last year in hospital so all things listed above will be needed. my lifesaver was a mini tv i dont know if you are able to borrow one. i was lucky enough to be bought one with a dvd but it was my 40th. it was invaluable as if a tv is around you can guarantee that it will either be costly or too far away on a sports channel. a notepad pen was also helpful as a means of listing things i needed to ask hubby to bring in following day as i always forgot when i saw him. a pack of disposable knickers were handy and also some panty liners. hummmmm think that is most of it. basically try and rest as and when you can as night time can be a nightmare in wards. above all take care and heres to a speedy recovery

[Sofa_Sogood]

Don't forget to remove your nail varnish before you go in Savvy_Sue, it's a waste having to take it all off. And same for make-up, unless it makes you feel better beforehand (and with all the face-wipe suggestions you'll soon whip it off) :D

Thanks glad, I'd forgotten the water was chilled :)

Didn't realise about the cut flowers Curry_Queen, but not sure I'd make that mistake, I don't believe in cutting flowers. Handy to know though :)

Maybe the battery fans might be better visiting presents?

When do you go in Sue?

[Savvy_Sue]

Thank you so much for all these tips, it's given me the perfect excuse to go and look for the perfect pink holdall, I'm going to need something to put all this lot in! :D I've been admiring bright pink suitcases, but something that will squash down is probably more practical and less embarrassing for the boys ...

I started wondering about the ear plugs while I waited for bus this morning: just hope I'll be OK to use them in both ears because there'll be a hole behind one of them! I'll start a little list, I know I won't need to buy it all because I've already been describing my hunt for the perfect pink slippers at work, to great amusement, and I'm sure they'll want to treat me before I disappear for 6 weeks!

Fortunately there'll be no waste of nail varnish because I never wear it, and very rarely any make up at all, so no worries there.

Don't have a date yet, but they said it should happen before the end of March, and they will phone me so I don't have to panic about whether a letter's gone astray, and I should get a couple of weeks' notice. It's now the start of March, and I've been down for short notice without hearing anything, so tomorrow (ie now I've re-found the letter telling me I'm awake etc!) I'll phone and check they've got my mobile phone no.

I remember the size of the meals from when I had my first son in hospital! How I was expected to survive on them, never mind feed a baby, I do not know!!! Subsequent stays have been much shorter, basically until I can keep a slice of toast down, so nothing recent to compare them with.

So little housework happens around here that the chances of me banking up credits elsewhere is vanishingly small, but fortunately I have lovely support from church friends who will offer to do whatever's needed while I'm in hospital, home convalescing and then 'off the road'. Also fortunately the boys are all big enough (and ugly enough? - nah, they're gorgeous!) to take care of themselves: they can all cook fish fingers and chips, and the older two can also do roast dinners and a rather good bacon pasta. Their father does a mean spag bog. Eldest boy knows how to use the washing machine and tumble drier, and how to get to the nearest Sainsbury's if the food runs out, and which day the bin men come! All are required to wash up if they want to eat, so they know it doesn't disappear by magic.

So, really all I need to do before leaving is get them each one of those teddy bears onto which you can record a suitable message: "Mummy loves you: please do the washing." "Mummy loves you: please change your clothes." "Mummy loves you: please turn your music down." And for my DH perhaps "I miss you like crazy: no-one snores like you ..." :D

[ravenlooney]

the first things that some to mind to remember to pack are anti bacterial wipes for toliets and sinks before you use them, food cos I find hospital food totally unpallatable, phone cards or lots of change for the phone and erm ... when you get there, please remember to ask for laxitives if you're going to be on morphine based painkillers as you REALLY will need them :-))

Good luck!!

[Westywoodpecker]

I would recommend that you take a small hand mirror, mouth wash, and some hand wash for the use of yourself as well as any visitors (along with all the rest of the fabulous tips!! ). Hope you get it over with soon. Best wishes Jackie

[Savvy_Sue]

Continuing to think about my list I'd wondered about mouthwash etc because I may not want to move my head too much and the vibrations from my sonic toothbrush might get interesting, so thanks for that latest. I don't go ANYWHERE without a little hand mirror and a pair of nail clippers and an emery board and tweezers.

And thanks to the person who suggested DVT socks: they would NEVER have crossed my mind and I think I'd prefer my own to hospital issue, TYVM! Wasn't offered them last time I was in, which was just a day job, presumably I just pick up a pair from Boots or somewhere selling travel accessories?

What that also made me think of was a lockable travel pouch I can attach to the bed railings and keep under my pillow ... I think I've seen what I'm thinking of, will take a look. I know not to take much cash in, but I also know that you don't get any choice about your fellow patients and sometimes things 'disappear' when you go to the loo!

Hopefully when it's all over I will be back to let you all know what proved most useful: but for now keep the ideas coming!

Further thought about the notebook and pen suggests that a duplicate book would be most useful, if a little pricey, so that not only can I give my DH a list of what to bring next time he comes and domestic instructions, but also retain a list of what I have said so that I don't ask him 3 times for clean undies (which annoys him for some reason) and both forget and forget I've forgotten to ask for more chocolate (as if!) Ooh! I've just found an old one in my desk drawer, someone gave it to us in case it was useful and it hasn't been so that's solved!

[Savvy_Sue]

One thing I have managed to think of before previous hospital stays so hopefully will again, is to cut the caffeine BEFORE going in, so that the thundering caffeine withdrawal headache happens while I still feel human, vaguely, maybe ...

Sometimes I think you get this tip with your patient info leaflet, but I share it for the benefit of others who may not be aware of this!

[Jay-Jay]

Somebody mentioned a battery run handheld fan. Fab idea! I got my Nan one when she was in hosp recently as she was always so hot.

A travel clock with the date on is handy for your bedside table, as the days tend to merge when you're in for a long time.

A box of nice tissues instead of the scratchy NHS ones.

Your own glass to drink out of (probably best with a plastic one)

A picture of your family in a frame

Prayer sheets/holy water/rosary beads etc... (obviously only if applicable)

Salt and pepper for your meals (maybe sachets of vinegar, mayo and ketchup etc)

Cartons of cranberry juice to liven up water and keep your waterworks healthy.

Hair bands (if you need them)

That's all I can think of for now, good luck with your op x x x

[1jim]

take lots of change in for phone etc, some hospitals use patient line tv and phone system which is about £3.50 a day to watch tv, you also buy p[hone cards as well so can add up. leave credit cards at home as they are safer there
change also useful for magazines/papers/snacks etc

good luck

jim

[Sofa_Sogood]

:D

I thinks that's you just about sorted Savvy_Sue.

Might be an idea to take a Thank You card in or similar? I was shipped out early last time and felt a bit mean not leaving anything for the lovely staff :)

Now pop back when you're going on holiday won't you? You'll need a lorry! :D

Good luck and best wishes.

[Savvy_Sue]

:D

I thinks that's you just about sorted Savvy_Sue. Well I certainly have enough 'shopping as displacement activity' to stop me worrying for the rest of the month! Which is very helpful, honestly! The pyjama hunt was very therapeutic!

Might be an idea to take a Thank You card in or similar? I was shipped out early last time and felt a bit mean not leaving anything for the lovely staff :)Excellent suggestion! Glad, do I start a new thread for 'pressies that would be appreciated by underpaid nurses' or would you like to pop a few ideas in here?

Now pop back when you're going on holiday won't you? You'll need a lorry! :DI think you're right about the lorry ... :D

Yes I will let you all know when I'm off and be back as soon as I can! Who knows, it may even be April before the summons arrives ...

[1jim]

for thank you prezzie get fruit, the nurses are usually sick of chocolates (itdoes not stop them eating them however) but when ive worked on the wards can remeber getting a big box of mixed fruit and really thinking that the patient must have made an effort etc (get a friend to do the shopping for you for this)

good luck
jim

[Savvy_Sue]

Have started the shopping, taking advantage of the triple points in Boots! Some things I have added to my list of desirables, but probably only if someone else gets them for me, are Oral-B Brush Aways, which are 25p each if you buy a pack of 12. They seem to be like a little finger puppet with a waterproof inner and a slightly textured outer and you wipe round your teeth with them if you can't clean your teeth. Since I might not want to move my head too much they look quite sensible but I'll find out first how much I'm likely to want to move my head. :D And maybe disposable eye masks. Not sure how much of a prat I'll want to look, but they could be useful as a 'Do not disturb' sign. The hanging toilet bag in bright stripes with pink trim at £13 is definitely on the wish list!

And I found some feminine wipes which are supposed not to upset my rude bits. And spotted that 'Cool spray' on sale: I got one as a freebie last year so that's going in with me!

Fruit bowl for pressie for nurses, OK, will remember that, also thought I might look out for little stationery bits and bobs, EVERYONE needs a half-decent biro, don't they!?

Oh, and I rang the hospital today because I suspected they didn't have my mobile phone no. And they didn't. So I also asked about timescale, and was told that the government says I MUST be given a date by the end of March, but it's all a bit chaotic because there's no money, they've got no ambulances, and they're very short of male beds. :confused: I said I thought I was on a winner then, because I shouldn't need an ambulance to get there, and I definitely don't need a male bed! :D

[Savvy_Sue]

Cheap personal stereo or radio - hospital radio is a hit and miss affair
:eek: You mean I might not be able to get Radio 4? :eek: Sorry, I know you posted that ages ago but it's only just dawned on me what it means!

the shopping continues: I found pink slipper socks in Just Beauty yesterday, £1 for 2 pairs! And some pink and purple water shoes in the same shop as I got my pink slippers from - I know it will be more difficult to wash my feet in them than it would be in flip flops, but I really don't get on well with flip flops so I think my feet will just have to smell :D ... or I'll use baby wipes on them.

[suki1964]

:eek: You mean I might not be able to get Radio 4? :eek: Sorry, I know you posted that ages ago but it's only just dawned on me what it means!

the shopping continues: I found pink slipper socks in Just Beauty yesterday, £1 for 2 pairs! And some pink and purple water shoes in the same shop as I got my pink slippers from - I know it will be more difficult to wash my feet in them than it would be in flip flops, but I really don't get on well with flip flops so I think my feet will just have to smell :D ... or I'll use baby wipes on them.

Not only may you not get Radio 4, you may not even get a pair of working headphones:(

Water shoes sound safer for the shower then flip flops, I always find I slip out of flip flops sideways when they are wet

[MimiJane]

Having spent quite a bit of time in hospital over the last few years, I've always found I've taken far too much with me and they provide the vast majority of things you'll need. Having said that though, each hospital is different and there's nothing like pampering yourself with a little of your own stuff when you're recovering:)

Perhaps obvious, but best not to take anything valuable or of sentimental value with you ... I know you can hand stuff in to the staff, but things can easily go "astray" (best to be safe:rolleyes:). Also, in the past, I've been moved to different beds/wards after operations and been fretting about my bags, which have been left in the ward I started off in. No-one seems to bother and it can be very frustrating, especially if you're having difficulty speaking after anesthetic and the staff can't understand you:( Always best to have a friend/relative on hand to assist after the op. if possible.

Very best of luck and let us know how you get on.

x

[Savvy_Sue]

Having spent quite a bit of time in hospital over the last few years, I've always found I've taken far too much with me and they provide the vast majority of things you'll need. Having said that though, each hospital is different and there's nothing like pampering yourself with a little of your own stuff when you're recovering:)

Perhaps obvious, but best not to take anything valuable or of sentimental value with you ... I know you can hand stuff in to the staff, but things can easily go "astray" (best to be safe:rolleyes:). Also, in the past, I've been moved to different beds/wards after operations and been fretting about my bags, which have been left in the ward I started off in. No-one seems to bother and it can be very frustrating, especially if you're having difficulty speaking after anesthetic and the staff can't understand you:( Always best to have a friend/relative on hand to assist after the op. if possible.
Thank you MimiJane, no problem with you stating the obvious!

I have a cunning plan: it is to pack what I need for the first day, and then to pack a week's worth of further bags with clean undies, towels, pjs etc. Then all my DH has to do is remember to bring in a new bag each day. I can go through it and send home what I now find I don't need with instructions for what to do with what I'm sending home. (That's where the duplicate book comes in useful. :D) We agree he will find this easier and less stressful than me asking him 16 times to bring a clean bra, and then berating him for failing to bring socks for which I didn't ask. Also I won't be able to complain it's the 'wrong' bra if I packed it myself.

I am fortunate in being able to plan ahead for this, of course, but just as when I was expecting my babies I don't know quite how long I've got! And of course I am very fortunate to have a DH who will ferry me to the hospital and stay and hold my hand as long as he's allowed. Whether my sons will come and visit is another matter: youngest is claiming to be squeamish ...

And suki and the water shoes: I think I'd fall out of flip flops too, had been looking for something designed for the wet but had only seen them in boring colours (not pink!) and expensive, so the proper water shoes were irresistable! Only problem is that of course they will stay wet for longer after the shower, must try them in the morning ... And I will HAVE to have my own radio: can always send it home if the hospital one works, but to be without it - oh it doesn't bear thinking about!

[Luis]

Being a frequent flyer in hospitals (wish we got reward points) here are my tips, for what they may be worth to you:

A nightie - not pjs - especially if what you are going in for is Gynae related - much less embarrassing to pull the nightie up (or have a catheter in) than with pjs - trust me!

Magazines - lots of them. If you have had a general anaesthetic, it stays in your system for 6 weeks, leading to lots of lovely dozing off. Not so great if you are involved in a deep plot - not a problem if you are browsing through articles.

A dressing gown. Essential for when they put you in those glamorous backless hospital nighties for the op.

Squash - to put in the water.

Lots of change for the hideously expensive payphones - remember you can't use your moby in hosptal.

A decent sized wash bag with toiletries and flannel or sponge. Hospitals don't supply these.

Any essential little feminine supplies you may need such as pads, liners etc.

Slippers.

That's about it really - plenty of changes of undies / nighties as hospitals are hot which make you unpleasantly clammy, so nice to have a wash and change.

Good luck,

Luis.

[Savvy_Sue]

Being a frequent flyer in hospitals (wish we got reward points) :rotfl:

Thank you. Excellent tip about nighties for anything gynae, but this time it's my head which needs attention so I am hoping to avoid catheters etc ...

I collated everyone's suggestions the other day and was able to tick off all the essentials so I feel reasonable prepared. Thank you everyone. I know when I have a date they will buy me a book of puzzles from work because we sit and do an easy crossword most lunchtimes - it is no longer 'lunchtime' but 'puzzletime'. Mind you how I will cope with the more obscure clues without Google I do not know: did anyone else know there was a southern constellation called Sculptor? :confused:

[Quackers]

Nothing to add to everyones fab suggestions but just wanted to wish you well. :)

oh, what about a laptop so you can let us all know how your doing :D

[Savvy_Sue]

oh, what about a laptop so you can let us all know how your doing :DThank you for your good wishes, I don't think my dh will trust me with his laptop, which is a shame as it also plays DVDs ... but he might have to register and post a few updates!

[oubykh]

with regard to the radio/headphones comments - use your own dont use the hospital ones unless you see the're new.

As a nurse, i must admit that changing the headphones in the brief moments that a bed is emptied and being readied for the next patient i might forget to check the 'phones!!

[Bun]

Hope the op goes well and you have a pleasant stay (you know what I mean!)Can't really add much to what everybody else has written except I would definitely use the earplugs and the eye mask. Not only can the lights at night be a pain, but if you are in a hospital with those little portable tv screens they are on all night too and drive you crazy with bright flashing ads. I covered mine with a towel but the others on the ward were another matter entirely!
Best of luck!

[Savvy_Sue]

Thank you for the last two tips. The 'clean headphones' one is especially important because I think there's going to be a hole behind my ear :eek: and a luvverly programme on Radio 4 this morning about MRSA and how much it likes any holes in your skin. :eek::eek: I'm pretty good at sleeping with lights on, but probably not so good with flickering screens ...

TBH I don't know if I'll be able to use phones in that ear, but as that's the deaf ear it's not much loss ...

But still waiting for the phone call - could start one of those ticker things all the pregnant ladies used to have in their sigs, only 9 days left to the end of the month by which time they are supposed to have phoned to offer me a date, or I think they have Tony on their case. :rolleyes:

As soon as they phone I need to get my hair cut, and maybe see the chiropodist, that's a nice treat to have my toenails properly cut rather than the savaging I usually give them. Wondering about a bra buying trip but don't know if I'll be dressing while I'm in hospital or staying in my pjs. Any excuse for activities to take my mind off going in ... :D

And to all of you, for all your tips and advice and suggestions: :A

[nearlyrich]

Wondering about a bra buying trip

Have a look at Figleaves, they have a sale on and their service is great.
I don't think I will ever buy a bra in a store again.
There are some codes on the grabbitt board too...

[Luis]

Any news on a date yet?

Thinking of you :o

[Sofa_Sogood]

Savvy-Sue?

One last thing I thought of.

I know things are rushed through (and for good reasons) but acclamatise yourself as much as you can when you first arrive in hospital.

You'd be surprised how many patients think the locker in the next person's bed is their usual en-suite loo :D (I say that as a patient who can't sleep - honest! ;))

Good luck and best wishes xxx :)

[Savvy_Sue]

You'd be surprised how many patients think the locker in the next person's bed is their usual en-suite loo :D (I say that as a patient who can't sleep - honest! ;)):rotfl:I shall keep my eyes open for that! But a good tip: I tend to lose my bearings quite easily: have to think really hard about how to get OUT of hospitals after my outpatient appointments.

No, no date yet, thanks for all your kind thoughts. I plan to phone them around lunchtime Thursday: that way I have a better chance of talking to the secretary I know slightly who is extremely helpful! And it IS the end of March now ...

I'm just glad I'm not 'suffering': pretty disoriented sometimes but not in pain. Just want to get in and out of hospital before my eldest takes his A2s: he won't miss me, but I will worry ...

And thanks for the Figleaves tip, nearlyrich, I am still trying to decide which is more hasslesome: a personal fitting if I can find a non-snooty assistant in Debenhams or HoF, or lots of trial and error with Figleaves. I have very clear ideas about what I like in a bra: lots of cotton, no scratchy lace, no underwires, and seam free cups = comfort. Is that so hard? Yes it is.

[Sofa_Sogood]

Here we go again :D

FigLeaves are brilliant (especially when the stuff's free ;)) BUT, either I'm as big as a house end (could be lol) or their sizes are ALL American :rolleyes: lol

Either way I don't think you'll be thinking of a pretty (minute) bra. Maybe a bar but not a bra :D

Anyway, get on that phone ..... they've only got a day left to sort it!

(And MSE has a day left to put up with it all ;))

Take care (and look out for those loos :D ) It might be your fellow patient using your locker as an en-suite :eek:

:)

[Savvy_Sue]

I phoned them this afternoon, and instead of phoning me, the secretary had decided to write to me because it's not 'soon soon'. :confused: It's to go in 11 April, have the op on 12 April. Assessment clinic on 5 April. That seems pretty soon to me, but what would I know, I'm only the patient. Plus, even though she's posted it first class, I won't get it until I'm home from work tomorrow, which is Friday, so work would then get a week's notice. Not that anyone much is in work tomorrow anyway, but there we go.

I think it's just bras left on my shopping list: looked on the figleaves site and they don't have my size left in the sale. :o Couldn't find a lot which met my criteria out of sale either. So it's either Debenhams here I come or live with what I've got. Hmm, what a choice!

I guess the other important task is to nag my eldest into finishing his computing coursework, due in the same day as I go into hospital! He takes his driving test the day of the op, good job he doesn't 'do' worrying ...

Oh, and I need to stop eating too, good job all my Easter eggs have gone. Either that or worry a couple of pounds off, which shouldn't be that hard! It would be soooo nice not to be obese when they weigh me and I'm really not far off plain overweight, honest!

[Luis]

HUGE GREAT BIG LUMPS OF GOOD LUCK FOR THE 12TH APRIL XXX

Have fun with the bra buying too - if you go to Google and type in 'bra uk' there are loads of websites. But if like me you prefer to try them on first (wouldn't it be nice if they all meant the same thing with their sizing?), then you can't beat good old Marks and Sparks. They are pretty consistent with their sizes, so I do occasionally buy online from them, and they do free delivery on orders over £30. Plus we have an outlet fot far from us and you can buy the bras a lot cheaper.

[Savvy_Sue]

Thanks for your good wishes. Like you I'd rather 'try before I buy' with anything, but especially bras. But I have discovered that Debenhams do Figleaves, so I suppose if I went into Debenhams and found something I liked I could order online with codes. However, excellent tip about M&S, have looked at their site and they seemed to have a good range of the kind of bras I like and at good prices too. Gave up on their undies a long time ago when it was 3 times the price of anyone else! And you know they won't quibble about returns either. No outlet store near enough unfortunately, don't think there's time for a day out to Street!

Adds to list of things to do: get a postal vote ... and a haircut, not necessarily in that order! ;)

[aliasojo]

Don't know where I've been lately but it obviously wasn't on this board! Just come across this thread now.

Can't add anything to the tips, everything seems to be pretty much covered. Just wanted to send you good thoughts and best wishes for a speedy recovery.

(Although, if it were me........I'm not sure I would make it too speedy? I'm sure I could get a bit of milking in somewhere. ;) :D )

Take care. x

[Savvy_Sue]

(Although, if it were me........I'm not sure I would make it too speedy? I'm sure I could get a bit of milking in somewhere. ;) :D )Oh don't worry, I'm milking it for all I'm worth already! I've got 6 more work days left, with hospital appointments on two of them, so I'm going to be home late a few days I suspect. And the boys are just loafing around on school holidays. I have already warned them that unreasonable requests may be made next week, along the lines of vacuuming, cleaning etc, because I may get a few visitors once I'm home. And these unreasonable requests will definitely be IN ADDITION to the quite unreasonable request that I should come home to a washing up free zone! Youngest reckons he doesn't know how to cook, and it's about time he did. Eldest will be responsible for the laundry (although I must remember he's taking his final batch of A2 exams in May/June ...) Will find something good for the middle son too. That leaves DH to run round after me, meeting my every whim ... ;)

Well a girl can dream, can't she?

[Savvy_Sue]

The M&S website was very misleading: when I got to the store they had precisely ONE bra in my size meeting my specifications. And I didn't like it much so I didn't buy it. Didn't bother ringing the bell for assistance either because I could see that their range of 'my kind of bra' was practically zilch, and only a little wider in 'my kind of size but the wrong fabric'.

So I went to John Lewis who were very near closing time and their range was not a lot better. Then I went to Evans and even that was depressing: it seems if you're more than a size 16 you're expected to have a chest like the girls on Baywatch, which I don't.

I gave up and came home. Back to Primark I guess: at least their bras are cheap ... Why did Sloggi give up making my kind of bra in my kind of size? :confused:

[loopy_lass]

Well it's now March, so allegedly some time this month I will get a phone call offering me a date for my brain surgery (no I'm not joking, but it's minor in the grand scheme of things!)

Since this will be my longest hospital stay EVER - 5 days minimum - and the last was a long time ago, what tips can you all offer me? Moneysaving and other!

Someone elsewhere suggested slipper socks to keep feet warm, but I've got new slippers as well because I don't trust toilet floors anywhere (well would you if you lived in a house full of chaps?)

I also have new button up pyjamas in case there are tubes coming out of my head, and a silk dressing gown for lightness and warmth. Little pots of moisturiser and handcream are on hand, along with 'nice' lipsalves etc. What else should I shop for while I still can? ;) (It's excellent displacement therapy!)

i took some anti bacterial hand cleaning gel in with me, it cleans and sanitises your hands, (also gave the loo seat a quick wipe with it)... only a quid from boots..

kind regards for the op....

hth loops

[Savvy_Sue]

Found some bright pink flip flops allegedly in my size so I had to buy them, especially as they had decent non-slip soles on rather than those very flat slippery rubber ones. I cannot understand how anyone can WEAR these things all day: the thong between my toes HURTS and they are too tight over the rest of my feet. But at least I'll be able to dry them off on a towel, so I'll take them instead of the pink water shoes.

Wondering whether to put my name in all my bits and bobs - what are the chances of having TWO fans of bright pink accessories on the ward at once, I wonder? It's all quite distinctive!

[Savvy_Sue]

The letter has arrived, and just thought it would be worth mentioning that one of the things they say NOT to take in is any aerosols, eg hairspray or deodorant. Now doing a deodorant hunt as well as a bra hunt: deodorant I like can't be as hard to find as bras, can it? That's still really depressing ... Oh, and a nail file, I'm trying find a common or garden nail file, you know, the metal ones with a curved end. Obviously out of fashion these days ...

[moneynoviceat32]

I am sure others have put this one but I didn't see it, Wilkinsons do a pack of 40 antibacterial "nursery Surface wipes" for 79p gives 12 hour anti-bac protection from E-coli< Listeria and Salmonella so I guess it helps against other things too. My daughter spends lots of time in hospital and I always have two packs to clean everything when we arrive, taps, sinks, trolley tray thing (including the underneath) . Also I have decided the next time we go in I am going to get a laminated sign saying something along the lines of please wash your hands before touching her(in a polite way) this includes the people that just come in to do obs who sometimes forget( please don't anyone take that the wrong way and tell me off, it happens!) Good Luck x (just rereading the above and makes me sound a bit ott! and yes i do wash my hands 100 times a day, can't remember the medical name for it , I must be a manic somethingorother!)

[Savvy_Sue]

I am sure others have put this one but I didn't see it, Wilkinsons do a pack of 40 antibacterial "nursery Surface wipes" for 79p gives 12 hour anti-bac protection from E-coli< Listeria and Salmonella so I guess it helps against other things too. That's a good price: I'll sort through what I've got already but may add Wilkinsons to my 'Displacement Therapy Shopping Trips' list ... :D

(just rereading the above and makes me sound a bit ott! and yes i do wash my hands 100 times a day, can't remember the medical name for it , I must be a manic somethingorother!)OCD = Obsessive Compulsive Disorder - but I think we mothers are allowed to be OTT especially where sick children are concerned!

Thanks for your post!

[nearlyrich]

Savvy-Sue just want to add my good wishes to the others, hope it all goes well and you are back chatting with us before we realise you've gone. Good luck to your son for his driving test too.

[Savvy_Sue]

I wear my pink pyjamas in the summer when it's hot ... and I found a pair in Debenhams today which not only fit! in a size smaller than I expected!! but were reduced!!! Plus of course I had some discount vouchers, and I got another pair of pink pj bottoms to team with a shirt, and various other bits and bobs unrelated to my hospital stay, and the free chocolates, so I am happy! Plus I've found bras which fit in Primark and boy was I glad I was wearing one when I had my pre-op assessment because the Nurse Practitioner wanted to listen to my heart (which is still beating) and chest (I'm still breathing).

I am in fact in excellent health, apart from slightly raised BP which could be due to the excitement of having just been weighed and deciding I'm not obese, or just the fact that in a week's time they're going to hack into my head. Stressed, moi? Oh and the doctor doing the neurological assessment seemed to be having difficulty finding any reflexes ...

[Savvy_Sue]

Most of you will probably have seen my ravings elsewhere because the op's been postponed while I sort out my blood pressure ... Lots of help coming to me through the thread I started on BP: you moneysavers are a wonderful lot. Looks like I'll be around for a while longer ...

[Sofa_Sogood]

Most of you will probably have seen my ravings elsewhere because the op's been postponed while I sort out my blood pressure ... Lots of help coming to me through the thread I started on BP: you moneysavers are a wonderful lot. Looks like I'll be around for a while longer ...

Hi again :)

Sorry to hear about your BP and I doubt it's a case of "White coat Syndrome" ??

Anyway, I haven't read all of the posts, but as another afterthought, if no-one's mentioned it:

UNSUBSCRIBE from all but the main topics here :D

I can't imagine what your mailbox might look like otherwise. Unless you're the opposite of me and don't subscribe at all ;)

Good luck and best wishes and may everything be pink :D

(What's with the pink stuff anyway? lol)

[Savvy_Sue]

UNSUBSCRIBE from all but the main topics here :D

I can't imagine what your mailbox might look like otherwise. Unless you're the opposite of me and don't subscribe at all ;)I subscribe to a few things, either threads I've started or others I want answers to! Occasionally ones I think I can make a meaningful contribution to or just want to keep an eye on ('cos I'm nosy ...) But it's a good tip! I have been spending less time on here lately, but it's hard!

Good luck and best wishes and may everything be pink :D

(What's with the pink stuff anyway? lol)I happen to like pink. Not pale, wishy washy pink but the fuschia pink or the bright fluorescent pink. Now seems a good time to indulge myself! PLUS, since I doubt I can be bothered to put a name in everything school journey style, I feel it will be helpful for all concerned that if I drop or lose anything anyone will see it and think "I wonder who that belongs to? Could it possibly be the madwoman with the pink fetish?" :D

I have also acquired a very thik and cuddly pink dressing gown, which the chaps at home are not overjoyed about, and they may have a point as I have described it elsewhere as almost bright enough to read by! Yesterday I was seduced by pink trousers in Primark ... but I have resisted the perfect handbag, which does come in colours other than bright pink which would probably be my preference since I don't want it to clash with my dark red winter coat, but all colours come with a cute little monkey keyring.

I'll keep taking the tablets, shall I?

Thanks for your good wishes!

[Sofa_Sogood]

Savvy_Sue?

You're really Nina Myscow aren't you? She can't go a day without fuschia pink either :eek:

Own up or keep taking the tablets. :D

I've got a great bag that would have done you (what for I don't know lol), but it arrived in a box of Karl Lagerfeld stuff I bought (still in the box too :o )

P.S. Do NOT take in a pair of pink Primark trousers. The specialist's might need to look at you twice ;) Pink & Primark?

Tut Tut ;)

Seriously now. Have they ruled out 'White Coat Syndrome' for your BP?

[Savvy_Sue]

Savvy_Sue?

You're really Nina Myscow aren't you? She can't go a day without fuschia pink either :eek:

Own up or keep taking the tablets. :DWho? :confused: Sorry, I'm fairly culturally challenged ... Right, have found a picture, still don't know her although I might recognise her voice, especially if she's ever guested on The Archers. :rotfl:

I guess I'll keep taking the tablets ... but I can go SOME days without pink, honest!

I've got a great bag that would have done you (what for I don't know lol), but it arrived in a box of Karl Lagerfeld stuff I bought (still in the box too :o )I'm jealous! :D Although I have until now resisted pink bags, except occasionally as shopping bags, and right now a pink handbag would definitely clash with my coat which is not pink but dark red.

P.S. Do NOT take in a pair of pink Primark trousers. The specialist's might need to look at you twice ;) Pink & Primark?Primark have very good taste in pink, and the beauty of it is you know it won't last forever and ever and ever! I've been resisting their pink cut-offs for a couple of years now! :rotfl:

Seriously now. Have they ruled out 'White Coat Syndrome' for your BP?Not really, and it's certainly far higher whenever it's taken with one of those ghastly electronic machines! But anyway, even it is 'White Coat Syndrome', I suspect they need to treat it because there's no point me having really low bp at home if it's going to shoot up the moment I get near the hospital. Plus, I'm a lady of a certain age, a couple of stone overweight, whose mother has had really high bp for over 30 years - I have to admit I could have high bp and the only reason I have ignored all the magazine articles recommending I get it checked along with my cholesterol etc etc etc is that I take an "ignore it and it might get better" approach to health most of the time - which usually works, in fact! - and I certainly don't want to become a health freak / bore, which I'm certainly in danger of doing these days!

anyway, thanks for the thought, a colleague is lending me a machine this week (I'm taking a week off but we're all meeting up for breakfast which at least gets me out of bed!) and we'll see if it's WCS or not. However a friend said she borrowed a machine for a week, had nice low readings, and they promptly added something to them "because your readings are always lower at home"! !!! Seems you just can't win ...

[Savvy_Sue]

Only I know I won't be able to wash my hair for several days post-op, and I haven't seen dry shampoo for ages, and when I last used it it was gross, would rather stay greasy! But Boots mentioned it in their mag, special offer on some. Although having looked it may be an aerosol which won't be any good anyway since you're not supposed to take aerosols in.

But is dry shampoo any good, or do I just need a pink scarf or six to cover up?

[furrypig]

Just read all this thread...phew!!

So sorry you still don't have a date for the op', especially after all your excellent preparation.

I am due to have surgery (hopefully) in the summer and (hopefully again) will only be in overnight but all these tips posted here are really useful and sensible.

Although I am a nurse/midwife I haven't worked on the wards for years and you forget what an experience it can be, though I have been in hospital myself several times.

Good luck with it all and keep us up to date x x x

[Luis]

Sue,

I would take scarves and cover up! In the grand scale of things, a few days of grotty hair is probably going to be the least of your worries!

Luis x

[Savvy_Sue]

I would take scarves and cover up! In the grand scale of things, a few days of grotty hair is probably going to be the least of your worries!How true ... I hadn't got as far as looking at it that way! Good excuse to indulge in a few more nice scarves, methinks, they might get mucky ... found another silk shirt in a charity shop yesterday, need something to do to keep me out of mischief while I'm waiting. :rotfl:

Furrypig, best of luck for your surgery too, my advice would be to get your BP checked now if you don't know it already because if you need to get it down it's a lot easier when you're not stressed to the eyeballs because your op's just been postponed!

[Sofa_Sogood]

Hi Savvy Sue:D

Nina's another sign of me showing my age - I just recall her as someone in fuschia who was on panels judging people. And an author of something. Seem to remember she had 'attitude' and an 'overbite'. (That might not be the proper technical name, and maybe she didn't lol, but let's say she had a strange chin :confused: ) (I daren't say anymore because when I Googled to jog my memory - it led me back here :D )

Didn't know about Primark btw, but I don't think there's one near me. In fact, there's nothing near me now lol, but I see references to Primark now and then and some people seem to look down on the place. Wherever it is :confused: That'll teach me not to believe everything I read ;)

But back on track. Have to agree with Luis about the scarves. How about practising beforehand with some nice pashmina type things? Maybe knotted at the side that won't hurt? I'm sure the nurses will know what I'm talking about, or I'll try and find a picture of what I mean. Trendy type stuff ;) Like retro 40's. (I'm only guessing there - I'm not that old btw lol).

And furry? Good luck! :D

[Sofa_Sogood]

Whoops, my memory's going again ;)

I think with the WCS, it helped if you went in hospital early - but I imagine that's not really an option nowadays?

[Savvy_Sue]

Didn't know about Primark btw, but I don't think there's one near me. In fact, there's nothing near me now lol, but I see references to Primark now and then and some people seem to look down on the place. Wherever it is :confused: That'll teach me not to believe everything I read ;)Well, whatever anyone says about Primark, it's CHEAP. Some of what they sell is also tacky, ghastly, hideous. And the quality's not brilliant and a bit variable. I wouldn't always admit to buying clothes from there for myself, but if someone says "What lovely trousers!", then I will. I'm often in there buying underwear for work (probably best not to ask!) - 7 pairs of knickers for £4, 5 pairs for socks for £2, matching bra and pants for £4. Why pay more?

But back on track. Have to agree with Luis about the scarves. How about practising beforehand with some nice pashmina type things? Maybe knotted at the side that won't hurt? I'm sure the nurses will know what I'm talking about, or I'll try and find a picture of what I mean. Trendy type stuff ;) Like retro 40's. (I'm only guessing there - I'm not that old btw lol).I already have a selection of scarves, different shapes, so I shall start practising now. I do a good "Queen walking round her estates on a cold winter morning" variation, and also "Russian peasant woman down the market" with square ones. Will see what can be achieved with the long ones: have a gorgeous gold chiffon, free with Prima or some such last winter, and a pink one (of course) which usually lives in my coat pocket for cold days when I've left my hat at home, and a blue crinkly one ... Will also have to match them up with the silk blouses and pj bottoms to work out what goes together, can't be clashing with myself, now can I? ;)

[Sofa_Sogood]

Thanks Savvy-Sue

At your expense, I've found a small niche :)

Now will you s*d off to hospital and get back to us all? :D

P.S. Everything I see that's pink - I think about you! Apart from Primark. (I live in the sticks - sorry lol)

I'm nuts, you're not.

Go to hospital, and soon ;)

And get back soon!

:) ;)

[Sofa_Sogood]

Well, whatever anyone says about Primark, it's CHEAP. Some of what they sell is also tacky, ghastly, hideous. And the quality's not brilliant and a bit variable. I wouldn't always admit to buying clothes from there for myself, but if someone says "What lovely trousers!", then I will. I'm often in there buying underwear for work (probably best not to ask!) - 7 pairs of knickers for £4, 5 pairs for socks for £2, matching bra and pants for £4. Why pay more?

I already have a selection of scarves, different shapes, so I shall start practising now. I do a good "Queen walking round her estates on a cold winter morning" variation, and also "Russian peasant woman down the market" with square ones. Will see what can be achieved with the long ones: have a gorgeous gold chiffon, free with Prima or some such last winter, and a pink one (of course) which usually lives in my coat pocket for cold days when I've left my hat at home, and a blue crinkly one ... Will also have to match them up with the silk blouses and pj bottoms to work out what goes together, can't be clashing with myself, now can I? ;)

Blah blah blah etc.

I didn't know where to snip it, you were waxing so lyrically :rolleyes:

Just dress in pink everything - and good luck :D

[Savvy_Sue]

Now will you s*d off to hospital and get back to us all? :DIf only! Phoned the hospital on Friday, got the secretary I know, who is always extra helpful, and she says there are NO operating slots until towards the end of May, and then there's another a fortnight later, but they're not the kind I would normally be booked into, although I was in one of them last time. The consultant has to decide on when I go in, he's not around very much, so all she can do is leave a message saying how p*ssed off I am (helpfully she didn't use those words).

The only good part about that was I felt it gave me time to reduce my medication - if GP agreed - as I was feeling so ghastly. What happens Friday night? My BP is raised. Not hugely, still within acceptable limits, but definitely up on what's become 'normal' for that time of day. Wonder if I'm stressed? :rolleyes:

P.S. Everything I see that's pink - I think about you! Apart from Primark. (I live in the sticks - sorry lol)I'm touched. But it's getting silly now: I've got to get into hospital because I keep going shopping looking for things which might be nice or useful or de-stressing... I bought a pink purse (mine was broken, honest!) and some black silk trousers yesterday!

[Sofa_Sogood]

My memory does need seeing to .... 4 quid for 7 pairs of knickers? :beer: I missed that the 1st time around.

Good money-saving tip ;)

Btw, I think you'll still be dishing out pink coloured money saving hints for a few weeks judging by what's gone on so far Savvy Sue :(

But as long as you're ok, I'm ok, and money savers are ok. :D OK? lol

(I've seen some lovely pink Christmas trees somewhere, but will you be cured by then? ;)

Seriously. Money savers reading this must be wondering what's really wrong with our hospitals ..... again.

[Sofa_Sogood]

Wonder if I'm stressed? :rolleyes:

I'm touched. But it's getting silly now: I've got to get into hospital because I keep going shopping looking for things which might be nice or useful or de-stressing... I bought a pink purse (mine was broken, honest!) and some black silk trousers yesterday!

Oh oh. You're so stressed you're gonna look like a cast off for Olivia Newton John in "Grease" if you're shopping for stuff like that :eek:

;) :D

Have you unpacked everything? ;)

[Savvy_Sue]

Have you unpacked everything? ;)I never packed it properly: it's a 'work in progress'. But I sorted out the cupboard it's all thrown into the other day so I know I can find it all again now.

Back to Primark knickers. They've actually got some thongs which are £3.50 for 7 pairs, and last time they changed the range I was getting 7 pairs of the 'old' colours for £2! I haven't costed their 'full-size' ones, I prefer significantly more fabric in my undies, really can't imagine how anyone gets through the day in a thong...

Off to take my blood pressure ...

[Sofa_Sogood]

Well you know what they say about thongs don't you Savvy_Sue? ;)

And I'll have to find one of these Primarks - there'll be one someone near me, I'm sure :)

But back to the subject in hand.

Have you packed a diary ..........




.............for 2006? :D

(I'd ask for a pound a day for every day you're waiting!)

[ET03]

this has been very helpful
my son is due in hospital for a major operation and as he is disabled I will be staying with him to care for him, the ideas here have been great as I will need to pack for us both,
the hospital he is going to is too far away for me to travel home very often

[Savvy_Sue]

this has been very helpful
my son is due in hospital for a major operation and as he is disabled I will be staying with him to care for him, the ideas here have been great as I will need to pack for us both,
the hospital he is going to is too far away for me to travel home very oftenOh good, I am glad it has been helpful for someone other than me! Hope his op goes well and that your hospital stay is as comfy as possible. I'm still waiting for a date ...

All the best!

[Savvy_Sue]

I'm very grateful to all those who suggested bedsocks, and so is my DH. I know it's supposed to be May, and I know it's a side effect of the medication I'm taking for my blood pressure, but my feet have been so cold for the last few nights that the bedsocks have come out of the 'ready for hospital if it ever happens bag' and onto my feet.

Actually 'cold' is not the right word: they have been like blocks of unmeltable ice, my usual trick of tucking them up close to DH has been a complete failure and the night before I got the bedsocks out I couldn't get off to sleep because they were so cold. I would never have thought of them, and they are definitely coming into hospital with me, whatever else gets left behind!

[ET03]

Oh good, I am glad it has been helpful for someone other than me! Hope his op goes well and that your hospital stay is as comfy as possible. I'm still waiting for a date ...

All the best!
thanks for youre good wishes
although my son is normally placid and cheerful he does get very stressed in hospital and also is very wary of strangers even nurses so as the hosp is so far from home it makes sense to saty with himhttp://img.moneysavingexpert.com/icons/icon7.gif

[Savvy_Sue]

although my son is normally placid and cheerful he does get very stressed in hospital and also is very wary of strangers even nurses so as the hosp is so far from home it makes sense to saty with himhttp://img.moneysavingexpert.com/icons/icon7.gifWho can blame him? I am usually placid and cheerful as well, but right now you can almost see my blood pressure rise when you mention 'hospitals' to me ... :rotfl:

[trace-j]

I'm hoping I could tag on to this thread for a question I have about my dad who is recovering in hospital from major op on his neck to remove lymp glands and thyroid because of cancer.He's a bit down after 4 days post op- he's being fed through a tube in his nose and breathing through a Tracheostomy. Both are temporary, but it's looking he'll have them for the rest of the month. His movement is also limited because of low blood pressure and frozen shoulders.To cheer him up I was going to take advantage of the fact the hospital delivers patients mail to their beds. I has hoping to write on a regular basis but wanted to send various things to chivvy him on, anything that makes him laugh is good not only for the obvious but also helps him clear his lungs. Any suggestions (obviously no food)?

[Savvy_Sue]

Read your contribution on the 'Get Fit for hospital stay' thread as well, was going to post that a friend had similar surgery for similar reason a year or so back - very scary as he was quite young! He made a good recovery, the scar was awesome! Hugs to you, and your dad.

Has he got a CD player with him? If he has, can you pick up some funny CDs that he might enjoy and send them on? Maybe on Freecycle or Amazon Marketplace, maybe things like Hancocks Half Hour, Flanders and Swann, thinking of things I enjoyed listening to with my parents (because I don't know how old your Dad might be).

Books of cartoons might be good too, because if his concentration isn't up to following a whole book he might manage a cartoon. There are various sites where you can download cartoons as well, maybe you could print one off and send one every time you write? My Dad's into Fred Bassett and I know you can get books of those.

I don't know if you're into Pigsback: there's a thread about it on the Freebies board. Without spending any money I've quite quickly got enough points to order three stress piggies for my sons. There are all sorts of silly things there which would make me laugh! Only thing is it can take a week or so for things you've ordered to arrive.

Will add anything else I think of ...

[trace-j]

Thanks Sue, hope you're better now. I sent him a letter full of random stuff of whats been happening e.g. house, job etc (is boring to me but is what he would ask about). Also sent him some packs of Oral B rip strips since he can't brush his teeth properly (funny how something I've considered pointless for ages now has its value). He's already got an mp3 player and were smuggling in a mini TV tonight so he hasn't got to pay for the ripoff hospital one!His concentration isn't up to much yet, but I'll scout around for some cartoons and topical sketches and start a scrapbook. Thanks for the suggestions.

[Savvy_Sue]

Ah yes, I had a whole bag full of things to make me feel good, in small sizes, it may not be particularly 'manly' but the air can be so dry in hospital that maybe he'd like a little tin of Vaseline (99p from chemists!) - just make sure you wrap it well! - or a small thing of handcream, you can get quite 'blokey' ones now I think, or even some 'proper' men's facial moisturiser. I know my father and DH would be pretty horrified by the idea of 'makeup for men', but it might also make your dad laugh at the idea of 'grooming', but if you explain that you thought his face might feel dry and itchy? Also, don't know if he usually shaves, and if he does when he'll be able to start again, but maybe pre-shaving cream or something like that to help get the stubble off, I don't really know what I'm talking about in that dept because DH is bearded!

As well as the teeth cleaning strips (I had some of them as well!) maybe flossing sticks, even if he doesn't usually use them? I don't get on at all well with floss as floss, but you can get floss on a disposable P-shaped plastic stick, with a pointy end, so it doubles as a toothpick.

I think what I used most was my lipsalve! That and the Vaseline ...

If you're going to visit, can you take him some little gifts that he can keep to open later? Maybe one a day until your next planned visit. And if he is having other visitors, would they be from people who could maybe massage some oil or cream into his poor shoulders? Don't know if he'll want to be touched or be able to move for that ... And will he maybe be able to chew some chewing gum soon? Can't imagine what it would be like not being able to eat - although after my op I didn't really feel like eating so most of my food treats came home again!

Of course I did a lot of pre-op shopping, over a long period, so didn't pass a charity shop without going in and seeing if there was something 'nice' or 'useful' in there. Or a branch of Boots - got lots of bargains with my Boots points! :rotfl:

(I am pretty much fine now, btw)

And I've just remembered, among the less useful gifts from my colleagues was one of those pompoms that cheerleaders use, their theory was that I could wave it at the nurses when I wanted anything! It made me laugh if nothing else!

Oh, and I did use a portable Ioniser quite a lot last summer: got one cheapy cheap from Boots and I did think it made me feel better. Might be worth looking out for one of those: it hung round my neck like a pendant. I'm wearing it in these photos (http://www.hazelden.org.uk/news/news_sue_pictures.htm), where you can also see the pom-pom ...

Have rabbited on enough, hope your dad is feeling better by the day.

[L D N]

My dad has been in and out of hospital for various ops and we have now got a standard essentials pack. Soz if someone else has already mentioned these:
antiseptic wipes, antiseptic no water hand gel, magicool spray (for when you can't cool down and they have run out of fans) - this was a godsend for Dad, your own favourite juice, might want to consider bottled water as the jugs are usually just rinsed under cold tap each day, small amount of loose change for papers etc. When you go in buy your phone / TV card if the hospital runs that service.

Don't be afraid of asking any of the staff to wash their hands - you'd be amazed how many don't - you notice this as a visitor more than as a patient.

Best of luck, hope it all goes well for you.

Lorraine

[Savvy_Sue]

magicool spray (for when you can't cool down and they have run out of fans) - this was a godsend for Dad, Those were all good suggestions, but before taking a magicool spray in, check that aerosols are allowed - I know my hospital list said no aerosols. I guess it's partly the fire hazard when they're thrown away, and partly the risk of triggering an asthma attack if anyone's susceptible.

If Magicool is off the menu, another good way of cooling down is an ordinary plant spray bottle with tap water in! I bought one of those with a little battery operated fan on top for 99p last year, you could fan and spray at the same time! Very good until the blades fell off the fan ...